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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get plenty of physical contact from K. Plenty of cuddling, spooning, hand-holding, kisses etc 
Cat cafés are the answer for those lacking  ... or put a meet up for platonic cuddles "
Cat cafes? What if you don't have a pet cat? |
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I only get it from my 2 cats....they love me...but now I don't even get their love since the the ex bitch face stole them from me....   
.....who needs the oxy-what-dya-ma-callems anyway eh....
*sits in the corner sobbing uncontrollably*
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"I get plenty of physical contact from K. Plenty of cuddling, spooning, hand-holding, kisses etc
Cat cafés are the answer for those lacking ... or put a meet up for platonic cuddles
Cat cafes? What if you don't have a pet cat?"
The cafe is already full of them, that's the beauty of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get plenty of physical contact from K. Plenty of cuddling, spooning, hand-holding, kisses etc
Cat cafés are the answer for those lacking ... or put a meet up for platonic cuddles
Cat cafes? What if you don't have a pet cat?"
You don’t need one. They are already there. Great one in London that gets booked up quickly. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I'm very tactile and affectionate and find that sex that doesn't include some tenderness either before, during or after is very impersonal and empty. My best meets have been with like minded ppl who equally enjoy this which results in both of us literally being unable to keep out hands off each other. The constant teasing, edging and flirting that comes with this makes everything that much more intense and memorable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cat cafes are good I’ve been to the one in shoreditch, I have my own cats one of whom loves to be attached to me permanently
Adult cuddles however are sadly lacking in my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me it depends on who/situation
ive had to learn how to be physical with people, due to my upbringing
i can hold hands with a partner or a child
I've never been one to cuddle/hug, when people are upset I'm that awkward friend who pats their back
work training, having to touch or be touched by colleagues i recoil in horror
my grandchildren use me as a climbing frame and i love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None in this house, haven't sat and cuddled up or kissed my Mrs on the lips affectionately for a long time.
Most times when I go to give her a kiss of some description she turns away.
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I’m single and I’m also very tactile, so yes I do miss the touchy feely//Hugs/spooning thing. Having said that, I’m not a 24/7/365 relationship kind of person, doesn’t work for me as I’m far too independent for my own good.
A Friday to Monday man would be good to enjoy the social side too, and preferably 1:2:1.
Club visits are great to step into a few hours of sexy fun as an alternative tho |
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"I'm incredibly tactile. Some like it, some don't... One former forumite once complained that I almost crushed his ribs with a hug 
Lol hug him harder next time honey  "
I don't think he's around anymore, so that's unlikely to happen!
But I'm looking forward to sharing a few good squishy squeezy ones with friends at the MLS next month |
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Weirdly I get most of my physical affection at work. I work with a lot of women and they are a touchy feely bunch, I have always been a hugger, so it has been a nice surprise. I never instigate the hugs however, because well, its 2019 and it is the work place after all. But I am unlikely to report them all for inappropriate conduct as I think being human isn't inappropriate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weirdly I get most of my physical affection at work. I work with a lot of women and they are a touchy feely bunch, I have always been a hugger, so it has been a nice surprise. I never instigate the hugs however, because well, its 2019 and it is the work place after all. But I am unlikely to report them all for inappropriate conduct as I think being human isn't inappropriate"
Similarly, I get a lot of hugs in work. |
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls? "
My friends and I hug lots x
And absolutely it is vital |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls?
My friends and I hug lots x
And absolutely it is vital"
Same here and agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's immensely important, physical touch has been researched loads, it's fascinating and the importance is so under estimated ... we're not designed to actually live on our own |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm quite an affectionate sort of person but only when I feel comfortable with a person. I enjoy hugging and hand holding. I think we often forget how sensitive our hands are because we do the mundane with them so often. I do get a lot of physical intimacy yet on the same hand there are times when I miss it (when my partner's working long hours for example). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are both very tactile people, love a snuggle! During sex the tactile part is important for us to, not just a fuck but hand holding and lingering kisses and hugs ! |
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I’m very tactile but very much feed of the vibe of the person I’m with. Some like it and some, you can tell, don’t.
For me it’s best if everyone is relaxed and you can just be yourself, the touch of the hand, the fingers tips teasing, the stolen kisses all builds and adds to the moment. After sex, lying close, stroking, chatting, laughing or even just silence with a smile..... you just can’t beat it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has this post been done a few weeks ago? It's not a dig, i just feel like I'm going crazy if not, cause i feel like I've read some of the comments before. But I've been away for a little while so i could be a little off my rocker at the moment.
With the right person i am very touchy feely. I love the small things, the simplest of touches, holding hands, hugs, i love the touch of another person. I love feeling another person  |
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I really miss intimacy and being cuddled and hand holding etc or just being held because someone wants too.. One of the reasons I want to date... Fab sex can be absolutely great and amazing but I miss that intimacy when you can allow your feelings to come out. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"With the right person i am very touchy feely. I love the small things, the simplest of touches, holding hands, hugs, i love the touch of another person. I love feeling another person "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I really miss intimacy and being cuddled and hand holding etc or just being held because someone wants too.. One of the reasons I want to date... Fab sex can be absolutely great and amazing but I miss that intimacy when you can allow your feelings to come out. "
You can have that intimacy in fab meets Snow, if you're both wanting that. I do get it though. It can be slightly (okay a lot) different compared to fab meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls? "
I miss affection more than anything else. |
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Waa actually disxussing this with another lady the other day. When I meet fwb or friends.. im quite tactile and i also obviously get lots of physical affection from kids and grandkids. Have to say a cuddle from a little dude who sees you as the best nanny.. it beats all else
But i do now meet 121 with people i know well to get adult physical attentions x and not just the sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be fair my work lot give loads of cuddles, there are some who's skulls I could cave with a house brick at times but on the whole we get on like one big family. I get at least one a day at work.
When me and B are together there's all the contact and it's bloody lush. Makes it easier that I can sit on his lap like a ventriloquist dummy and we still both have plenty of room.
I miss it terribly when he's not here
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls? "
Chocolate releases oxytocin but 'side effects' are brutal. |
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"I really miss intimacy and being cuddled and hand holding etc or just being held because someone wants too.. One of the reasons I want to date... Fab sex can be absolutely great and amazing but I miss that intimacy when you can allow your feelings to come out.
You can have that intimacy in fab meets Snow, if you're both wanting that. I do get it though. It can be slightly (okay a lot) different compared to fab meets."
I have shared intimacy in fab meets.. I have been cuddled and held or held hands but for me personally because it is fab I have to control my feelings...For me its not true intimacy you feel with someone who deeply cares about you.. And that's what I miss... If that makes any sense haha  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls?
Chocolate releases oxytocin but 'side effects' are brutal."
My chubby thighs chaffing is quite brutal! Ha |
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"Do you get enough?
I'm not talking about sex per se but the other things likes hugs, touches, hand holding etc.
Apparently it releases oxytocin which helps humans connect to others and promotes feel-good sensations that foster a sense of well-being and happiness.
I'm naturally quite shy and not very touchy feely but I crave it sometimes. When my man isn't around it makes it worse, I'm so standoffish I think my friends and family would be worried if I randomly went in for a hug!
So what's the solution? Cuddle cafes? Blow up dolls? "
Yes like receiving a gift or sex, Endorphins are released if neither are available I’ll just have some quality time with my German Shepard Charlie and rubbing him (non sexual)also gives you happiness and it’s also good for him .. bundles of useless info here |
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A massage, you dirty minded people ! 