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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going to club shhh for the first time soon and the advice I received is great ie.. just go up and chat to folk, nothing to be afraid of etc... But my question is do many couples who can obviously tell who the newbies are initiate chat?. Surely they remember how daunting it was the first time they visited a club. Also any ideas on a good ice breaker? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I'd you go expecting people to come up and chat regardless of whether you're a couple or a single bloke and sit back and wait for it to happen you're likely to be disappointed - not saying it doesn't happen but you have to make an effort, especially as a single guy but moderate that with respect and consideration and a gracious acceptance of a polite "no thanks"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We went first time 2 weeks ago (as a couple) so that's totally different situation (and easier)
But, try not to be one of those strange loners who linger by a wall in the corner watching.
Give it your all to chat, because once you are part of a convo you'll find yourself part of a group.
I appreciate how difficult thing that is for a newbie, but it's my advice.
If you struggle get in the hot tub, good chat goes on in there
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd you go expecting people to come up and chat regardless of whether you're a couple or a single bloke and sit back and wait for it to happen you're likely to be disappointed - not saying it doesn't happen but you have to make an effort, especially as a single guy but moderate that with respect and consideration and a gracious acceptance of a polite "no thanks" "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See if you can find people on here who are going then you can at least say hello to them when you get there.
Fingers crossed someone reads this and is nice enough to help a little. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We went first time 2 weeks ago (as a couple) so that's totally different situation (and easier)
But, try not to be one of those strange loners who linger by a wall in the corner watching.
Give it your all to chat, because once you are part of a convo you'll find yourself part of a group.
I appreciate how difficult thing that is for a newbie, but it's my advice.
If you struggle get in the hot tub, good chat goes on in there
Mrs "
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