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Just wondered if height is an issue for some of you when meeting? I assume it’s more of a women/gay thing? I can’t meet guys that aren’t at least 5”11 but preferably 6ft+ tall, just makes me feel all awkward if I’m taller than the “alpha/active/top” one, anyone else have similar feelings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered if height is an issue for some of you when meeting? I assume it’s more of a women/gay thing? I can’t meet guys that aren’t at least 5”11 but preferably 6ft+ tall, just makes me feel all awkward if I’m taller than the “alpha/active/top” one, anyone else have similar feelings? "
Agree!! I’m 5’10 without heels! I like a tall manly man who doesn’t make me feel like a giant! oh and being able to reach when bending me over too helps!! |
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It is for me
I'm just over 6' in my bare feet
Wearing heels can push me upto 6'5"
I prefer my men to be able to kiss me while we fuck, not have to contort myself into to some weird spine damaging position to do so |
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Genrally I'm my experience of dating and fab it rather is a deal for a lot of women. Luckily being 6ft it's never been an issuse for me. But I have know so many women in my time who do not favour shorter guys. Some are very honest about, some are a little more diplomatic about it. But one I know for certain is lying about your height genrally will fail. If I had a penny for the amount of times I've heard a story about a woman turning up to find their meet/date significantly shorter than advertise I could buy a Freddo. But in every story the result was the same, they all made their escapes. |
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Been some memorable threads over this preference over the years.
Some people regard it as discriminatory and people should stoop  to meeting them regardless.
Being 6ft 3 and 6ft 4 in my biker boots. I fail to see the issue  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
From what i've seen height is more of an issue from the woman's perspective, especially if they're on the taller end of the spectrum themselves. Fab doesn't seem favour vertically challenged gentleman (subjective term I know!). Fortunately there are tastes for a bit of everything here and many won't consider it an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 5ft11 and easily 6ft3 plus in heels but no, I don't have a height criteria because prefer the person over just height!
Coming from an exceedingly tall family and working with tall men it's easy to realise that being tall makes them no better or different to anyone else ... so intelligence, humour and personality are my preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 5'4 so have trouble finding women shorter than me or that don't mind me being shorter on here. In normal day to day though I've never had a problem it's just preference I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find tall women my cup of tea (like 5 11 plus). Although I am 6 ft 3, I like more petite sized ladies.
 oh what very very very lucky ladies......"
Can't tell of sarcasm or... |
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Height isn't a concern for me I've met guys same height as me and shorter plus much taller.
One of my ex's was 6'11 even my tall friends looked short next to him! I'm 5'2" 
Perfect height for a standing titwank though 
Sex standing up with people taller than me requires heels or them bending their knees which isn't comfortable for the guy but doggy style always works or riding
There's always ways and means  |
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"I don't find tall women my cup of tea (like 5 11 plus). Although I am 6 ft 3, I like more petite sized ladies.
oh what very very very lucky ladies......
Can't tell of sarcasm or..."
Oh no ... deffo not sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm only 5'1 but taller guys seem to go for me, makes me laugh if their over 6'4.
Had a couple of meets where the guy has lied about his height and ive worn big heels, need i say more.
Not a deal breaker |
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I have a height preference of 6', give or take a couple of inches. But it more often comes into consideration when checking the profiles of people who randomly mail me. When I get to know or spark off with someone outside of that (for example through forum banter), my attraction to their personality and intellect will far outweigh anything about their physical appearance.
It's a bit like going shopping. You may have something specific in mind, but something unexpected might catch your eye and end up exciting you more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a height preference of 6', give or take a couple of inches. But it more often comes into consideration when checking the profiles of people who randomly mail me. When I get to know or spark off with someone outside of that (for example through forum banter), my attraction to their personality and intellect will far outweigh anything about their physical appearance.
It's a bit like going shopping. You may have something specific in mind, but something unexpected might catch your eye and end up exciting you more "
It’s all in your honour: an open-minded attitude. Impulse buys are often very satisfying. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Height is important to me, it's one of the first things I check on a profile. I'm only 5'5 and I love being with a guy who towers over me
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You're a beautiful looking guy but Smallville is just too far away for me!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Height is important to me, it's one of the first things I check on a profile. I'm only 5'5 and I love being with a guy who towers over me
You're a beautiful looking guy but Smallville is just too far away for me!! "
Let me down gently haha its okayy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really couldn't care less about height, I don't really look at it and I wouldn't ask about it if it wasn't displayed on profiles "
But then goliath turns up for that coffee date |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
"Yep one of the main things for me. 6ft or over.
Bugger I'm only 2ft 1"
No, digger is 2 foot 1
See! She told me ^^ 
 ..I’ll be in trouble now "
your both as bad as each other you should team up or is that just wish full thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
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Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure |
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure "
And my Lynx can?  |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
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o shit that makes me 1ft 11" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure
And my Lynx can? "
What's that for, you saying I smell  |
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure
And my Lynx can?
What's that for, you saying I smell "
No, it's to measure your cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure
And my Lynx can?
What's that for, you saying I smell
No, it's to measure your cock "
Won't need a lynx can for that lol |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"It is for me
I'm just over 6' in my bare feet
Wearing heels can push me upto 6'5"
I prefer my men to be able to kiss me while we fuck, not have to contort myself into to some weird spine damaging position to do so "
What about your women? |
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"It is for me
I'm just over 6' in my bare feet
Wearing heels can push me upto 6'5"
I prefer my men to be able to kiss me while we fuck, not have to contort myself into to some weird spine damaging position to do so
What about your women? "
I can be very flexible on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is for me
I'm just over 6' in my bare feet
Wearing heels can push me upto 6'5"
I prefer my men to be able to kiss me while we fuck, not have to contort myself into to some weird spine damaging position to do so
What about your women?
I can be very flexible on that "
You don’t kiss them? |
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"I prefer taller men but in real life I've dated shorter also.
Depends on the personality.
I knock two inches off every male height on here anyway, yet to be proved wrong
Pfft I'm legit 6 ft3. Bring your tape measure
And my Lynx can?
What's that for, you saying I smell
No, it's to measure your cock
Won't need a lynx can for that lol "
Don’t mind me... just having a perv.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok. So I've always lusted after tall men. On occasion I've gone for shorter guys because I've really liked the guy but I can't help feeling huge next to a shorter guy. Shorter guys generally are smaller built too.
The guy I'm seeing at the moment is 6ft 2 but broad too. When I'm wrapped in his arms I feel tiny - that's no small feat when your as chubs as I am. Hence tall is my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a man tall I'm only 5ft and someone over 6ft I would prefer but if I'm attracted to him height doesn't matter
5’11”. Here "
Well how could I resist you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ohhhhh dear lots of ladies here that would kick me to the curb for height lol
Lots of men here who’d kick me to the curb for my height.
Don’t worry, we’ll live "
I’ll meet you there |
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"Ohhhhh dear lots of ladies here that would kick me to the curb for height lol
Lots of men here who’d kick me to the curb for my height.
Don’t worry, we’ll live "
lol I’m sure we will. I’m not worried anyway I love being boob height probebly why I’ve normally been attracted to taller women |
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"Ok. So I've always lusted after tall men. On occasion I've gone for shorter guys because I've really liked the guy but I can't help feeling huge next to a shorter guy. Shorter guys generally are smaller built too.
The guy I'm seeing at the moment is 6ft 2 but broad too. When I'm wrapped in his arms I feel tiny - that's no small feat when your as chubs as I am. Hence tall is my preference. "
You have just hit the nail on the head, tall and BROAD mean you/me feel small and vulnerable, which I think is part of the turn on |
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I'm not bothered by height unless they try to stop me wearing heels because of it. If anything too tall can create it's own difficulties. A play partner of mine is very tall and his legs go on forever and certain positions don't really work due to struggling to align the essential parts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From what i've seen height is more of an issue from the woman's perspective, especially if they're on the taller end of the spectrum themselves. Fab doesn't seem favour vertically challenged gentleman (subjective term I know!). Fortunately there are tastes for a bit of everything here and many won't consider it an issue."
I'm only a short arse but seem to do ok on here I was with a lady on Friday night who is 5'1" equally I was with a 6 foot lass on Saturday night ..She didn't seem to mind. Some say it's the personality and humour they like not how tall they are .. Thank God ..Lol
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok. So I've always lusted after tall men. On occasion I've gone for shorter guys because I've really liked the guy but I can't help feeling huge next to a shorter guy. Shorter guys generally are smaller built too.
The guy I'm seeing at the moment is 6ft 2 but broad too. When I'm wrapped in his arms I feel tiny - that's no small feat when your as chubs as I am. Hence tall is my preference.
You have just hit the nail on the head, tall and BROAD mean you/me feel small and vulnerable, which I think is part of the turn on "
I don't feel vulnerable, I feel safe.
I'm strong, can deadlift 100kg, but also still got more padding than I should have. I need a built bloke so I don't feel like the hulk
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To be fair Sally Bercow doesn't seem to find height an issue. And she must be an amazing woman because John Bercow always got a huge smile on his face when he's with her. Plus their's is probably one of the only households in the UK that still has a use for the Yellow pages. |
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