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What to wear on a first meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.
What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So long as it's not a butchers apron and carrying a roll of gaffa tape and boning knife, then if they actually turn up I'm usually happy if they are wearing something that makes them feel at ease....
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"So long as it's not a butchers apron and carrying a roll of gaffa tape and boning knife, then if they actually turn up I'm usually happy if they are wearing something that makes them feel at ease....
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"I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.
What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome "
The answer, would really depend on the person, the location, the time, the activity.
No set rules, each is totally individual
I could write a very long list of scenarios
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It depends on the meet and what we're doing - and I will tailor it to that - usually smart casual, or something appropriate to the meet and the weather.
As for the other person, whatever they are comfortable in - as I've told people in the past, I'm there to meet them not their clothes |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.
Decent aftershave is a turn on.
Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.
Good luck! |
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"As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.
Decent aftershave is a turn on.
Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.
Good luck!"
My last date turned up in a football shirt,I'm not going to lie I was slightly disappointed and he did say he felt under dressed I agreed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As long as it’s not a football shirt and you look as though you have made a modicum of effort, I am happy.
Decent aftershave is a turn on.
Pay lots of attention to personal hygiene and the rest is really just down to chemistry.
Good luck!"
 I wore a rugby shirt on a social last week in London, the guy was chuffed!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the meet.. I've met people straight from work, in just shorts and t-shirt.. And also met when been done up to the 9s..
I think it's what you feel comfortable in, because confidence is so sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever is comfortable and fitting for your chosen meet location. If they don't to see you again because you turned up wearing your favourite ACDC t-shirt and some raggedy ass Jean's, 5hen maybe they weren't right for you anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all something clean.
Whites should be white not grey.
Something you are comfortable in.
Then it depends on where you are meeting someone and something appropriate for there.
Oh and always clean socks!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Us guys are a little limited really two or three options jeans and shirt or tee-shirt boots or shoes, or trousers and a nice shirt underpants are optional |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"I often struggle to know what to wear on a first meet. Either social meet or getting straight on with it.
What would you like your meet to be wearing? All scenarios welcome "
Mrs likes the guy to be dressed smart,not suggesting a suit and tie but something that looks smart and does not suggest they have just come from work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many years ago when I was younger.
It was easy.
We had suits a nice jacket and shirt and tie.
Then everyone started to wear jeans or tracksuits.
Normally now days I wear a nice pair of black jeans and black shoes and a shirt |
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