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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's about other people's perception of you. Not much you can do about it. "
This ^^^ it's how they feel about themselves too and you can't change that either  |
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"It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
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I thought that too... I did say hello eventually after a rum or two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be glad she decided to take a chance and say hello!  we all perceive some people to be too attractive to find us attractive. I’m guilty of it all the time. Always surprised on here -Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m reminded of a time a while back we got blocked by a couple who openly told us in the forum that they had blocked us because they were better than us, we’d never interacted before then and given how far away from us they were we wouldn’t have anyway, anyway, back to your OP, i myself (male half) have held off making contact with people, even at social events, because i’ve thought they are out my league, but after some dutch courage, ive plucked up the courage and introduced myself, let’s just say, meeting swingers in person at a social even is far easier than it is on here, your perception can be so off by what you read on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
I thought that too... I did say hello eventually after a rum or two "
No rum needed! I'm approachable as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m reminded of a time a while back we got blocked by a couple who openly told us in the forum that they had blocked us because they were better than us, we’d never interacted before then and given how far away from us they were we wouldn’t have anyway, anyway, back to your OP, i myself (male half) have held off making contact with people, even at social events, because i’ve thought they are out my league, but after some dutch courage, ive plucked up the courage and introduced myself, let’s just say, meeting swingers in person at a social even is far easier than it is on here, your perception can be so off by what you read on here."
Yea.. I guess.. but.. it's not like I go round snobbing it up and I flirt back with pretty much anyone who flirts openly with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
I thought that too... I did say hello eventually after a rum or two
No rum needed! I'm approachable as fuck "
Get out of it, you're akin to Victor Meldrew after he's had no sleep and stubbed his toe.
I'm lying obviously
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
I thought that too... I did say hello eventually after a rum or two
No rum needed! I'm approachable as fuck
Get out of it, you're akin to Victor Meldrew after he's had no sleep and stubbed his toe.
I'm lying obviously
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Meldrew League "I don't belieeeeeve it" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note, Ash told me that he very nearly didn't message me because he thought I wouldn't be interested. I'm so glad he did, we have now been together 9 months and going on our first holiday together tomorrow. We are very happy and planning our future together. So if you assume "you are not in their league" you really could be missing out big time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On a serious note, Ash told me that he very nearly didn't message me because he thought I wouldn't be interested. I'm so glad he did, we have now been together 9 months and going on our first holiday together tomorrow. We are very happy and planning our future together. So if you assume "you are not in their league" you really could be missing out big time. "
That's my only point x Well put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its a bit of shyness/insecurity on their part I guess. I can relate, I dont class people as better or worse than others but there are people that I would be nervous to approach. |
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"Its a bit of shyness/insecurity on their part I guess. I can relate, I dont class people as better or worse than others but there are people that I would be nervous to approach. "
This really. Personally i’m painfully shy and i’d NEVER approach a bloke in person and i’m pretty much incapable of doing it on here too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x |
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"I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x "
Public rejection. Must be forum based. Why put yourself through it? There are much more suitable people away from the forum. You'll find more happiness there for sure x |
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"I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x "
public rejection can't have been nice but you know hats off to you. I admire you putting yourself out there.
I hope you recover fully soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x
Public rejection. Must be forum based. Why put yourself through it? There are much more suitable people away from the forum. You'll find more happiness there for sure x"
This, although forget the happiness. A good fucking will suffice.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Human League...Don't you want me baby?...well not you OP..some lady hottie..
Tune 
Oh, there's one now..!.... 
 good luck going up that mountain tomorrow "
I've been, I'm back...  |
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"Human League...Don't you want me baby?...well not you OP..some lady hottie..
Tune
Oh, there's one now..!....
good luck going up that mountain tomorrow
I've been, I'm back... "
so you made it then and all in one piece |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x
public rejection can't have been nice but you know hats off to you. I admire you putting yourself out there.
I hope you recover fully soon x"
Oh he was a knob, no second chance. I’m getting there. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Human League...Don't you want me baby?...well not you OP..some lady hottie..
Tune
Oh, there's one now..!....
good luck going up that mountain tomorrow
I've been, I'm back...
so you made it then and all in one piece "
Yes, reliving my stupidity... |
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"It's been drawn to my attention that I'm in a League of some sort.. and someone thought they were in a lower one.. So hadn't said hello yet.
I'd like to officially withdraw myself from said 'League' Please.
I thought that too... I did say hello eventually after a rum or two
No rum needed! I'm approachable as fuck "
Duh! I know that now
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to message whoever I liked, but after a public rejection it knocked my confidence. Then I’ve had illness and other things so I’ve not recovered fully. Though some people do put forward an impression of wanting perfection x
public rejection can't have been nice but you know hats off to you. I admire you putting yourself out there.
I hope you recover fully soon x
Oh he was a knob, no second chance. I’m getting there. Thanks x "
The Forum is very public and can be awful at times, just takes one comment to ruin it for you - don’t take it personally and think of it as a lucky escape xx |
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Just remember that the highest league might be where the fittest players and best athletes are. Although they may be well rewarded, they are a bunch of primped posters who are also subject to lots of stress and heartache if they don't perform. They also have a relatively short career span.
Whereas, down in the bottom leagues is where people play for the love of it- getting filthy with their mates and enjoying every second of it. You can also play at this level for far longer.
I know where I'd rather be... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a bit of shyness/insecurity on their part I guess. I can relate, I dont class people as better or worse than others but there are people that I would be nervous to approach. "
Said one of the Forums most desirable people (in my humblest)  Sadly you're right.
We need to lighten up on ourselves a bit methinks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a bit of shyness/insecurity on their part I guess. I can relate, I dont class people as better or worse than others but there are people that I would be nervous to approach.
This really. Personally i’m painfully shy and i’d NEVER approach a bloke in person and i’m pretty much incapable of doing it on here too.
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Yet you're ok talking.. here in the thread? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ffs
It's like the alpha Male thing all over again. Someone said this. I don't agree with it. I thought I'd tell the forum about it anyway..
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How long have you been here?
Surely you're long enough in the tooth (forum wise) to be above making snipey comments at me? Just because you dont like me. Two in two days, am I on your brain or something? Can I refer you to the Forum rules.. It's quite clear.
Let it go.. let it gooooo.. I don't want Timeouts anymoooOoore.. Cos here I am.. Here I stand.. your attitude never bothered me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate that “league” rubbish.
I’ve has messaged from men who consider me “out of their league” it intrigues me and I tend to ask them, if that’s the case, why message?
Nobody is out of another persons league in my opinion!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just remember that the highest league might be where the fittest players and best athletes are. Although they may be well rewarded, they are a bunch of primped posters who are also subject to lots of stress and heartache if they don't perform. They also have a relatively short career span.
Whereas, down in the bottom leagues is where people play for the love of it- getting filthy with their mates and enjoying every second of it. You can also play at this level for far longer.
I know where I'd rather be..."
Watching? Too much effort for me all this league business.. I'd rather have a pie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate that “league” rubbish.
I’ve has messaged from men who consider me “out of their league” it intrigues me and I tend to ask them, if that’s the case, why message?
Nobody is out of another persons league in my opinion! "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hate that “league” rubbish.
I’ve has messaged from men who consider me “out of their league” it intrigues me and I tend to ask them, if that’s the case, why message?
Nobody is out of another persons league in my opinion! "
I feel same way. |
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"I hate that “league” rubbish.
I’ve has messaged from men who consider me “out of their league” it intrigues me and I tend to ask them, if that’s the case, why message?
Nobody is out of another persons league in my opinion! "
Nor in mine but I've come to realise recently that some people do place people in leagues according to their perceived attractiveness. It's often a low confidence thing where people don't feel they're good enough for the really attractive types.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate that “league” rubbish.
I’ve has messaged from men who consider me “out of their league” it intrigues me and I tend to ask them, if that’s the case, why message?
Nobody is out of another persons league in my opinion!
Nor in mine but I've come to realise recently that some people do place people in leagues according to their perceived attractiveness. It's often a low confidence thing where people don't feel they're good enough for the really attractive types.
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