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over a year ago
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I got into it as a single person. I didn't have to persuade anyone, I also wouldn't try.
If someone doesn't want to do something I wouldn't force the issue, it's meant to be fun, if my partner was only doing it because I had pressured them then I wouldn't feel any satisfaction from their discomfort. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got into it as a single person. I didn't have to persuade anyone, I also wouldn't try.
If someone doesn't want to do something I wouldn't force the issue, it's meant to be fun, if my partner was only doing it because I had pressured them then I wouldn't feel any satisfaction from their discomfort. "
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I have been scene for a few years via a female friend who invited me along.
I met Hannah online with no intention or expectation of ever meeting and I was totally open about my experiences. As things became clear we wanted a lot more from knowing each other, she told me she was interested in a relationship incorporating swinging.
I'm still gob-smacked. I never sought it and would be perfectly happy if it was just her and me. I would never seek to persuade any partner to get into it just because that's what I wanted. |
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I got into it a single guy. And being a single person is very much a legitimate relationship status on here. Then I met my partner on here and became a couple on the scene.
If it is the swinging scene you want to embrace (people use this site for many reasons) then it would be a good idea to become more active in the scene. Maybe your self to some clubs or events. Maybe dip your toe in with a social. Online is fine but there is no substitute to interaction face to face with fellow deviants. Making swinger freinds in the real world is sometimes a good way to access futher adventures and invites. |
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