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By *abat40x OP Woman
over a year ago
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Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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I've had a few of these contact me. I guess some people don't learn, and remain ever hopeful that someone will swoon at their effortlessness and jump at the chance.
I don't think I'd bother to stay, and it seems pointless to me, but hey, each to their own. |
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"Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts "
Also for some the trill and chase or build up to a meet is more of a turn on than the meet it’s self. Which takes time and effort on there part.
Can be a bit of an ego boost too. They’re are soo many reasons why. That’s just a few  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people aren’t here to meet.
Don't get why be here then
Most are pic collectors and here for the wank bank
Guess so free porn  "
Seems a high effort way to get free porn though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stay on fab for more then a year without being verified? You see a lot of profile unverified with photos maybe dating back as long as 2016! Is there any point in staying? What's your thoughts "
Alot of people do have meets but just dont have veris on. I catch up with someone off here every couple of months but neither of us do a verification |
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We had a few singles message us early in our fab adventure. No veris etc but being new didn't really know the score. Organised meets and swapped pics etc then came the excuses why they had to back out. Were not fooled that easily now and watermark out pics too as some friends messages years ago saying some of our pics as well as other swingers were up on another website.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people aren’t here to meet.
Don't get why be here then
Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. "
And yes I am verified but it's from my partner and he verified me just so I can use forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes for me they mean nothing and for many people the same applies, you can't judge anyone by someone else's opinion, they amount to bragging keep what you do to yourself less negativity that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people aren’t here to meet.
Don't get why be here then
Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. Xbox and PS4 could be more exciting "
Not really. I'm not into violent games and it feels like companies these days don't make any other kind of games. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people aren’t here to meet.
Don't get why be here then
Forums mostly for me...it's a good way to kill time. Xbox and PS4 could be more exciting
Not really. I'm not into violent games and it feels like companies these days don't make any other kind of games. "
I find monopoly on there a good value family game and there’s lots of horsey riding stuff for the kids, plenty of football and action games it’s not all about call of duty but it soon will be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sound as judgemental as the other thread saying fabbers are sleazy i dont have issue with it people do many things for many reasons i dont like flying so id never do skydiving dont mean u should begrudge they prob get summat out of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m unverified... yes it probably does ‘hold me back’ in terms of getting meets etc.
But I really enjoy just looking at pics, chatting .. sex is just a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.
I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.
Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.
I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.
Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere."
so because you don't have a veri you havnt started omg I'm a non starter lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not verified, beyond photo verification, and have had no meets this time around unfortunately, due to health reasons and personal circumstance.
This is clearly stated on my profile and it hasn’t stopped me from getting message responses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris are just a bit of added fun and shouldn't be taken too seriously.
I don't bother with repeated meets (why would you?) And some people aren't fussed anyway.
Don't discriminate against non-veried people as some great people, all got to start somewhere."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't need verifications to prove anything to anyone. Nor do I feel the need to verify others, usually, although I have in the past.
Collecting ticks to justify my life here to others, is not why I'm here, and what I may enjoy with those others is for us alone to share, without shouting it from the treetops....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe if the site could get rid of all the timewasters and the ones that give abuse and let the genuine males have a chance there would be no reason to ask the question!!"
Would you care to define " genuine" males? Or even tell all here who has the right to determine if another is "genuine" and therefore permitted to be here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re verified but not in the last year because we can’t find a new couple to play with where there is some attraction between us all. We’ve had socials but declined playing so you feel bad asking someone you’ve rejected for a veri.
Don’t feel like leaving the site but a year can go by quite quickly without a play meet and this veri with anyone new. |
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There are no rules to swinging, people use the site as they choose, I use it the way I choose, it has little impact on anyone else. Use the site the way you want to and don’t worry about other people |
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"Maybe if the site could get rid of all the timewasters and the ones that give abuse and let the genuine males have a chance there would be no reason to ask the question!!"
Yeahhhh, shorten those odds 
It still doesn’t mean every woman/couple on here would want to meet you though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that easy to get verified without going to clubs.
I've been here for months with no verification and by the way things are going I will be here over a year with none. |
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By *ornsterMan
over a year ago
Southport |
Genuine male, this should be someone respectful, non abusive, can take no for an answer, doesn't send message after message if someone doesn't reply straight away, if you arrange to meet, turn up! If you send a pic make sure its one of yourself not someone else, be honest in your description of yourself. |
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