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Often read,or here of if people say " porn" is wrong or corrupting eve obscene...
Imagine our lives without it in some shape or form ..... nothing not even the writen erotism?
Would our lives be richer? Our relationships be as imaginative? Or perhaps our confidence and knowledge of opposite sex be so acute?
Young men and some women's first tentative lessons are from porn...... Realistically for ladies do you think your first few sexual experiences would of been the same ,had you or your guy NOT gained prior knowledge from some form of porn ?
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Back in the 70s most of our available porn was in magazine form and compared to today was very tame. Apparently the expectations placed on youngsters today due to porn are pretty scary. We need realistic education not scripted, unrealistic fantasy. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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Other than the dull fakeness of it, I have two issues.
Firstly, young impressionable youung men often seem to think that what they see is the same as real sex. Everything is easy, everyone likes everything, and implausable scenarios happen all the time.
Secondly, it seems that in an era of media over-load, society has become de-sensitised to violence in general, violence against women and a reduction in respect for others.
I'm sure some might disagree, but that's what I think, anyway.
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"Other than the dull fakeness of it, I have two issues.
Firstly, young impressionable youung men often seem to think that what they see is the same as real sex. Everything is easy, everyone likes everything, and implausable scenarios happen all the time.
Secondly, it seems that in an era of media over-load, society has become de-sensitised to violence in general, violence against women and a reduction in respect for others.
I'm sure some might disagree, but that's what I think, anyway.
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I agree entirely, and it marred my early (adult) sexual experiences. |
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over a year ago
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Porn has it's place and is a release tool for many juveniles. And it can give a few ideas with basic roleplay, kinks etc.
However it's produced a generation of young adults that have a warped idea of what actually pleasures the opposite sex? A large amount of young men believe the very pinnacle of enjoyment a lady can have is when she squirts? Not orgasm itself which in most women is more powerful, not in the mental coaxing and priming no, but in a simple two handed procedure that often doesn't take long and makes her shoot a fountain of liquid which is taken as "proof" that she is in the very unparalleled height of sexual ecstasy. They believe repeatedly smacking a woman's arse is something that is enjoyed by just about all women.
And for a lot of the young females of today, they believe that a man won't fully enjoy having sex with her unless she wails and thrashed about completely unrealistically at the slightest provocation?
And often neither sex will correct each other on these huge misconceptions either meaning that they'll probably tend to stick around for a good chunk of said generation's sex lives??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And as for deep throat, many young men believe forcing a girl's head down on their dick till she's gagging on the bloody thing is taken and enjoyed by most women as they view them as the ultimate manly man?
And many young women believe that they're somehow less if they can't or don't force it down their gorges either?
It's ridiculous really! I could go on all bloody night...Though mercifully I won't.
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Broken in a number of younger virgins, who have porn expectations, and figure that all girls their age are into anal, squirting etc. I think the romance and sexiness is lost on them - a real shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far to easily accessed should just be a thing you pay for if its your thing kids must think god knows what these days.what happened to when you found a copy of razzle in a bush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Often read,or here of if people say " porn" is wrong or corrupting eve obscene...
Imagine our lives without it in some shape or form ..... nothing not even the writen erotism?
Would our lives be richer? Our relationships be as imaginative? Or perhaps our confidence and knowledge of opposite sex be so acute?
Young men and some women's first tentative lessons are from porn...... Realistically for ladies do you think your first few sexual experiences would of been the same ,had you or your guy NOT gained prior knowledge from some form of porn ?
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Internet porn is mind poison
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Porn has it's place and is a release tool for many juveniles. And it can give a few ideas with basic roleplay, kinks etc.
However it's produced a generation of young adults that have a warped idea of what actually pleasures the opposite sex? A large amount of young men believe the very pinnacle of enjoyment a lady can have is when she squirts? Not orgasm itself which in most women is more powerful, not in the mental coaxing and priming no, but in a simple two handed procedure that often doesn't take long and makes her shoot a fountain of liquid which is taken as "proof" that she is in the very unparalleled height of sexual ecstasy. They believe repeatedly smacking a woman's arse is something that is enjoyed by just about all women.
And for a lot of the young females of today, they believe that a man won't fully enjoy having sex with her unless she wails and thrashed about completely unrealistically at the slightest provocation?
And often neither sex will correct each other on these huge misconceptions either meaning that they'll probably tend to stick around for a good chunk of said generation's sex lives??
B"
Couldn't of said it better myself although i do indulge |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if those first experiences would have been different. I had never seen porn so I had no unrealistic expectations. I think I'm glad of that."
I had luckily only seen some mild stuff.
I think I'd have been terrified if I'd seen the stuff that's around now.
The "jackhammer" for example, it can hurt like fuck and I'd have probably thought there was something wrong with me if I wasn't enjoying and calling for "harder, faster, deeper" coz it was hurting so much I felt like my cervix was being beaten with a sock full of snooker balls and all I really wanted to do was cry!
I'd have been even more body conscious due to lack of boobage, lips and not being able to walk in killer heels.
I think it's so damaging to youngsters, a lot shows women being borderline abused and loving it, so they'll think they just have to take it and not only should they be having the time of their life but begging for more.
It lacks respect, it lacks sensitivity, but most of all it lacks the connection between 2 people with genuine emotion.
It's meant to be entertainment, not education and the majority of it should be like wrestling... don't try this at home
(Well, not until you're confident and unafraid to say no, yes, up a bit, down a bit)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if those first experiences would have been different. I had never seen porn so I had no unrealistic expectations. I think I'm glad of that.
I had luckily only seen some mild stuff.
I think I'd have been terrified if I'd seen the stuff that's around now.
The "jackhammer" for example, it can hurt like fuck and I'd have probably thought there was something wrong with me if I wasn't enjoying and calling for "harder, faster, deeper" coz it was hurting so much I felt like my cervix was being beaten with a sock full of snooker balls and all I really wanted to do was cry!
I'd have been even more body conscious due to lack of boobage, lips and not being able to walk in killer heels.
I think it's so damaging to youngsters, a lot shows women being borderline abused and loving it, so they'll think they just have to take it and not only should they be having the time of their life but begging for more.
It lacks respect, it lacks sensitivity, but most of all it lacks the connection between 2 people with genuine emotion.
It's meant to be entertainment, not education and the majority of it should be like wrestling... don't try this at home
(Well, not until you're confident and unafraid to say no, yes, up a bit, down a bit)
P
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"Back in the 70s most of our available porn was in magazine form and compared to today was very tame. Apparently the expectations placed on youngsters today due to porn are pretty scary. We need realistic education not scripted, unrealistic fantasy."
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"They're having to teach young adults now that porn isn't real because they have such unrealistic concepts from porn, I personally think it's sad "
So do I.
It's not just porn, young people have unrealistic expectations about everything from relationships to body image. |
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"Other than the dull fakeness of it, I have two issues.
Firstly, young impressionable youung men often seem to think that what they see is the same as real sex. Everything is easy, everyone likes everything, and implausable scenarios happen all the time.
Secondly, it seems that in an era of media over-load, society has become de-sensitised to violence in general, violence against women and a reduction in respect for others.
I'm sure some might disagree, but that's what I think, anyway.
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Couldn't agree more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't say I think ever really like enjoyed porn.
As others have implied, it's now a race to the bottom to put more and more extreme material on the internet as click bait.
And you can no longer be sure that someone (usually the female) hadn't been coerced or tricked in some way to be filmed.
Some of the Hegre massage films are good and very tasteful ... but much else is best avoided in my view. |
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I don't mean to sound sexist but I hope that young men are not influenced to believe that all women want to be treated in the way that many are treated in the porn films..
I mean throat fucking and endless anal and cum shots on face etc.. not that there is anything wrong with ladies who truly enjoy that..
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"And as for deep throat, many young men believe forcing a girl's head down on their dick till she's gagging on the bloody thing is taken and enjoyed by most women as they view them as the ultimate manly man?
And many young women believe that they're somehow less if they can't or don't force it down their gorges either?
It's ridiculous really! I could go on all bloody night...Though mercifully I won't.
B"
Yep...it's only an A+ blowie if tears are blinding her and her mascara is all over her face apparently. |
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