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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Just looking for some advice. I’ve followed all the tips on how to make your profile etc.
When I send message people, and I don’t just message saying just ‘Hi’ or ‘Fancy a bang’.
However, most of the time, my messages are never read. Now I gather there are loads of guys on here, but if anyone has any tips for my profile. It would be appreciated.
I have photos, verified photo, etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's ' dabble' not 'dapple'"
I noticed that too. Apart from that it looks ok, but then I’m guessing I’m not target audience!
All I can say op is have patience. If people aren’t reading messages there’s not a lot you can do. You’ve got an issue if everyone is reading and deleting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe try :-
Filling up your profile with some public pics ( preferably without a hard-on in the staring role).
Give a bit more insight into your own personality.
Write a little more about the kind of women you would like to meet.
If you find it difficult to set up coffee meets at first then try to get to some site socials and hopefully get verified as soon as possible.
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"It takes time 3 weeks is nothing just keep a positive polite attitude and don't expect the earth. "
 You're basically brand new OP. Just keep chatting in the forums, get to know people, visit some clubs or social events and you'll be meeting people in no time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest there's a degree of luck whether your message will get read.
If someone has 200+ unread messages it will likely get lost and never get read |
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Ok
You say you are here again because unfortunately it's over
Makes it feel you think this place is second best
No woman wants to be second best do they
So look at it again
No public pics would get a delete from us straight off too.
Good luck
Jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people making contact need to make the subject and first 10-ish words of the message something witty, or at least reference something from their profile, and attach a picture or two. If you've hundreds of messages there's no point opening the 'hows u' or purely flattery type with no attachments, as it's already obvious there's nothing interesting in it. I wouldn't check the profile of those either so you just sell yourself short if you put effort into your profile then don't make the message even worth them opening. Not saying you're doing that but that'd be my main advice. |
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There is no magic formula. Single guys outnumber every other account type on the site so you've got to stand out. Just be respectful in your message (so many are not), read the profile before you message (again, so many do not) and send a face, not dick pic (do I eve need to explain this?).
If the other party interested, they'll message back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No public pics is a straight no from us for starters, and there are way too many guys on here to choose from, we get good looking guys with 6 packs message us and the Mrs still isn't interested in replying most of the time as we're mostly in to couples and single females. Good luck though |
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