So I'm sleeping with my fwb, been together 7 months, it's kinda turned exclusive, we go out, day trips, chilling, the company..met each others family but..
Sex has dwindled. At tbw beginning was every meet. Now about one in four meets
We spend most free time together.
Met on here but he's no longer active.
Enjoy his company forget the sex?
But I have a high sex drive and its frustrating.. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Sounds to me as if it's become more of a traditional relationship than just an fwb setup. Perhaps you should tell him you crave sex more often?
Would probably be a good idea to discuss where the nature of your relationship stands, if you haven't already? |
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He sounds nice but if he's not the right person for you then keep looking until you find him.
Many of us have learned from experience that being single is better than being with the wrong person.
He could have got settled and not making the effort any more. Especially if you do all the 'work' in the relationship.
Having said that, loss of libido is often a physical symptom of a mental issue.
Has he got anything on his mind that could be affecting him? Does he talk about personal stuff? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds to me as if it's become more of a traditional relationship than just an fwb setup. Perhaps you should tell him you crave sex more often?
Would probably be a good idea to discuss where the nature of your relationship stands, if you haven't already?"
 to all this.
He wants a wife, you want a shag OP. |
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The first time we met he said he didn't need to be on fab anymore..but I like the lifestyle though haven't met anyone sexually since I met him
He says he's just not bothered about sex..but I am.
But his company is ace |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You still state that you wish to meet men on your profile, so you are obviously keeping your options open. If you can't tell your friend that you need to be fucked more often, then the relationship you have with him isn't right? You need to have a serious chat? |
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"I do need to chat to him don't I?
I like we hang out, go on days out, have fun but at first he seemed really into sex.
Now, he's not bothered I don't think.
I'm almost scared to initiate it"
if all the factors work then it's a real shame that sex has dwindled and so soon..I'd say talk to him too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Communication is key...always.
Sounds like you have a traditional relationship rather than just fwb, and maybe he's got comfortable...it happens.
Have a chat and see how it best goes forward for you both, if his company is that good then maybe there are certain allowances to be made, but in the end you both need to be happy.....
......said the wise old owl  |
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"I do need to chat to him don't I?
I like we hang out, go on days out, have fun but at first he seemed really into sex.
Now, he's not bothered I don't think.
I'm almost scared to initiate it"
It's scary, I get it. But better nipped in the bud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its gone more relationship than fwb, i have a fwb.. just us 2 know about it no real world shit that comes with a relationship.. its just friends that exclusively have sex with each other and enjoy eachothers company, uncomplicated & fun.
The trouble is some people have issues with relationships for whatever reason and maybe he has which is putting a block on the sex.
Although...
My libido crashed recently i think its more to do with stress than anything else, i cleared afew things up last week, completed and cleared it off my todo list.. this past few days my sex drive has been off the scale agian. So it could be any reason... best thing you can do is have a unpresured chat with him and see where you stand |
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