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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I've ever been rejected on here but it's a very different experience for men and women.
I guess just bear in mind the amount of competition you have and the fact that most people know what they're looking for, they'll dismiss those that don't fit that.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've had one person say no to me in all my years on here. I was distraught. 
I wouldn't give it too much thought OP. It's happened and yes it can sting but you can brush yourself off again and carry on. If it gets a bit too meh, log off and do something that'll release those endorphins in to your system. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Occasionally men have said I was not for them. More commonly off these forums I get messed around a bit. PM men who put up I never get meets, they say they are interested back, but never met one yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few 'not my type' messages. It happens. Can't be to everyones taste x
What is milf Monday and where do I sign up?"
watch for flying rogue penises to the head trust me place is dangerous |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had a few 'not my type' messages. It happens. Can't be to everyones taste x
What is milf Monday and where do I sign up?watch for flying rogue penises to the head trust me place is dangerous"
Will need my hard hat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few 'not my type' messages. It happens. Can't be to everyones taste x
What is milf Monday and where do I sign up?watch for flying rogue penises to the head trust me place is dangerous
Will need my hard hat"
and the rest i still have nightmares about evil penises |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams  "
I would like another visit there haha |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha "
Well, sort it out then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha
Well, sort it out then "
I'm trying haha, work gets in the way of stuff yino |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My rejections have been of a different kind. As a single I was contacted a fair amount (I have a vagina, of course I was)
What happened a fair few times with me was guys telling me they thought I was ace, open and honest, then they'd come clean in the end about their relationship status, and tell me I was too sweet and caring a person to screw over and lie to, and that as much as they may want to meet me they then respected me too much not to be honest with me, even though they knew it would be a game changer.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha
Well, sort it out then
I'm trying haha, work gets in the way of stuff yino"
Book a Saturday off  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha
Well, sort it out then
I'm trying haha, work gets in the way of stuff yino
Book a Saturday off "
Working on it. Am off this Saturday haha but might be going to xtasia instead |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha
Well, sort it out then
I'm trying haha, work gets in the way of stuff yino
Book a Saturday off
Working on it. Am off this Saturday haha but might be going to xtasia instead "
Try next Saturday, party night at chams on the Friday.
Sorry, we are disturbing the thread, I'll harass him in messages instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter how 'perfect' someone is they still aren't going to be everyone's type.
Being ugly and hairy I get more opportunities to accept rejection, so much so i would now consider myself a professional at it
In all seriousness though, just take it on the chin, be graceful wish the other person well and move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Getting pied a lot today. How do you people deal with rejection? Also for women, do guys ever say no to you on here? Just curious
Come back to chams
I would like another visit there haha
Well, sort it out then
I'm trying haha, work gets in the way of stuff yino
Book a Saturday off
Working on it. Am off this Saturday haha but might be going to xtasia instead
Try next Saturday, party night at chams on the Friday.
Sorry, we are disturbing the thread, I'll harass him in messages instead "
Yeh stop hijacking my thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I suck it up and move on. Yeah its shit and it makes me feel worthless but what other choice is there?"
Alcohol and pointlessly starting a thread on the forums of a sex site to moan about it to people you'll never meet? Oh wait I did that already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get rejected very often. Only because I rarely send the first message.
I think most people know what they're here for and capable of finding the men who float their boat.
I just make myself visible enough to get noticed.
Occasionally I will chase someone, which usually ends up ignored (not rejected) or pleasantly surprised with a nice response.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys say horrible things to me when I say no to them... Kinda got used to it even though I shouldn't.
Don't know what rejection feels like as I never send a message first. Sorry OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys say horrible things to me when I say no to them... Kinda got used to it even though I shouldn't.
Don't know what rejection feels like as I never send a message first. Sorry OP."
Luxury of having a vagina on fab   |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Guys say horrible things to me when I say no to them... Kinda got used to it even though I shouldn't.
Don't know what rejection feels like as I never send a message first. Sorry OP.
Luxury of having a vagina on fab "
Guys might make the initial contact, doesn't mean they can't or don't say no thanks further down the conversation.. I've definitely said it myself.
Having a vagina doesn't guarantee anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sent a message once and got accused of sending it out of pity (i wasn’t ) and he got a bit ranty. So i’ve never bothered with sending one unless it’s a forum specific thing.
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Dont let one guy ruin things for you. Go man herding. They arent all arseholes, your guy may just have had a grumpy day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys might make the initial contact, doesn't mean they can't or don't say no thanks further down the conversation.. I've definitely said it myself.
Having a vagina doesn't guarantee anything "
Agreed!!!
Ive been ignored/rejected by couples and single chaps. Cant be everyones cuppa tea. (Wouldnt want to be either) chin up OP |
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