Given this is a swingers site...do you believe in 'vanilla swingles' ?
I.e. committed singles that enjoy the liberated attitudes of swingers, but maybe sometimes less kinky and uncertain about sharing..? |
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"Given this is a swingers site...do you believe in 'vanilla swingles' ?
I.e. committed singles that enjoy the liberated attitudes of swingers, but maybe sometimes less kinky and uncertain about sharing..? "
Surely if they are single they have to share or else they aren’t doing anything but eating vanilla ice cream at home |
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"Given this is a swingers site...do you believe in 'vanilla swingles' ?
I.e. committed singles that enjoy the liberated attitudes of swingers, but maybe sometimes less kinky and uncertain about sharing..? "
As in horny men who want sex?
No that's just horny men wanting sex. |
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Majority of swingers are couples - either married or committed in some way ? Liberated singles may not always want to play with both but enjoy the freedom given by those that enjoy swinging relationships ? Maybe it's just a single fat bloke problem! ?? Lol |
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"Majority of swingers are couples - either married or committed in some way ? Liberated singles may not always want to play with both but enjoy the freedom given by those that enjoy swinging relationships ? Maybe it's just a single fat bloke problem! ?? Lol"
You said less kinky and uncertain about sharing
Not sharing is a bit of a problem if you are a swinger.
Its possibly the opposite of swinging. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Majority of swingers are couples - either married or committed in some way ? Liberated singles may not always want to play with both but enjoy the freedom given by those that enjoy swinging relationships ? Maybe it's just a single fat bloke problem! ?? Lol"
I'm single and I share |
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"That's what I thought and can understand.
Suppose it's the inherent trust that one half reports back to the other, otherwise it's just cheating with implied (not always explicit) permission !?"
I don't think you understand the dynamic. The whole point is that the other half knows and gets details, videos and pics.
That's how it works for us anyway.
I have no interest in a hook up that doesn't work that way and that C isn't fully aware of.
L |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I see how it should be. Just read it differently by some others !!
So as a single it can be confusing as to one's 'role' - complimentary to a couple, or fodder for one of !? Lol"
Woahhhhh, I'm neither of those things, I'm a woman that enjoys spending time with likeminded people that I sometimes engage in filthy sex with, I'm neither fodder nor here to become an accessory to someone else's sex life. |
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"I see how it should be. Just read it differently by some others !!
So as a single it can be confusing as to one's 'role' - complimentary to a couple, or fodder for one of !? Lol
Woahhhhh, I'm neither of those things, I'm a woman that enjoys spending time with likeminded people that I sometimes engage in filthy sex with, I'm neither fodder nor here to become an accessory to someone else's sex life. "
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Someone yet to be able to find or commit for life to someone else..be it e.g. work pressure / travel lifestyle / fear of commitment (eg kids of divorced parents)....or just fugly blokes (like me) !? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Someone yet to be able to find or commit for life to someone else..be it e.g. work pressure / travel lifestyle / fear of commitment (eg kids of divorced parents)....or just fugly blokes (like me) !?"
Or people who genuinely don't want a relationship? |
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You guys seem to be in the right place and well in control of it all, yayy you ! There are others that only confuse...e.g. (paraphrasing) "here for me, hubby won't know"...not swinger...!? "I'm trying things for size, might let him see in future"...borderline..? It's finding the right level of sharing I guess..? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"So you seem like a swingle then !! If not necessarily vanilla !?
A single accepted in the swingers world !? Maybe that's what I'm meaning?
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I've been accepted into the swinging world, at least by my friends. |
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"This is all getting very confusing, maybe I'm missing the point....if there is one???
....unless This is a d*unken rambling thread based on the time of night???
Yeah, I haven't really got a clue either. I'm tempted to believe he's trying to say he doesn't know where he fits into the swinging scene. "
surely there is nothing to fit into, its not just exclusively for couples....as you said previously....it's for like minded adults who don't want any pressure but like the good times and the company of people with the same mind set.... |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Might be...bit like applying for a job overseas...you need overseas experience for this job...but if I don't get a job overseas to get experience how can I apply for this job..? "
What? How is that even relevant? |
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Cool, I'll just grow another 6 inches in height, 2 on me knob, lose a couple of stone from the party 7 to a six pack, laser my eyes...get a dark tan...anything else.? Seems like what everyone else wants..but not finely tuned irony and sarcasm...!? Hehe |
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By *eeleyWoman
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Dudley |
"Cool, I'll just grow another 6 inches in height, 2 on me knob, lose a couple of stone from the party 7 to a six pack, laser my eyes...get a dark tan...anything else.? Seems like what everyone else wants..but not finely tuned irony and sarcasm...!? Hehe "
That's actually got nothing to do with anything I said.
Attitude plays a huge part in attraction and a negative defeatist attitude is not attractive! |
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"Cool, I'll just grow another 6 inches in height, 2 on me knob, lose a couple of stone from the party 7 to a six pack, laser my eyes...get a dark tan...anything else.? Seems like what everyone else wants..but not finely tuned irony and sarcasm...!? Hehe "
Have a look at some of the most successful single guy profiles many are just average guys with none of the extras you listed. The simple reason they are so successful is they have the right, respectful and positive attitude nothing turns people off quicker than negativity and whinging.
You get out what you put in. The successful guys know this and work hard to establish themselves, attend swinger socials, go to swinger clubs, network, get verified and become know for been decent and reliable etc.
Also we are all are who we are at the end of the day but there's always things you can do to up your game. Dress snappy in good stylish clothes. Over weight? get to the gym and work on your body (that's what me and my wife are doing).
At the end of the day you can have over 100 single males for every single female or couple so we can afford to be picky in who we want to share our sex lives with. If you want to be part of that then up your game, make the best of what you have and develop the right attitude / outlook.
Good luck.
KJ x
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