Hi all,
Quick question. Does anyone else find it hard striking up the right conversations when chatting to women through here? I mean I understand why they might need to be so cynical but it could also be getting in the way of some fantastic opportunities. We're not all bad, honest. |
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"I can talk bollocks for weeks!"
We can too. Nothing quite like a good conversation and I don't mean the small talk I mean the deep and meaningful ones. Love a chat that can just melt the hours away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might be a man (fake profile)- they don't chat, they just want wank fodder.
Some women get many mails and don't have time to reply much.
If I get no banter it puts me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't find it hard... Just got to read profiles and pay attention.
Always ??
We've had a fair few messages from people that completely disregard the profile. Does our heads in."
Yeah I always read profile. Looks ain't overly important to me. I much rather see what you have to say ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Like the real world OP - there are those you will "click" with and the conversation will flow and those that you don't - you can't expect to get on with everyone, sometimes things just fizzle. It's not you and it's not them either.
Sometimes there's just no spark between you - just accept that and move on is the best approach I have found. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Communication is a two way thing and couples contacting can be really crass and often assume its all about their needs. In reality its the man who makes contact and they would be more successful if it was the female half. Just food for thought on this. |
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"Communication is a two way thing and couples contacting can be really crass and often assume its all about their needs. In reality its the man who makes contact and they would be more successful if it was the female half. Just food for thought on this. "
We change it up often when messaging. After all they have to get to know to halves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not really, I have some good chats with certain ladies from the forum's......not really as much with random ladies that pm me to be honest....my hackles do raise when I receive those .... "
You need to take off your detective boots whilst opening mail, Marple. You’re not on the clock full time ffs. ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"Hi all,
Quick question. Does anyone else find it hard striking up the right conversations when chatting to women through here? I mean I understand why they might need to be so cynical but it could also be getting in the way of some fantastic opportunities. We're not all bad, honest." this is the guy asking of the couple one assumes ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"Hi all,
Quick question. Does anyone else find it hard striking up the right conversations when chatting to women through here? I mean I understand why they might need to be so cynical but it could also be getting in the way of some fantastic opportunities. We're not all bad, honest."
Yes very much so |
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