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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

When did being picky about what your searching for become a negative approach??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It isn't - for you. For others, it may seem to be but that doesn't matter - you do what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's only negative if those people don't fit in what you are after. Just ignore them

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not, unless you're derogatory towards those you're not looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's only negative if those people don't fit in what you are after. Just ignore them"

Will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not, unless you're derogatory towards those you're not looking for. "

I’m always polite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Picky isn't the same as being selective. There's a difference. And picky has always been a negative trait

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Picky isn't the same as being selective. There's a difference. And picky has always been a negative trait "

Really how is that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Picky isn't the same as being selective. There's a difference. And picky has always been a negative trait

Really how is that "

Picky has negative connotations. It's almost always used to describe undesirable behaviour... children being called picky eaters is one such example.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's nice when you say sorry your not for me but happy fabbing and have a good day....Then they send a message back saying....Stuck up slut x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's nice when you say sorry your not for me but happy fabbing and have a good day....Then they send a message back saying....Stuck up slut x "

Now that’s just being rude

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"It's nice when you say sorry your not for me but happy fabbing and have a good day....Then they send a message back saying....Stuck up slut x "

Jeez... some people wtf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When did being picky about what your searching for become a negative approach??"

It's not, we are very picky about who we meet and we want them to be the same. You want to know you are meeting the right person and that it will actually be fun and why should you just settle if the person/s are not your cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When did being picky about what your searching for become a negative approach??

It's not, we are very picky about who we meet and we want them to be the same. You want to know you are meeting the right person and that it will actually be fun and why should you just settle if the person/s are not your cup of tea."

True

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

What do you mean op? Picky?

Enjoy the site your way, is usually the best, making it work for you and leaving those who don't match aside.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When did being picky about what your searching for become a negative approach??

It's not, we are very picky about who we meet and we want them to be the same. You want to know you are meeting the right person and that it will actually be fun and why should you just settle if the person/s are not your cup of tea."

This. I’m picky and I much prefer men who are too even if they weren’t interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I know what I like that’s all

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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It's not a bad thing. At all. Only when it's used in a "my approach is better than yours" sort of way. One person's picky might be to another a scra-ping the barrel sort of thing.

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow

I have been accused of being too "fussy" by a few people who know me on here. I prefer to see it as knowing what I like and dont like.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

It’s not a negative thing at all.. thankfully we all like different things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have every right to be fussy about who I want to see me naked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s not a negative thing at all.. thankfully we all like different things "

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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I have every right to be fussy about who I want to see me naked."

True

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By *atisfying jackMan  over a year ago

Hereford

I think it's because to some people they are on here just to stick their willy in any hole and expect to be able to do that. When you say no, its obviously your fault and they will let you know. Just helps to reassure you that your instincts were correct.

Dodging bullets springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I have a clear idea of the type of ladies I won’t to get to know and lay next too

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By *atisfying jackMan  over a year ago

Hereford


"I have a clear idea of the type of ladies I won’t to get to know and lay next too "

Then stick to it, nobody should have to change or lower their standards for anyone. It's your life and your choice

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By *eavensScentCouple  over a year ago

Southend

Each to their own. If we were all looking for the same thing then there would be no variety... and who doesn’t like a bit of variety?!

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