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Do women message men first ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Some women don't feel the need to, others want to and do so OP.
There aren't that many women on here, yes. GM normally has some wise words about taking away some men who do something and the numbers even out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
i never send first messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say I never have......
Not even a wink....?
No....not even a wink, "
Shit, did I message you first in the olden days then? I thought I was cooler than that....  |
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"I can honestly say I never have......
Not even a wink....?
No....not even a wink,
Shit, did I message you first in the olden days then? I thought I was cooler than that.... "
You did kid.....that was a long time ago....before you got all loved up |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
Yes they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say I never have......
Not even a wink....?
No....not even a wink,
Shit, did I message you first in the olden days then? I thought I was cooler than that....
You did kid.....that was a long time ago....before you got all loved up "
I am kinda loved up, away from fab. I think you missed an issue of the fab news a few months ago on the demise of snx my lovely
Can't believe I cracked on the messaging mind, smh..... Xx |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"If a guys text and pictures draw me in and gives me something to work with, then yes I will messages first. "
Bare in mind most men's profiles are either shockingly poor or they are so closed that they don't even give you an opener! So men take a look at your own and have a think  |
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"If a guys text and pictures draw me in and gives me something to work with, then yes I will messages first.
Bare in mind most men's profiles are either shockingly poor or they are so closed that they don't even give you an opener! So men take a look at your own and have a think "
Yes, this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
Couples also lol  |
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"If a guys text and pictures draw me in and gives me something to work with, then yes I will messages first.
Bare in mind most men's profiles are either shockingly poor or they are so closed that they don't even give you an opener! So men take a look at your own and have a think "
.....glad I'm not one of the most then.....   |
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"It does happens but only when Jupiter is aligned with the blue moon over New Zealand"
That's specifically what I waited for to message you first. The timing of me mocking you for being in trouble was entirely a coincidence of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I like being chased
I think i have done maybe couple of times as they were outside my normal age range. And surprise, surprise none of these worked out!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
Nope never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you could be on to something here... And it would certainly rule out the pestering women complain of so much if the women had to message the men first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you could be on to something here... And it would certainly rule out the pestering women complain of so much if the women had to message the men first "
If that happen , might as well close account, as never had first message from a female, plus when your fat with ginger beard ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you could be on to something here... And it would certainly rule out the pestering women complain of so much if the women had to message the men first
If that happen , might as well close account, as never had first message from a female, plus when your fat with ginger beard ha ha "
Everyone has a type dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you could be on to something here... And it would certainly rule out the pestering women complain of so much if the women had to message the men first
If that happen , might as well close account, as never had first message from a female, plus when your fat with ginger beard ha ha "
Don't put yourself down, you're hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you could be on to something here... And it would certainly rule out the pestering women complain of so much if the women had to message the men first
If that happen , might as well close account, as never had first message from a female, plus when your fat with ginger beard ha ha
Everyone has a type dude "
Totally agree I am what I am, I know am great guy , but what I ment was , I do enjoy chatting to female on here so if they had to message first couldn’t, I’ve had some great crack on here , oh and conned once pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don’t think i’m the type of gal a fella on here would welcome a message from. So i don’t.
That way i’m not dissapointed."
Why what type of girl are you lol,
Any fella on here would be chuffe to get a first message from lady as just don’t happen often, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don’t think i’m the type of gal a fella on here would welcome a message from. So i don’t.
That way i’m not dissapointed.
Why what type of girl are you lol,
Any fella on here would be chuffe to get a first message from lady as just don’t happen often, "
Exactly it's exciting to get a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don’t think i’m the type of gal a fella on here would welcome a message from. So i don’t.
That way i’m not dissapointed.
Why what type of girl are you lol,
Any fella on here would be chuffe to get a first message from lady as just don’t happen often,
Exactly it's exciting to get a message. "
See rest my case!! And little confidence boost |
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"Ok gents let’s take a poll list the number of messages you have received off a lady since you been on here......
Big 0 to start "
I get more messages from women than I send. About 6-8 in the last couple of weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok gents let’s take a poll list the number of messages you have received off a lady since you been on here......
Big 0 to start
I get more messages from women than I send. About 6-8 in the last couple of weeks. "
Then you my friend are one lucky man!
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"Ok gents let’s take a poll list the number of messages you have received off a lady since you been on here......
Big 0 to start
I get more messages from women than I send. About 6-8 in the last couple of weeks. "
I’ve just counted. 10 in the last 3 weeks. Mostly from forum users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok gents let’s take a poll list the number of messages you have received off a lady since you been on here......
Big 0 to start
I get more messages from women than I send. About 6-8 in the last couple of weeks.
You wanna rewrite my profile and photo shop pictures lol
I’ve just counted. 10 in the last 3 weeks. Mostly from forum users. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
Ye I message guys first sometimes
If I'm interested I message - why wouldn't ya? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message first, sometimes because I like a photo or their profile but manly because I'd like to meet them.
Have met a few after I sent the first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I message first, sometimes because I like a photo or their profile but manly because I'd like to meet them.
Have met a few after I sent the first message. "
now that's what i call a figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to when I had a single profile before I met Mr. Not always to meet for sex, as some have been too far away, but some have amazing profiles so send a compliment xx |
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
I've been messaged first about forum related nonsense.
Never had a potential meet-related first message from a woman.
For balance, I rarely send first messages either.
It kind of evens out. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
What makes you send a message to someone.
Pictures, profile text, common interests?
Some ladies are proactive and use the search facility and initiate contact.. I've always thought this sensible as they (like me ) know far better what it is they seek than the description words on a screen provide.
Those that don't search themselves may or may not find what they seek in their box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had very few tbh! I just think they are so inundated with messages that there is no time to search.
I think it’s hard to see the wood through the trees. There’s plenty of metaphors in that one haha !
It’s just my view, do tell me if I’m wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok gents let’s take a poll list the number of messages you have received off a lady since you been on here......
Big 0 to start "
1 apart from some who didn't agree with me in a forum, but one first message.
Most have been from ladies to tell me they're not interested after I messaged them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is not a moan just an observation . In the spirit of the post title . Years on the scene we have never been received message initiated by female . Hey ho lol
Yes and their may be many reasons for that so guys your not alone lol |
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"Ok so everyone knows that men massively out number women so I have always wondered why more women don’t message guys first ? This would make the whole thing a little more exiting for people like me who never get an inbox first from a woman .
I’ve had a few couples chat
And lots of interest from the guys
Always wondered is there really that few women on here ?"
Yes indeed they do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few will text first unless they already met or he’s absolutely a God ...old school values I suppose  "
A God? Talk about exaggeration;-)
But just wanted to say for me it is a bit about old school values, quite right. |
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"Very few will text first unless they already met or he’s absolutely a God ...old school values I suppose
A God? Talk about exaggeration;-)
But just wanted to say for me it is a bit about old school values, quite right. "
I dont really like the concepts behind some old school values
I like to treat humans fairly and equally
I see a woman as my equal , no power games and expect her to be similar
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