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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Nothing to do about “looks” what works out in the street or clubs with young women doesn’t necessarily work in here. Here your mind has to win them over, which I personally think is better.  "
I disagree. Looks are very important here. It's all about initial attractive, for me anyway.
I mean look at the Ops body.....oooooft  |
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"Nothing to do about “looks” what works out in the street or clubs with young women doesn’t necessarily work in here. Here your mind has to win them over, which I personally think is better.
I disagree. Looks are very important here. It's all about initial attractive, for me anyway.
I mean look at the Ops body.....oooooft "
So that's why you blew me out  |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
OP I'd perv at your pics and (once I'd mopped myself up) I'd move on to the next profile as I would think there is no way on earth he'd want to shag me. I would assume you're here to meet a young gym fit stunner...and unfortunately many of us women here are not that. |
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Personally, though I appreciate your body and how hard you've worked to achieve that, being a bit bigger and not so body confident myself I'd find that extremely intimidating and not contact you!
Good luck though OP, hope you find what you're looking for here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But at least give someone a chance don’t just assume because I have a body like this I’m stuck up and up myself I’m a personal trainer so I have to be in shape or I wouldn’t get any clients |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I'd perv at your pics and (once I'd mopped myself up) I'd move on to the next profile as I would think there is no way on earth he'd want to shag me. I would assume you're here to meet a young gym fit stunner...and unfortunately many of us women here are not that."
Mopped yourself up!! What a very horny image that conjures up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody is attracted to different things. From your pics on your profile I wouldn't be attracted to you as I'm sure from my pics I wouldn't attract you either. Luckily we all like different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, though I appreciate your body and how hard you've worked to achieve that, being a bit bigger and not so body confident myself I'd find that extremely intimidating and not contact you!
Good luck though OP, hope you find what you're looking for here "
It's a big shame that people think like that. You might be just what he's looking for.
All you ladies that think he's too buff to notice you should send him a wink.
For one, You never know... And for two it will make the guys day to get lots of winks from you lovely ladies and boost his confidence.
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"Should i pass on what iv learned hmmmm i suppose i should do "
Blake, i'd hold out for a newspaper Sunday suppliment deal if i were you...imagine a weekly spread of all your sex secrets...the country would be hooked and the press industry would be revived!  |
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Buff gym fit body's don't do it for everyone (and that includes me although I can appreciate the work that goes into it), maybe try a new pic as the two you have are very similar as show the same part of your body just a thought.
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that? "
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset.. |
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"Well you don’t know what someone’s like until you have some sort of Interaction with them"
Their profile will give an idea, as will their message. Given the volume of mail, that's what you've got to convince someone to take a chance on you. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's not just about aesthetics on here. Yes, there are less conventionally body beautiful people on here who do far better than you but that's because they sell themselves with a good profile and/or getting known on the scene by going to clubs and socials. I think looks can only take you so far. |
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It's refreshing to see someone who isn't afraid to say that they are confident in their looks. I think, judging by your verifications, that you aren't doing too badly though. However having read some recent threads and some of the comments here that many people dislike confidence and mistake it for arrogance. Now if you'd said you think you're not getting meets because you're ugly people would be telling you that you've got a great body and you should believe in yourself. I know, crazy isn't it!
I think that its as difficult for guys with a body like yours as it is for all men on here. You will intimidate some because they don't feel attractive enough and put others off because they associate good bodies with poor personality. There are people who can see past that and they're the ones you'll meet. Keep plugging away and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" That’s the thing people assume I’m not a superficial man "
On your profile you say:
"What I offer.
You already know, you’re thinking about it now "
And that's all you say about what you bring to the table. If we read a profile like this we're immediately thinking 'here we go again' 
You don't tell us much about what you're like as a person and what you like in the bedroom. It seems like you're just relying on the body shot and the reference to your "magic stick" to do the work for you. There's nothing wrong with that, and, as your verifications prove, it will get you some meets!
However, if you put some personality into your profile and add some more detail - you're onto a winning formula |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset.. "
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
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How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier? |
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"Nothing to do about “looks” what works out in the street or clubs with young women doesn’t necessarily work in here. Here your mind has to win them over, which I personally think is better.
I disagree. Looks are very important here. It's all about initial attractive, for me anyway.
I mean look at the Ops body.....oooooft "
Well if we’re looking and admiring bodies! Look no further than Lady Lick...wowsers...hummedah hummedah hummedah! |
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There's a line with confidence, being gym fit. Less really is more. For those who aren't gym goers, you risk looking narcissistic and obsessed, plus possibly scary. For those who are (hi!), yeah I'm working on that too and while it's impressive, it's also a bit |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?"
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something "
That doesn't seem to apply on fab. |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab. "
You don't look like it does apply to you |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you"
No, I'm treated differently because of my age. |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you
No, I'm treated differently because of my age."
I doubt people obsess over your age in a club.
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over a year ago
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me  "
It's a game,and some guys know how to play the game better than others.
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you
No, I'm treated differently because of my age.
I doubt people obsess over your age in a club.
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Maybe not but if there's a 40 year old and a 62 year old guess who they're going for if there's a choice? |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me "
5 veris in a year. Same as me...seem to be doing ok considering there’s 1000s of men per woman on here. And you’ve had some good compliments.
If you think you deserve more because you’re better looking than people who “get more” than you, then maybe there’s the issue?
Happy fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a middle aged fitness instructor/pt but we have very different clients hahahahahahahaha
I work in sport and spend my life surrounded by very fit guys & they come in all varieties, same as in life!
Attraction for me though is the mind not the gym!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing to do about “looks” what works out in the street or clubs with young women doesn’t necessarily work in here. Here your mind has to win them over, which I personally think is better.
I disagree. Looks are very important here. It's all about initial attractive, for me anyway.
I mean look at the Ops body.....oooooft "
Why can’t I see his body lol |
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In terms of weight, I've lost a lot of weight and gained visible muscle. Yes, the way I'm treated is sometimes radically different now I'm smaller, usually for the better, although I do get a lot more IRL creeps now too. |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me "
I would put it down to them being more attractive and interesting to people. It life though some people just have that aura and charisma that draws people in. |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
I would put it down to them being more attractive and interesting to people. It life though some people just have that aura and charisma that draws people in. "
This ^^^ and being sexy has nothing much to do with fitness! |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you
No, I'm treated differently because of my age.
I doubt people obsess over your age in a club.
Maybe not but if there's a 40 year old and a 62 year old guess who they're going for if there's a choice?"
They'd go for the one who doesn't look obese, age isnt a huge difference when it comes to women. Men it is due to associated erectile dysfunction and lacking stamina with age but older women isnt as off putting as someone who is fatter. I've seen it with my own eyes in the club's and I've experienced myself.
Can't change how I feel or what I've experienced it is what it is. Before people judge my size as many do don't realise when you go from a size 26 to an 18 still a fat fuck look no different except for saggier bits and smaller clothes. I'm a size 20/22 now again makes little difference now even if I managed to get to a BMI of 26 it's all flab and skin. I can't do anything about it as much as you can't do anything about age. We are who we are.
All I want is like minded people who see through all of that to what's more important my personality and then get to enjoy my flexibility and sexual adventurous nature.
For them to forget their judgements. Maybe understand the journey I've been through before they decide judgement.
Sadly there will always be people who will see me as nothing more than a worthless fat fuck. Their loss not mine
I'd give anyone the chance if they treat me as a person. Give me their attention in getting to know me and vice versa.
Like the chatrooms when no one worthy of their attention is about I end up the focus till someone prettier comes along then they aren't interested. These are the same guys who wonder why no one meets them because other people see the same actions. No one wants to be treated as a last option till someone better comes along. Many of which are the guys who obsess about going the gym and 8+ inch cocks. |
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you
No, I'm treated differently because of my age.
I doubt people obsess over your age in a club.
Maybe not but if there's a 40 year old and a 62 year old guess who they're going for if there's a choice?
They'd go for the one who doesn't look obese, age isnt a huge difference when it comes to women. Men it is due to associated erectile dysfunction and lacking stamina with age but older women isnt as off putting as someone who is fatter. I've seen it with my own eyes in the club's and I've experienced myself.
Can't change how I feel or what I've experienced it is what it is. Before people judge my size as many do don't realise when you go from a size 26 to an 18 still a fat fuck look no different except for saggier bits and smaller clothes. I'm a size 20/22 now again makes little difference now even if I managed to get to a BMI of 26 it's all flab and skin. I can't do anything about it as much as you can't do anything about age. We are who we are.
All I want is like minded people who see through all of that to what's more important my personality and then get to enjoy my flexibility and sexual adventurous nature.
For them to forget their judgements. Maybe understand the journey I've been through before they decide judgement.
Sadly there will always be people who will see me as nothing more than a worthless fat fuck. Their loss not mine
I'd give anyone the chance if they treat me as a person. Give me their attention in getting to know me and vice versa.
Like the chatrooms when no one worthy of their attention is about I end up the focus till someone prettier comes along then they aren't interested. These are the same guys who wonder why no one meets them because other people see the same actions. No one wants to be treated as a last option till someone better comes along. Many of which are the guys who obsess about going the gym and 8+ inch cocks."
I see.
Now I'm not too concerned that I'm treated differently due to my age, it's not (as you say) something I can do anything about. My experience and subsequent opinion on how I'm treated because of it are as valid as yours on your situation though. |
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"I'm a middle aged fitness instructor/pt but we have very different clients hahahahahahahaha
I work in sport and spend my life surrounded by very fit guys & they come in all varieties, same as in life!
Attraction for me though is the mind not the gym! "
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"Maybe your ignorance is putting ladies off
Just saying like
Spot on
I dont see any ignorance displayed here at all or on his profile...why are you both jumping on him like that?
No no no you misunderstand, I’m trying to say that people will automatically assume there’s there’s a level of arrogance attached to him. I’m sure he’s a lovely person and Iv just read he’s a personal trainer hence the lovely body, so he needs to do Sotho g with his profile that get people to read and understand he’s not like that, I guarantee ever woman passes without even reading just because there instantly judging him on his perfect body = arrogance mindset..
I'm sure it's not just fab we take experience of people who are gym goers.
It's been my experience on fab and off that the more fanatical about the gym they are the more arrogant and entitled they are. Vanity and selfishness tends to go hand in hand.
My experience of fab is the guys think I should be grateful for the fact I get to do anything with them and I'm there to make sure they are pleased. My pleasure means nothing to them because I don't deserve it in their eyes.
If I was prettier and skinnier they'd treat me better. But I am who I am so I'd rather not put myself in that situation so I avoid men who think the gym is more important than most things.
I'm more than what I look like I find other people who feel the same way more compatible with my personality.
Not everyone who obsess about the gym are shallow arseholes but sadly most are. Funny most forget when they started the gym they were like most of us average or overweight and even obese body types but it all goes to their head.
They also don't realise some looked just like they do but time and circumstances changes everything.
How do you know they'd treat you better if you were prettier and skinnier?
You must be more of a hermit than I am then.
Even the verifications on here are proof.
Going out seeing women treated differently by guys the prettier and slimmer you are the more respect is given. Nightclubs, shopping, bars and even the swingers clubs.
They treat them better for the fact they want their attention more, they want them more. When they get rejected they then go for people like me as if I would be grateful of their interest.
Must be blind not to notice societies standards of beauty attracts more favourable and respectful attention
The men who gawk in the club's at the hottest women but by end of the night will be willing to lose their standards to try get something
That doesn't seem to apply on fab.
You don't look like it does apply to you
No, I'm treated differently because of my age.
I doubt people obsess over your age in a club.
Maybe not but if there's a 40 year old and a 62 year old guess who they're going for if there's a choice?
They'd go for the one who doesn't look obese, age isnt a huge difference when it comes to women. Men it is due to associated erectile dysfunction and lacking stamina with age but older women isnt as off putting as someone who is fatter. I've seen it with my own eyes in the club's and I've experienced myself.
Can't change how I feel or what I've experienced it is what it is. Before people judge my size as many do don't realise when you go from a size 26 to an 18 still a fat fuck look no different except for saggier bits and smaller clothes. I'm a size 20/22 now again makes little difference now even if I managed to get to a BMI of 26 it's all flab and skin. I can't do anything about it as much as you can't do anything about age. We are who we are.
All I want is like minded people who see through all of that to what's more important my personality and then get to enjoy my flexibility and sexual adventurous nature.
For them to forget their judgements. Maybe understand the journey I've been through before they decide judgement.
Sadly there will always be people who will see me as nothing more than a worthless fat fuck. Their loss not mine
I'd give anyone the chance if they treat me as a person. Give me their attention in getting to know me and vice versa.
Like the chatrooms when no one worthy of their attention is about I end up the focus till someone prettier comes along then they aren't interested. These are the same guys who wonder why no one meets them because other people see the same actions. No one wants to be treated as a last option till someone better comes along. Many of which are the guys who obsess about going the gym and 8+ inch cocks.
I see.
Now I'm not too concerned that I'm treated differently due to my age, it's not (as you say) something I can do anything about. My experience and subsequent opinion on how I'm treated because of it are as valid as yours on your situation though."
Both of your genetics are a blessing since neither of you look your age. I doubt anyone would believe you in a club if they did ask you your ages.
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me "
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it  |
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"Should i pass on what iv learned hmmmm i suppose i should do
Blake, i'd hold out for a newspaper Sunday suppliment deal if i were you...imagine a weekly spread of all your sex secrets...the country would be hooked and the press industry would be revived! "
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me "
You don't have any photos up so how does anyone know if you are bad looking or not? |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it "
A love god you say |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
You don't have any photos up so how does anyone know if you are bad looking or not?"
he did before guys very toned |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me "
And that is probably why they get more "play" thank you. |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it
A love god you say "
Well I once kissed a girl and she said I could do it again if I wanted surely that rates as a love god |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
You don't have any photos up so how does anyone know if you are bad looking or not?he did before guys very toned "
I did read that...I was hoping to prompt him for a show and tell
I appreciate the work put into that kind of form |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
You don't have any photos up so how does anyone know if you are bad looking or not?he did before guys very toned
I did read that...I was hoping to prompt him for a show and tell
I appreciate the work put into that kind of form"
One packs work too |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it
A love god you say
Well I once kissed a girl and she said I could do it again if I wanted surely that rates as a love god "
Erm not really...
but it does all start with a kiss |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
You don't have any photos up so how does anyone know if you are bad looking or not?he did before guys very toned
I did read that...I was hoping to prompt him for a show and tell
I appreciate the work put into that kind of form
One packs work too "
I appreciate the human form whatever it's shape..that's what keeps things interesting |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it
A love god you say
Well I once kissed a girl and she said I could do it again if I wanted surely that rates as a love god
Erm not really...
but it does all start with a kiss "
Usually, but once it started with some gentle stroking at the back of the neck in Costas..... |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it
A love god you say
Well I once kissed a girl and she said I could do it again if I wanted surely that rates as a love god
Erm not really...
but it does all start with a kiss "
So hot chocolate sang on you sexy thing which record came free with my How to Love like a God book. I’ve got the original 1978 first edition. |
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"Not being arrogant, far from it. I’m not a bad looking man. I’m just baffled how some people get more play on fab than me
Because I am a love god who can do know wrong.
Why how much do you get, it’s not like loads is it
A love god you say
Well I once kissed a girl and she said I could do it again if I wanted surely that rates as a love god
Erm not really...
but it does all start with a kiss
So hot chocolate sang on you sexy thing which record came free with my How to Love like a God book. I’ve got the original 1978 first edition. "
that explains it all
Great tune that |
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and that people have judged you negatively on how you look