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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "
nope having my own way all the time would bore me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ?
nope having my own way all the time would bore me" order him to change |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? ... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy " Interesting ,how would you use someone you didnt fancy ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? ... yes It turns me on being dominant.. Even if I dont fancy the guy Interesting ,how would you use someone you didnt fancy ?... well it was for him, . think i need to inbox you this.. " sure feel free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would women take a male servant to use BE HONEST it can be for any need not just sexual but you control sexually ? "
Had one. Signed a contract. Lasted two weeks as I was bored out of my brains and forget sex, no way...
However it did make me realise how sexy free will is... |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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This is the problem with discussing D/S on Fab there are two many people discussinf D/S that are not interested in it.
I appreciate people have to try things to know where they stand, and it may work for them or it may not, and if not leave it. But D/S is not a one person dynamic and I wonder about the effect on the people discarded. I get the feeling if men said some of the comments on this thread they would be roasted as wannabes. I hasten to add that I am not criticising any comments or any person.
I really hate the phrase "natural dominant/submissive" as it is misused. What I do believe is that you have to be by impelled or strongly inclined by nature to be dominant or submissive. In that way boredom does not set in. I think, dream, live, for what I can do to a submissive that is on my wave length. But I think people forget that the important word in "D/S relationship" is "relationship". Whether you are a dom or domme, experienced people realise that submissives are not toys. Although I do not believe submission is a gift, submision is precious.
Two final thoughts, firstly submission is strength. I takes strength and discipline to submit.
Secondly submissives in other parts of their lives can be powerful men or women.
My favourite quote is a domme who said" I want my submissives to be lions" Think Boudicca and her warriors.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the problem with discussing D/S on Fab there are two many people discussinf D/S that are not interested in it.
I appreciate people have to try things to know where they stand, and it may work for them or it may not, and if not leave it. But D/S is not a one person dynamic and I wonder about the effect on the people discarded. I get the feeling if men said some of the comments on this thread they would be roasted as wannabes. I hasten to add that I am not criticising any comments or any person.
I really hate the phrase "natural dominant/submissive" as it is misused. What I do believe is that you have to be by impelled or strongly inclined by nature to be dominant or submissive. In that way boredom does not set in. I think, dream, live, for what I can do to a submissive that is on my wave length. But I think people forget that the important word in "D/S relationship" is "relationship". Whether you are a dom or domme, experienced people realise that submissives are not toys. Although I do not believe submission is a gift, submision is precious.
Two final thoughts, firstly submission is strength. I takes strength and discipline to submit.
Secondly submissives in other parts of their lives can be powerful men or women.
My favourite quote is a domme who said" I want my submissives to be lions" Think Boudicca and her warriors.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I like strong men.
You think submission is weakness? I'm not sure it is... All the submissive women in my life were tough as nails "
No I realised after posting that it wasn't quite the right word.
The OP said servant, to me that's different to submitting. I like submissive men who are strong willed and hard to break. I want to take their submission as much as they want to give it. I enjoy the mind games and the manipulation it takes.
I'm not into being worshipped or "served", it's not the kind of person I'm attracted to. I do agree it can take a strong person to do that though. |
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"No one should be anyone’s servant... This is when guy have to seek it from else where or pay! "
So because someone isn’t a servant you say that’s why they go elsewhere or pay. What do you thing a servant is ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I like strong men.
You think submission is weakness? I'm not sure it is... All the submissive women in my life were tough as nails
No I realised after posting that it wasn't quite the right word.
The OP said servant, to me that's different to submitting. I like submissive men who are strong willed and hard to break. I want to take their submission as much as they want to give it. I enjoy the mind games and the manipulation it takes.
I'm not into being worshipped or "served", it's not the kind of person I'm attracted to. I do agree it can take a strong person to do that though. "
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