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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
This is not a moan as love my time on Fab, but had a question that I hoping you could help me with
Now I know you couples and ladies get hundreds of messages a day but if you read a message without deleting, is this saying that you are interested or not
It may seem like a dumb question but I am always hesitant to message someone again who has read my message but not deleted, as do not want to come across as pushy
Any advice would be very much appreciated
Take care
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"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next"
Yes.
They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy. |
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"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next
Yes.
They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy."
It's always hard to work out too pushy and not enough though  |
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If we don’t delete it could be that we didn’t tidy it up, That we want the other half to read it, or that we plan to reply later or after we discuss.
Sometimes people send a follow up hello or similar a week later, that can cause us to reply, or finally delete. If their follow up message is pushy, we definitely delete.
It’s not an exact science, if we don’t get a reply, we usually just leave it. If we were that interesting to them we figure they’d have found time. |
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"Thanks guys, so rule of thumb seems if they don’t reply on to the next
Yes.
They may reply at some point as they might be too busy to reply. Just don't message them over and over again as that's just pushy.
It's always hard to work out too pushy and not enough though "
Really?
Surely you just wait for reply?
If someone doesn't reply, don't keep messaging them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good to get your advice
As said had a good time of Fab to date so maybe I’ll just keep playing it by ear (or any other part of body come to think of it) |
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