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Both?
Everyone is different, they want and need different things and they submit to another for different reasons.
I don't think you can pin it down to a personality type, some of the most dominant people in everyday life are submissive in private and vice versa. |
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"Both?
Everyone is different, they want and need different things and they submit to another for different reasons.
I don't think you can pin it down to a personality type, some of the most dominant people in everyday life are submissive in private and vice versa. "
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"It suits those who want to be its not one specific type why should it be.
I dont mean any disrespect by it, was just wondering if it suited one type of person more than another "
I think there might be common characteristics but I don't think there's a type as such. |
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Both and from all walks of life. Anyone who knows their mind, heart and desires would not willingly surrender them self to any Tom, Dick or Harry. So it's not just a simple case of wanting to be owned. To be owned also requires finding someone who just feels natural in that role, caring and is worthy of such trust. And there in lies the difficulty. |
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"Both and from all walks of life. Anyone who knows their mind, heart and desires would not willingly surrender them self to any Tom, Dick or Harry. So it's not just a simple case of wanting to be owned. To be owned also requires finding someone who just feels natural in that role, caring and is worthy of such trust. And there in lies the difficulty. "
This is one of the best answers I've ever read on it. We didn't seek to have a D/s relationship it grew naturally with time and trust. |
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"I think sometimes people just want to hand over control and not having to make many decisions other than those about what they want to eat etc "
Being owned doesn't need to mean that. My dom doesn't micro manage my life in any way at all. He supports me and he's there for me to talk to and to ask for advice but I make my own decisions. I think some people do want what you describe, esp in terms of abducting emotional responsibility. The whole Daddy thing is a magnet for women like that. But being an owned sub doesn't mean not managing and running your own life. |
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