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over a year ago
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"Depends on the kind of cheating.
I always slip myself an extra £500 if I'm the banker. I always feel kinda naughty when I do it. "
If that was a man on here.......  |
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over a year ago
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More seriously.
I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been cheated on in the past and I've also been in the position where I was the other woman. There is something hot about doing something your not meant to be doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to think I must be addicted to cheating.. im not. It's not about cheating for me, it's about wanting to be close to somebody special. The 'cheating' is just an unfortunate bi-product.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I’ve been in a few situations like this I cheated on my wife it was hot at the time it was with her mate
Then she cheated on me with someone as payback
She also said it was hot
Both got hurt not worth it in the long run
No longer together now but if both of us cheated we where not right for each other personally I’ll never cheat again but I’ll be the other man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT "
Neither. Having been on the receiving end, it's one of the most horrible feelings in the world and there's on excuse for it. If you're clearly not happy suck it up and end it you cowards. |
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"IS IT SEXY IS IT HOT
Neither. Having been on the receiving end, it's one of the most horrible feelings in the world and there's on excuse for it. If you're clearly not happy suck it up and end it you cowards."
I 2nd LvD's comment......sad if you find it exciting to ruin people's lives.... |
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over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More seriously.
I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? "
do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol |
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over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol"
If she doesn't know you are on here then yes  cheating can be emotional not just physical |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"More seriously.
I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot?
I agree. "
That is why i never have because of reality BUT the thoughts dont stop even about her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol
If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical "
its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been cheated on in the past and I've also been in the position where I was the other woman. There is something hot about doing something your not meant to be doing. "
how did you feel sexually both times ??
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness"
As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. |
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over a year ago
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both."
how so ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol
If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical
its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad"
It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol
If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical
its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad
It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you. "
This ^^^ ask her if you "joined" swingers site as a single man how she'd feel about it perhaps? |
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over a year ago
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
You're already cheating on her lol by being on here surely? do you think so ? i should just tell her my thoughts lol
If she doesn't know you are on here then yes cheating can be emotional not just physical
its sexual and visual not emotional youll have me feeling guilty but ill get a rush feeling bad
It may be an emotional issue for her. It's not just about you. "
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?"
How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never fully trust people who cheat or semantically don’t but emotionally do.
I am married, Mrs always knows so is that cheating?"
No it isn't at all ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was cheated on and it destroyed me at the time and ultimately ended my marriage. So personally I dont think theres anything hot about it. But I'm sure my wife thought differently at the time lol |
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I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji) |
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"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)"
This!!! 1000% agreed |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)
This!!! 1000% agreed"
Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they |
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"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)
This!!! 1000% agreed
Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they "
How can you trust someone that lies to to the one their suppose to be totally open and honest with. The person that are the closest to them. Wasn't going to mention the people they are cheating with. The other person... personally if they know the person is attached then they just as bad |
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"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)
This!!! 1000% agreed
Me personally I stay away from the men that there partner dont know they are on here as I'm.on for fun not to destroy ppl lives n yes they find out in the end plus honesty important yo me on swinging and they hardly honest are they
How can you trust someone that lies to to the one their suppose to be totally open and honest with. The person that are the closest to them. Wasn't going to mention the people they are cheating with. The other person... personally if they know the person is attached then they just as bad "
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I know cheating goes on but if you haven't got the balls to be honest, then the only person your lying to is yourself. I know it takes two to tango, but surely there are enough single men or women to meet up with.. sexting is also crap, if your doing this your already cheating. |
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness"
Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy |
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy "
Another thread i need to bite down on my tongue for!! There is no justification for cheating ever!
Leaves an slams door before i get banned x |
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"
Bollocks... teying to back track because harly anyone agrees with you... See cowardly!!! |
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
Huh??? You think it's sexy to lie and break someones heart? Ask your missus what she thinks? See if she still finds you sexy
Another thread i need to bite down on my tongue for!! There is no justification for cheating ever!
Leaves an slams door before i get banned x"
yeah true... Ive said my bit now ignoring this thread... |
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?"
Bet the blocked button has been hammered on you today.. just admitting you have a gf.. yet single on your profile!!
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"Ive never done it ive asked and suggested with ex partners and since having a new girlfriend the fantasy has started again , DO I TELL her about it?
Bet the blocked button has been hammered on you today.. just admitting you have a gf.. yet single on your profile!!
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Yeah the fact you're on this site asking if you should tell your gf you want to cheat is bad enough... Just be single... best way to be. I'm having a great time since I left UK fairplay |
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"I think it's disgusting!! These people probably go out shag someone else then go back to their 'loved ones' and tell them they love them... Fucking bollocks do you. You don't know the meaning of the word. Grow some bollocks and leave who you're with then shag whoever you want. It's one of the worst pains ever finding out you've been cheated on. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. How can you say you love someone then shag around? I just don't get it? If you loke sex with different people stay single... simple. You enter into a committed relationship then stay committed and faithful. Unless the other person knows and excepts it then it down right rude! Biggest for of lying to your partner. To those who have been cheated on you will understand and my heart goes out to you. To those of you cheating on your loving partner. Fucking do one... wankers!
So no... it's not sexy it's cowardly... (Pissed off face emoji)
This!!! 1000% agreed"
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?
How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings."
This EXACTLY....cheating is an utmost disrespect for the person you hold dear...
Turn the tables...you are settle down with this person, have loved every minute of being with them, made memories, future goals and BOOM...she tells you of her profile on here, her verifications and previous meets...safe to say your world would come crashing down and question your esteem, confidence and 'what did I do wrong'
And this is ok??????
For those saying it was hot to cheat, it sounds like it was more the excitement of being with someone new and anticipation of new partner
..easier and kinder to break up with the current and experience new excitement each and every time by sleeping about and sewing your seed...
My personal opinion...that is all.... |
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I was in an 18 year relationship and sometimes it was miserable..I was miserable but I never once cheated and nor did he.
I do understand though that things sometimes aren't black and white and that every cheat isn't just an evil arsehole. |
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"arnt you just swinging though but with more sexiness
As you're only looking for women I'd say you're just a shagger and not a swinger. To us, swinging is a mindset that encompasses truth and honesty and you seem to be severely lacking in both. how so ?
How so what? A glaring lack of truth and honesty in your relationship with the person/people you profess to love implies you don't give a flying fuck for a random strangers feelings.
This EXACTLY....cheating is an utmost disrespect for the person you hold dear...
Turn the tables...you are settle down with this person, have loved every minute of being with them, made memories, future goals and BOOM...she tells you of her profile on here, her verifications and previous meets...safe to say your world would come crashing down and question your esteem, confidence and 'what did I do wrong'
And this is ok??????
For those saying it was hot to cheat, it sounds like it was more the excitement of being with someone new and anticipation of new partner
..easier and kinder to break up with the current and experience new excitement each and every time by sleeping about and sewing your seed...
My personal opinion...that is all...."
I totally agree, if you've gone looking for excitement. Your already there, most men think they won't get found out. But for the one who does find out there partner cheated its heartbreaking, especially if they can't see what they've done wrong. Loyalty & trust are huge break them you've lost your self respect. |
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Should we be more ‘French ‘ about the whole thing?
Cheating / cheaters sounds so harsh. Illicit sex is thrilling.
I know that ideally and in a perfect world we meet , fall in love, marry and live happily ever after. We are human though. I know it can lead to hurt and heartbreak.
Back to the French - a little ‘cinq ‘a sept’, lovely. |
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"Should we be more ‘French ‘ about the whole thing?
Cheating / cheaters sounds so harsh. Illicit sex is thrilling.
I know that ideally and in a perfect world we meet , fall in love, marry and live happily ever after. We are human though. I know it can lead to hurt and heartbreak.
Back to the French - a little ‘cinq ‘a sept’, lovely."
If it walks like a duck & quacks like a duck... |
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"More seriously.
I don't care if someone cheats, I don't meet them, I don't judge them. To answer the question at hand, how could anyone consider hurtful deception to be either sexy or hot? "
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There’s seems to a lot of discrepancies on this issue. From what I’ve experienced so far on Fab it seems to be ok and acceptable for a married women to be wanting a discreet meet etc without her partners knowledge but on the other hand it’s frowned upon if it’s a man in the same situation.. maybe I’m wrong? Maybe I’m speaking with the wrong people?
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