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Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc "
I have the same thoughts for girls. Im sure most guys do. |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc "
that's not entirely true. Thats just loom saying all black people are thieves  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc that's not entirely true. Thats just loom saying all black people are thieves "
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc that's not entirely true. Thats just loom saying all black people are thieves "
It really isnt. |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc that's not entirely true. Thats just loom saying all black people are thieves "
No, not quite. And I did write, “Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.” to acknowledge that. But from my personal experience it’s put me off |
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My Aunt is Christine Charles and was the NABBA Miss Universe bikini winner 1973. Not bulk muscle but toned and feminine. I find that look very attractive...  |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc that's not entirely true. Thats just loom saying all black people are thieves
It really isnt."
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By *ycallMan
over a year ago
Dorking |
"Some do. Other bodybuilders, for a start."
They had a program about the lengths some guys will go to with there bodybuilding. This guy was doing a strip show with a few other bodybuilder types and there were women all over them.
When the presenter asked him if he liked the attention from the women he said he wasn’t fussed and what he really wanted was complements from the other bodybuilders as they had great bodies and understood what it took.
Bloke was totally straight as well.
I would agree that the people who like bodybuilder bodies the most are other bodybuilders. None of whom seem to think it strange or in any way bisexual to ogle other guys. |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc "
I'd suggest very stereotypical, and not demonstrative of intelligence
I think you may find those who enjoy shaping their bodies cross the entire spectrum of human personality types
So some non bodybuilders are vain , and so are some bodybuilders
You directly implied above you do not think the "group "bb intelligent , that could be considered, condescending and insulting  |
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"Some do. Other bodybuilders, for a start.
They had a program about the lengths some guys will go to with there bodybuilding. This guy was doing a strip show with a few other bodybuilder types and there were women all over them.
When the presenter asked him if he liked the attention from the women he said he wasn’t fussed and what he really wanted was complements from the other bodybuilders as they had great bodies and understood what it took.
Bloke was totally straight as well.
I would agree that the people who like bodybuilder bodies the most are other bodybuilders. None of whom seem to think it strange or in any way bisexual to ogle other guys."
It is genuinely quite weird but I think most of us do it , inspiration and admiration I guess , same as many enjoy watching sport , there is a crux though and that's empathy
Same with weight loss we who have done it have an empathically driven respect for those who have endured or enjoy ed the same emotions xx |
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"I automatically think they're trying to make up for other shortcomings (not necessarily in that department either) A decent face is much more important "
How curious
Two words
Automatic, shortcomings
Thanks for warning me  |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"I automatically think they're trying to make up for other shortcomings (not necessarily in that department either) A decent face is much more important
How curious
Two words
Automatic, shortcomings
Thanks for warning me "
Just one persons opinion fella  |
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By *ycallMan
over a year ago
Dorking |
There was a fairly scientific study done and male body type that women found most attractive was the look of Brad Pitt in Fight Club.
That shredded and fit but not to big look came out tops and beat everything else by a fair old margin.
Shame really as I am getting really good at rocking that slightly past your best look. LOL |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc "
I have an IQ of 132 |
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"Not for me, mostly because those I know who are those type are vain, and I can’t deal with vain people. Very stereotypical I know, and I know not all are like it.
However, to me, I generally don’t care what a guy looks like, I prefer the connection, intelligence etc
I have an IQ of 132 "
You seem eggheads?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down"
Is it about menaupose ? |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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It depends on the level of extremity for me.. I can appreciate the work put in, but you can also see when funky supplementation has taken place.
A lot of guys take them as a quick fix without diet or training being on point first, and end up looking ridiculous. It is also more prevalent among these types (did see a study somewhere) that they also do more cocaine when out and about. So they are more aggressive from the artificial testosterone, and paranoid from the powders.. great combo.
I also know guys who didn't cycle correctly, and while having a raging horn, couldn't perform without viagra. Very ironic as they had built themselves up to pull women...
But I can appreciate a decent male physique.. having been in and out of gyms for years I know the dedication to a goal. It's just mine are different.
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ? "
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal |
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal "
I love challenges ! |
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal
I love challenges !"
I just got a flash back from the things you wish you'd never looked up thread  |
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal
I love challenges !
I just got a flash back from the things you wish you'd never looked up thread "
Flashback are good things hun |
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal
I love challenges !
I just got a flash back from the things you wish you'd never looked up thread
Flashback are good things hun"
the ones that smile yes...but the only possible way for you to get someone pregnant from annal well let's just say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal
I love challenges !
I just got a flash back from the things you wish you'd never looked up thread
Flashback are good things hun
the ones that smile yes...but the only possible way for you to get someone pregnant from annal well let's just say "
Well let's say that the anus would look sore for trying that hard. But God loves determination. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them"
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing.. |
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"Aren't all pregnant women body builders?
hell yes we are ...more power to us
Knew you were pregnant !
we need to have a chat..think you better sit down
Is it about menaupose ?
well that and you do know you can't get pregnant from anal
I love challenges !
I just got a flash back from the things you wish you'd never looked up thread
Flashback are good things hun
the ones that smile yes...but the only possible way for you to get someone pregnant from annal well let's just say
Well let's say that the anus would look sore for trying that hard. But God loves determination. "
sore I could probably live with but the wall collapsing between the anal and vaginal canal allowing you to disperse your seed from one to other now that's a whole different story..and I'm not even sure it would work! |
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing.."
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing..
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it"
It was just observations from several years of editing the magazine and observing the relationships the cover models had with themselves and those around them.. it was actually pretty neutral. That was just the bit that stuck out in my mind.
I suppose it's just a mirror image of a guy being in a relationship with a female Instagram model, where her life is devoted to herself and her image..
Cant think of anything worse in a relationship like that. So unequal.. |
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing..
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it
It was just observations from several years of editing the magazine and observing the relationships the cover models had with themselves and those around them.. it was actually pretty neutral. That was just the bit that stuck out in my mind.
I suppose it's just a mirror image of a guy being in a relationship with a female Instagram model, where her life is devoted to herself and her image..
Cant think of anything worse in a relationship like that. So unequal.."
but your not talking about your average Joe at the gym. and yes they may admire the work and effort they've put in but why shouldn't they. Obviously anything that becomes all consuming is a problem. |
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I work in sport and have to add that anyone that is dedicated to their chosen sport becomes consumed or addicted from running to anything lol so that's not unusual though what is more unusual (& I have no idea about testing for those who compete .. note to self must find out) but there is a very high usage of "chemical additives" amongst bodybuilders (plenty of actual research for those that love Google) which never is a good thing 
Personally I don't find the look attractive once a person has gone beyond the toned fit look but admire the hardwork and dedication put in.
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing..
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it
It was just observations from several years of editing the magazine and observing the relationships the cover models had with themselves and those around them.. it was actually pretty neutral. That was just the bit that stuck out in my mind.
I suppose it's just a mirror image of a guy being in a relationship with a female Instagram model, where her life is devoted to herself and her image..
Cant think of anything worse in a relationship like that. So unequal..
but your not talking about your average Joe at the gym. and yes they may admire the work and effort they've put in but why shouldn't they. Obviously anything that becomes all consuming is a problem."
With the subject of the thread about body builders, not just blokes being fit.. they tend to be a lot further down the scale towards obsessing about themselves..they are heading more towards the extreme look. |
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing..
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it
It was just observations from several years of editing the magazine and observing the relationships the cover models had with themselves and those around them.. it was actually pretty neutral. That was just the bit that stuck out in my mind.
I suppose it's just a mirror image of a guy being in a relationship with a female Instagram model, where her life is devoted to herself and her image..
Cant think of anything worse in a relationship like that. So unequal..
but your not talking about your average Joe at the gym. and yes they may admire the work and effort they've put in but why shouldn't they. Obviously anything that becomes all consuming is a problem.
With the subject of the thread about body builders, not just blokes being fit.. they tend to be a lot further down the scale towards obsessing about themselves..they are heading more towards the extreme look. "
I wonder where I fall on your spectrum of prejudgment |
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no"
What utter bollocks. Does this also mean curvy or larger people are lazy kebab munchers? Exactly NO.
I workout as ive always been 9stone up untill 2 year ago, i still see a 8 stone scrawny lad looking back in the mirror its only now my body confidence is growing. Up until around a year ago i wouldnt wear a t shirt in public. The gym, goals in the gym help with my mental hoops and low points i encounter with day to day life.
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"by default they are in love with themselves and appearance so no
that's not my experience with them
I did read an article by an editor for mens health mag. He said, never date a guy with perfect abs. He will love his abs more than he loves you, his children, his dog.. when you think he is telling you that you look amazing, he is talking to his abs. When you think he has great stamina, he is just distracted by watching his abs flexing..
I never believe all I read theres always a slant to it
It was just observations from several years of editing the magazine and observing the relationships the cover models had with themselves and those around them.. it was actually pretty neutral. That was just the bit that stuck out in my mind.
I suppose it's just a mirror image of a guy being in a relationship with a female Instagram model, where her life is devoted to herself and her image..
Cant think of anything worse in a relationship like that. So unequal..
but your not talking about your average Joe at the gym. and yes they may admire the work and effort they've put in but why shouldn't they. Obviously anything that becomes all consuming is a problem.
With the subject of the thread about body builders, not just blokes being fit.. they tend to be a lot further down the scale towards obsessing about themselves..they are heading more towards the extreme look. "
when I say the average Joe..I'm trying to say someone not competing or a model on a magazine cover. I haven't found those I've talked to, to be self obsessed. Sure they are into what they do but don't have an attitude about it. |
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I do, I like a big back, arms and legs, I'm not a small woman so do like to feel small in someones arms.
But not a fan of those that take it to extreme.
My only concern would be my own short comings. |
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