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"Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site? "
Both! I love the liberating experience of a club visit but also the intimacy of 1:2:1 meets |
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over a year ago
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"Private meets tried a club it didnt take as i was assaulted by a rogue flying penis to the noggin beware the dangers folks its real  "
Yep 
I still prefer Club meets and club play first though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"was always private meets, not confident for clubs and hear too many horror stories to even consider one these days.
Horror stories? "
guys being too pushy mainly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private meets are our preference, generally far better fun, more intense, intimate and non distracting, clubs seem to have a fair share of socialites, voyeurs, fantasists and non mutual players |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we live in different countries arranging private meets for when we are together is hard, so we meet in clubs,make friends and sometimes that becomes a private meet. |
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Private meets through Fab, have been far more reliable for me, than the club scene. Visiting a club as a single male can be a confidence-shattering ordeal, and pot luck with regards to who is in at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal."
I dislike that single men pay more than anyone else at events, usually even more than a couple which is actually 2 people(one of which is even a man).
I've met private and even though the pricing isn't fair, I'd still like to try a club once just to know what it's like. |
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I'm not keen on clubs as I don't like to play with or around people that have been drinking - the last couple of times i've visited clubs there have been people that were steaming d*unk. It's a shame because a club visit brings out my exhibitionist and voyeuristic sides.
I do love the intimacy of private meets though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
If the prices were equal they would be full of men. "
Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
If the prices were equal they would be full of men.
Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
I dislike that single men pay more than anyone else at events, usually even more than a couple which is actually 2 people(one of which is even a man).
I've met private and even though the pricing isn't fair, I'd still like to try a club once just to know what it's like."
shop about.. some treat men a little fairer than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
If the prices were equal they would be full of men.
Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily. "
It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
If the prices were equal they would be full of men.
Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily.
It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return. "
Again, not necessarily, but not going into detail on this thread. |
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"Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site? "
I only meet in clubs.. have done so for years and years.... i feel safer and plus my kids are at home. Havent met at home in over 12 years
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.
Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.
If the prices were equal they would be full of men.
Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily.
It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return.
Again, not necessarily, but not going into detail on this thread. "
That’s fine. It happens in normal clubs, to try to get more women in. I go places that have ladies night and free drinks for women. It’s been happening for a long time in the nightclub business.
I don’t go to swinging clubs where there are many single guys. Usually couples and single women only as I only go with a partner. The one where there are single guys, they only let 4 in max. If it was the same price, it would be like fab and overrun with horny guys and no women. I certainly wouldn’t go. Just like swinging sites, I prefer the ones that charge a membership or fee to join. |
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It's clubs for us, we like the atmosphere and music. We'll spend 6 hours in a club, but certainly aren't having sex for 6 hours. We'll have a drink and bust some moves on the dance floor that vanilla clubs wouldn't allow  |
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Both have their own merit; 1:2:1 obviously creates a very intimate scenario of enjoying each other’s company in private setting. Clubs are like sweet shops! A bit pick and mix every time is different but exciting ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."
The hygiene thought is what puts me off too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally.
The hygiene thought is what puts me off too. "
I’ve never felt it was a problem. Maybe I went to a smaller club where the hygiene was pretty good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither. Social first somewhere in public.
I've no interest in meeting someone in a club. Yep I'd go to a club with someone if I could find him first. "
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."
Same. I'd like to go into one with one of those CSI ultra violet light thingies though, see if the place looks like a Jackson Pollock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."
 . Are you me in disguise?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can you imagine the amount of jizz, cum, piss and...dare I say it... shit that gets sprayed around..?
Tons of fun while it's happening, but when it happens at my house, I'm busy next day with a bottle of bleach and a pair of marigolds.... (form a queue, ladies...)
I very much doubt the clubs are as diligent.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started with private meets. Then I discovered the club world. It suits me and my lifestyle much better and I prefer it so now I only meet and play at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Done both but atm prefer to meet at a club...Chams is soo friendly if we end up playing its a bonus but not essential..having said that feeling like we need some loving... |
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