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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Things are going brilliantly well with this new young lady....like, seriously good...we spent a great weekend together and things got extremely heated...
She's made no secret at all of her desire for pain/pleasure...giving and receiving...there was scratching, biting, hair pulling...etc etc...it was pretty fucking hot! She's now been talking about how far we are willing to go with this...
I should add that this isn't just sex...feelings are there on both sides...pretty deep feelings
But to be honest, yes, the beast has been laid dormant for a while, but now it's being awoken by someone with a "few other ideas"....it feels a bit out of my comfort zone...but at the same time, I kinda like it...
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Gone with the flow and discovered something epic? Or been turned off by the whole idea?
Or am I facing the fact that chunks will get bitten out of me?? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Going with the flow within your comfort zone is the best way to be - if things move outside what you're comfortable with then it's time to sit down and talk about it - but if you're enjoying then ENJOY!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going with the flow within your comfort zone is the best way to be - if things move outside what you're comfortable with then it's time to sit down and talk about it - but if you're enjoying then ENJOY!!"
This ^^ pretty much sums it up I think...cheers dude! It's new, but so far, it's pretty fucking good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it feels good then what's the problem?
Most people dont go out of their comfort zone - that's why they're bored.
Enjoy it x"
I fully intend to now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take it one step at a time slow things down if you need to. There is nothing better than when you have a first session with someone and see they are on the same wavelength as you sexually and you know it's only going to get better. Enjoy the ride
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Whell.
Personally if it were me.
(Bear in mind I'm the world's most boring man) I would slow things down otherwise things like this burn brightly for a short time then burn out and fade away just as fast.
If you do everything possible straight away where is the experimental stuff later on,she sounds like the type to get bored quite quickly.
My advice leave her wanting more but not to the point of frustration also it's not just about what she wants.
(Once again I'm a very boring man so what do I know ) |
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