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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
How is it weird kissing is sex? No kissing no sex for me  |
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Agree no kissing no point BUT found half our meets dont for whatever reason maybe they think we dont as some couples dont as its too intimate ,but even if they are not the best kisser its still makes me feel nicer than just getting down to it ,but would never force anyone ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the attraction you have for that person.
If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.
But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the attraction you have for that person.
If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.
But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory. "
what if you fancy her arse is it mandatory to kiss that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the attraction you have for that person.
If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.
But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory. what if you fancy her arse is it mandatory to kiss that? "
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I'm a fan of the kissing
...I definitely need it as the attraction and connection is what turns me on, kissing plays a big part towards that.
I am though, surprised at the men's comments on here...almost all have said yes to needing kissing
...I really thought men would be more 'nah sod that, happy to just fuck' viewpoint
...talk about me making an assumption there!!!! Sorry guys!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need kissing and lots of it. If the kissing is crap it would never go further.
But then I only do intimate encounters. I generally only see people I know will become repeat meets, I need the passion and desire. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I agree with what a lot of others have said in here. If there is no kissing then it won't go any father than just coffee.I wouldn't meet someone if they said they don't kiss. Kissing is too important to me it's what shows if you have chemistry. If the kiss doesn't work then I won't want to have sex with that person. |
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We love kissing. I did get a bit weird once with one lady I see my hubby kiss while fucking (didn’t mind any other time) but I soon got over it as I love being kissed while being fucked, and what’s good for the goose etc! |
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"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee 
That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff"
Good to hear. I was going to ask you today how it went after seeing you’d put yesterday you had a long drive for a coffee! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee
That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff"
Well I had him in bed all weekend so I knew he was worth it. but I was feeling a bit sad and he said he wished he could give me a kiss and cuddle so I drove for my kiss and cuddle  |
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"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee
That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff
Well I had him in bed all weekend so I knew he was worth it. but I was feeling a bit sad and he said he wished he could give me a kiss and cuddle so I drove for my kiss and cuddle "
Like that... it's good to be impulsive and what's distance between friends. sounds like a lovely weekend too |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that 
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets? "
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it  |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it "
kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
Good question this..
My view, especially for a meet or date, incredibly sensual; fundamental to awesome sex. Full package not received if no kissing so no problem either if a lady doesn't consent. I'll simply respect that boundary. Less likely to have sex though if no initial contact by kissing. I won't just kiss anybody either. On the flip side though, especially with a regular partner, quickies without kissing can be highly sexually charged moments.
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet"
I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff?
Good question this..
My view, especially for a meet or date, incredibly sensual; fundamental to awesome sex. Full package not received if no kissing so no problem either if a lady doesn't consent. I'll simply respect that boundary. Less likely to have sex though if no initial contact by kissing. I won't just kiss anybody either. On the flip side though, especially with a regular partner, quickies without kissing can be highly sexually charged moments.
xx"
Agreed with this fully and believe kissing is the essential final test that there is chemistry. Things might have been going awesome up to the kiss, but an awkward passionless kiss could bring a premature end to the night. Kisding is as much fun if not more fun than every single other part of a meet, imo  |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet
I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway"
that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet
I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway
that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x"
My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet
I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway
that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x
My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol "
I'm happy to be inspiration but you just concentrate on that kiss |
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"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that
don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?
Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet
I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway
that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x
My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol
I'm happy to be inspiration but you just concentrate on that kiss "
I’ll try  |
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Kissing is a must for me on a meet social or otherwise. Mr goes to the loo in the pub that's my cue to hopefully get a snog...sometimes he goes to "the loo" a lot if I wink at him as he knows I enjoyed so want more.
During fun it's a necessity..  |
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
I love kissing ! It’s a huge turn on for me  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
Is this a trick question?  Everything starts and ends with a kiss. It's the chief primer, the act that oils the gears of lust and passion Sex without kissing is like a half cooked meal, a cake without the delicious covering, a G&T without the tonic. It's not the same without it! When done well it takes the experience to a whole other level!
Summer horn. Don't mind me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No kissing = no meet for me. I’ve only had one meet with one couple where there was no kissing as they only kissed each other. Made me completely feel used and like a spare part so I’ll never do it again. It’s an essential part of the build up to sex and yes it’s an intimate act but so is sex in general. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive. |
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I find it odd that some people won't kiss. Smooshing your genitals together is fine, but your mouths touching is too intimate...? I don't get it. I respect that choice, it's just not for me. Kissing is an awesome part of sexy time, a total lack of it would be an immediate deal-breaker for me.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."
Summer horn here as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."
I just jizzed! |
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"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."
This ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual? Yeah the kiss let's you know how its going to go!!! The kiss is the info for what lies ahead! Ha
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive.
This ^ "
definitely!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.
Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual? Yeah the kiss let's you know how its going to go!!! The kiss is the info for what lies ahead! Ha
Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
I prefer kissing then yeah definitely |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Absolutely adore kissing and can, and have, completely lost myself in just that act alone - from those first tentative brushes of the lips, to that tender probing of the tongue to full on mouths locked euphoric snogging where the world around you just blurs.
Kissing is what sets the tone and the mood for me, so one without kissing wouldn't be for me.
That said I totally respect the preferences of those that prefer not to kiss just as I would respect any other boundary people may have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely adore kissing and can, and have, completely lost myself in just that act alone - from those first tentative brushes of the lips, to that tender probing of the tongue to full on mouths locked euphoric snogging where the world around you just blurs.
Kissing is what sets the tone and the mood for me, so one without kissing wouldn't be for me.
That said I totally respect the preferences of those that prefer not to kiss just as I would respect any other boundary people may have."
The intimacy, the build, the passion and desire that can come from it, the feeling like you're the only 2 people in the world at that moment and nobody else matters....
And that's why I struggle watching B kiss others or thinking about it. I attach that memory and feeling to it. Selfishly I want that feeling to be for me alone.
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"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee "
Reminds me of a quote from Mary Shelley's Dracula. "I have travelled across aeons of time to be with you", as he bares his fangs. |
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Even on dogging meets my wife would insist on kissing. If a guy didn’t want to kiss he went without anything at all.
Because lots of guys thought that the randomness and illicit nature of dogging was ok as they were married, there were always a few who just wanted to unload and go. They only got to do so with their own hand, as my wife wouldn’t do a thing with guys like that.
Made me smile really as I guess they thought they could use a woman for relief without any real meaning if they didn’t kiss! |
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"It's the tongue thing that people try and do...
ewww it grosses me right out
...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww
Oh god there has to be tongue! "
oh goodness ...no...no..no lol .. I like a good kiss but no.....just no lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would be outta there if there isn't enough chemistry to kiss. Can you imagine how crap the sex would be if you don't even want to go near each other's mouths? |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a must for me on a meet social or otherwise. Mr goes to the loo in the pub that's my cue to hopefully get a snog...sometimes he goes to "the loo" a lot if I wink at him as he knows I enjoyed so want more.
During fun it's a necessity.. "
Brilliant. I've recently picked up a few tips on how to approach couples in both social meets and vanilla environments and sure as hell can't wait to test them out. Made easier no doubt when the hubby goes to the bathroom of course. x |
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By *lex D.Man
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"It's the tongue thing that people try and do...
ewww it grosses me right out
...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww
Oh god there has to be tongue! "
Personally, I'm not thrilled with tongues but will reciprocate gently to chill the kiss back to sensual level. I refuse outright too though to have my face sucked which bizarrely happens and which is an awful experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't be having sex if there was no kissing, it's where it all starts for me!
I can understand couples prefer to keep it between themselves though. "
Sharing is caring and a 3 way smooch is so sensual and erotic |
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"I wouldn't be having sex if there was no kissing, it's where it all starts for me!
I can understand couples prefer to keep it between themselves though. "
I truly can’t understand it.
Some say they like to keep kissing as something to be special for just each other. Yet they happily place their lips on the genitals of those they play with, and enjoy penetration and orgasm with other people! I’ve never understood the concept that you can do all this, but not kiss someone else on the lips.
And I don’t think I ever will. |
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It's a yes from me. Serves as a way to feel each other out before getting onto further foreplay, but also during sex it's good too. You can get a feel for things from kissing too. Wanting to take it off the table completely -I find that a bit odd, even if you've just met for first time, seeing as you'll probably be doing more intimate stuff (mouth to v, mouth to p etc etc) later on! |
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