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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did once, and pretty damn sure it was reciprocated, but we lived too far apart and it was just not meant to be. I dont regret it for a moment though."
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over a year ago
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited? "
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now |
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now"
It will pass, don't worry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now
It will pass, don't worry "
The block button may have to come in |
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now
It will pass, don't worry
The block button may have to come in"
It's only a click away and easily reversible if you change your mind. Do what you think is right, you deserve to be happy as does everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now
It will pass, don't worry
The block button may have to come in
It's only a click away and easily reversible if you change your mind. Do what you think is right, you deserve to be happy as does everyone "
I’m not gf hence why every guy cheated on me, the block button is the safest option lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my last partner on fab
We were just here for single people. Him, women, me men. Wasn't looking for any romance of any kind. It just happend. Was with him for 14 amazing months. Sadly things didn't work out  |
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Yes, I most definitely wasn’t looking for love just sex. We met for pizza while he was up north because we’d had a few exchanges on the forum. It’s nice to put faces to the posts. Next thing you know it’s over 2 years later and we love each other very much  |
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited? "
Love, maybe not quite, but damned close.
We talked.
It was one sided.
We remain amazing friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly yes. I didn't think i would regret it as at the time i was very happy. Knowing what i know now, i regret it.
I am a different person now, but i am close to say i wish i never met him. Something i never thought i would feel for someone i loved. |
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Not been on here long but I'm going to say I never will? I'm great at controlling my emotions, and love is a pretty big thing.
Most confused list and love which is why lots of relationships break down after only a short time.
But lust is great, as long as you manage it well and know exactly what it is. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes I have. We're engaged so I think it's reciprocated. I hope so.
I do love a couple of the people I've met through here but it's not the traditional love that people think of when you talk about it. Love is such a small word and unable to truly encompass all of the meanings of it.
I know quite a few people who have developed feelings for someone on this site and to varying degrees handled it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. And for a shott time it was great. Somewhat annoyingly I failed to notice she was a lying manipulative cheat and she is the only person I've ever been involved with that I have no goodwill towards and would not acknowledge her if she was in the same room as me.
And for those who remember my longstanding couples profile, that's not who I'm talking about! |
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now"
Nah...shoot him instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone just over two months ago and it’s going very well. You could say we are pretty much in a relationship now and spend at least 3 days a week together. We both wanted different things but it seems we are inseparable now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yarp....
love of a different sort though maybe, he knows too much to be enemies lol
I would ‘love’ for it to work but I know deep down it won’t so instead of throwing my toys out the pram, I’m Happy being just who we are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, more fool me! Deep down I knew nothing was going to come of it but some of us can't help how we feel. Learnt the hard way just what he really thought as he treated me like shit because of it and of the things he said to me. Nothing but a repulsive, controlling and manipulative person who is also a compulsive liar. Took me a long time to realise I dodged a bullet, with the advice of a number of people on here. Now, I can't thank them enough for that advice  x |
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"I met someone just over two months ago and it’s going very well. You could say we are pretty much in a relationship now and spend at least 3 days a week together. We both wanted different things but it seems we are inseparable now. "
That sounds really great..it can be funny how things turn out. I wish you both the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone developed feelings or fallen for someone they met on Fab? How did you deal with it? Was it reciprocated or unrequited?
Yep going through it now, I’m so stupid for falling, but it’s only one sided, he says what I want to hear then ignores me, mind games but I can’t help falling for him- shoot me now"
Been there, done that....I feel for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met someone just over two months ago and it’s going very well. You could say we are pretty much in a relationship now and spend at least 3 days a week together. We both wanted different things but it seems we are inseparable now.
That sounds really great..it can be funny how things turn out. I wish you both the best."
Thank you. We are both from the same town in Devon but now live 2 stops from each other in London. Similar age but I’ve always dated much younger so that’s been different. He’s not a swinger and I wanted to meet a swinger and he possibly wanted kids and I don’t but here we are and loving getting to know each other and spending more and more time together. It’s not even based on sex, that’s pretty much secondary to everything we do. |
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"I met someone just over two months ago and it’s going very well. You could say we are pretty much in a relationship now and spend at least 3 days a week together. We both wanted different things but it seems we are inseparable now.
That sounds really great..it can be funny how things turn out. I wish you both the best.
Thank you. We are both from the same town in Devon but now live 2 stops from each other in London. Similar age but I’ve always dated much younger so that’s been different. He’s not a swinger and I wanted to meet a swinger and he possibly wanted kids and I don’t but here we are and loving getting to know each other and spending more and more time together. It’s not even based on sex, that’s pretty much secondary to everything we do. "
That's exciting and heart warming. It takes more than sex to complete a relationship so it being secondary I think is a good thing. I'm a sucker for a happy ending x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I most definitely wasn’t looking for love just sex. We met for pizza while he was up north because we’d had a few exchanges on the forum. It’s nice to put faces to the posts. Next thing you know it’s over 2 years later and we love each other very much "
Aww
Similar story here. I persuaded him to come to the Manchester lounge social and I thought I will never meet him again so we decided to make a weekend out of it because he had to travel so far. We became FWBs, then couple. Next month it's 2 years we are together and I moved to the other side of country to live with him. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me. |
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I did once 5 years ago newby in fab, fell in love after finding the most amazing sex of my life.. we came off fab were together a year when I was at a family wedding and my d*unk nephew decided to show me a site he was using to pick up girls.. at first I had a chuckle when I saw him sign into fab then that turned to a nitemare when my gf appeared in the list of locals online with verifications to say this little lady knew what she wanted etc.. what an idiot I had been she tried everything including telling me she was only on here because she thought I might be!! The worst thing was I asked her to do couple stuff on fab and she had said no as she didn't want me to enjoy other women when we should be exclusive.. it was her idea for us to come off fab after meeting lol.. It was a lesson and I'm very good at keeping sexual desires & needs separate from love now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love at first sight across a carpark i had to have her the lightning was like nothing id ever felt before altho at the time i was in denial now i accept it as it was |
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Yes, fell totally in love with an amazing lady who contacted me through fab. Had an 18 month intense affair but other pressures and difficulties got in the way.
Still love her as a best friend and think the word of her. We meet up at least once a week as BFFs and would go back to what we had in a heartbeat |
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream  "
Thought you was keeping that quiet for now. Spoilt the surprise now for them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream "
I'm suited ready for this wedding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding  "
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round "
Hope the groom has got some nice friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
Thought you was keeping that quiet for now. Spoilt the surprise now for them!"
Can I have _ookie46 as my present? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
Hope the groom has got some nice friends "
Ooooh he has  |
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round "
All done date set. Will post nearer the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somebody off here fell for me, a Captain in the Army. I really liked him a lot and our time together was fun but he knew my situation and, in the end, I had to cut ties for his sake. Four years down the line, he is now married but contacted me a few weeks ago via a new profile on here asking to meet again. We are chatting, but I'm not going to start it all over again, I can't take the stress. My god though he is the best looking, fittest and nicest guy I have ever met on here and the sex was incredible but that's all I want from him, and he just can't handle it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
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im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come "
What! You’re my page boy! |
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come
What! You’re my page boy!"
I need a best man too!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come
What! You’re my page boy!
I need a best man too!!!"
That fit mate of yours will do! |
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come
What! You’re my page boy!
I need a best man too!!!
That fit mate of yours will do! "
Nooooooo! The other ladies will smother him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any fab weddings coming up. Bet they would be a cracking do!!
Shall we have one where shall we go? Could invite all of fab. Be a right scream
I love a good wedding
There’d be cheesy music and no posh wedding breakfast. Fish and chips all round
All done date set. Will post nearer the time!
im not coming im busy that day and i dont want to come
What! You’re my page boy!"
Nope try again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my FWB and it's reciprocated. We both understand we can't be together full time but we have great vanilla times together and visit the club together (as singles) and both meet separately.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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There are some people i've met here I love to pieces but in a "friend for life" fashion. I have met a few people that I could've have fallen for if my mindset was different from the one I currently have. They possess numerous endearing qualities that make them relationship material. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
Oh sorry to read that. I didn’t know. Nice to see you back. I’ve only had genghis to argue with!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
Welcome back buddy and I agree |
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
why not indeed and welcome back x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
I'm sorry things didn't work out. Hoping a fresh start is a happy and productive one |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not?
Oh sorry to read that. I didn’t know. Nice to see you back. I’ve only had genghis to argue with!! xx"
*rolls up sleeves* |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not?
why not indeed and welcome back x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
Sorry dude u is a good bloke |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not?
I'm sorry things didn't work out. Hoping a fresh start is a happy and productive one "
Thanks, not so much a fresh start but it's good to be recognised |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not?
Sorry dude u is a good bloke "
Thanks.
I think I'm in danger of derailing the thread here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not? "
Sorry to read that. Hope you’re both doing ok. Welcome back xx |
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Suppose it all depends on the individuals and what they want. Some have found it on here other's keep it in check and know the score if they meet regular. But life's a funny game of ups and downs. No one knows what life will throw at you. Could be good could be bad. Nobody knows what each day will bring but just enjoy it to its fullest and do what makes you happy. |
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"Yes I have, as can be garnered from my single profile, it didn't work out but that's not to say that fab can't work as a way to meet someone.
If you're both open to the idea and it happens, why not?
Oh sorry to read that. I didn’t know. Nice to see you back. I’ve only had genghis to argue with!! xx
*rolls up sleeves*"
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Tmi you two. Get a room. 