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By *ueen of sleeze OP Woman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of us are married and have our wife's permission but still people don't believe us. Mr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "

Double standards on fab....surely nit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People will make exceptions when it suits them and will use "men who cheat on their wives will lie to everyone" when it suits.

I have met women who won't meet married men.

I know the die hards will come out and say "never, I have morals", but you'd be surprised (or not) by the number of people quietly going about fab without bringing marital status into it.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I’m afraid I don’t understand the correlation and the leap between dishonesty and success meeting on fab.

I suspect there are many and very unique reasons. For some honesty is important. For many others a person’s story is irrelevant.

We all have things that we don’t share with strangers.

V x

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By *rtraymondo76Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I get honest people as most are couples and they come to me, so however hubbies handle it, they are there on hand. Works for me!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Breaking. People lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It surprises me how disliked married men who cheat are on this site.

Because on other apps a lot of women are looking for married men, because they want the forbidden fruit and find it a turn on.

Many times I've chatted with women who thought I was married and when I told them I was single they ended the chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive found the married men Ive spoken to or met to be pretty truthful to be honest. As I am to them. There is no need to lie to me, Im not their wife after all. It's easier to talk to a stranger sometimes or someone who has been in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "

They dont exist surely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a couples profile and we both have singles,I also play with married guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a couples profile and we both have singles,I also play with married guys."

Ahh those nipples such a treat and great legs by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of us are married and have our wife's permission but still people don't believe us. Mr "

True!

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By *ddit...Man over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I have no reason to lie to a total stranger... and I don't... I can only speak for myself...

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By *0something1965Man over a year ago

Belfast

"Ive found the married men Ive spoken to or met to be pretty truthful to be honest. As I am to them. There is no need to lie to me, Im not their wife after all. It's easier to talk to a stranger sometimes or someone who has been in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At this rate wee will all be flogged at dawn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I have no reason to lie to a total stranger... and I don't... I can only speak for myself...

Good on you mate. Nor do i have a reason to lie to people. But we will always be in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why am I reading this?

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Forbidden fruit here , married

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Some Men lie about being in a relationship,

Some lie about being bi,

Some lie about smoking,

Some lie about the size of their cock,

Some lie about their height,

Lets face it, Some Men lie

But so do some Women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a couples profile and we both have singles,I also play with married guys.

Ahh those nipples such a treat and great legs by the way.

"
lol why thanks you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it. "

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

What about married men who go to clubs? Chances are most have been intimate with one at a club!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally think anyone man or woman, lying to their other halves is bad.

I won’t meet married men, I don’t agree with cheating at all, I won’t castrate them, or abuse them. I’ll just be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it. "

People are free (within the rules) to express their views on here.

If you don’t like it, you can always scroll past and ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No point in lying at all, be honest and upfront about who you are and if people want to meet you they will, end of story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hallelujah someone is getting it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it. "

Maybe the OP has no idea there has been similar threads this week. Not everyone spends their life on here ya know

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

This topic is a perennial one. It keeps being brought up on here.

There are both married men and women on here without their partners knowledge. It doesn’t make them all compulsive liars.

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I thought it was the other single guys stopping the genuine single guys getting a meet.. now its the married guys as well.

Crap twice as many problems. .. no wonder I'm not knee deep in foof.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Everyone has an opinion on married men and are fully entitled to those but I've only just started reading and commenting on forums in the UK this week. I've been on the Irish forums for about 2 months and no one has commented on my marital status at all which I openly admit on my profile. In the last week I've received 9 seperate abusive PM's from UK members telling me to get the fuck off the site or to burn in hell. These are all from people I've never chatted with or messaged but who felt it necessary to voice their opinion directly.

I can't take the high road but not every relationship is black and white.

I take people as I find them but I don't judge without knowing their backstory.

That's why I don't do quick meets. I need to know that any meet is condusive to both parties and not just to empty my load.

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Being able to trust someone is very important in the swinging world so I understand why someone being a know liar could make some people feel at risk.

So here's a question; given that previous threads about who on the forums tell people that they swing have shown that the large majority of use tell no one (outside of fab) or maybe just close friends then, at times most of us must have to lie at times: a couple returning home to a relative that's baby sat for them whilst they attended a gangbang "how was the film?"; A boss or work mate asking "what did you get up to this week?", "oh nothing much" even though the truth is that you attended a swingers club. Or, your childen saying "mummy, where did you go last night?", "a club", "what did you do there?", "just danced and chatted" when what you really did was suck 6 guys off in a glory hole.

So the fact is, we all lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has an opinion on married men and are fully entitled to those but I've only just started reading and commenting on forums in the UK this week. I've been on the Irish forums for about 2 months and no one has commented on my marital status at all which I openly admit on my profile. In the last week I've received 9 seperate abusive PM's from UK members telling me to get the fuck off the site or to burn in hell. These are all from people I've never chatted with or messaged but who felt it necessary to voice their opinion directly.

I can't take the high road but not every relationship is black and white.

I take people as I find them but I don't judge without knowing their backstory.

That's why I don't do quick meets. I need to know that any meet is condusive to both parties and not just to empty my load."

That sounds like abuse. You should have reported them

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By *ucklingsCouple over a year ago

Rugby

Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx"

See you later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being able to trust someone is very important in the swinging world so I understand why someone being a know liar could make some people feel at risk.

So the fact is, we all lie."

I find there is a big difference between lying about where you’re going, because talking about sex with family would be a bit awkward and lying to the most important person in your life who you did your vows to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't judge anyone I play with single guys and married guys even guys with girlfriend's.the amount of women they play with guys in clubs that are with someone is huge.live and let live,if people don't want to play with married guys then don't. I don't understand why people keep posting about it.you never no what's going on in people's lives.....stop judging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx"

It might be more of an issue for singles claiming to be seeking nsa/casual/fwb etc when in fact they are hoping for a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx"

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I can't take the high road but not every relationship is black and white.

I take people as I find them but I don't judge without knowing their backstory.

That's why I don't do quick meets. I need to know that any meet is condusive to both parties and not just to empty my load.

That sounds like abuse. You should have reported them"

I've just blocked them. I'm not here for drama and rows or confrontation. Those I have met in the last couple of years are the best judge of who I am so I'm happy to leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the profiles that say NO Married, Cheating bastards etc.

Easier to block them so I don't click on them again.

As my profile says - neither judge nor be be judged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like the profiles that say NO Married, Cheating bastards etc.

Easier to block them so I don't click on them again.

As my profile says - neither judge nor be be judged.pmsl love it

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By *ucklingsCouple over a year ago

Rugby

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

See you later

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

Finally someone who makes sense, I mean, really, what does it matter if you were lying to the person you only want as a FWB, not married or partners or anything, just two or more adults enjoying each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What makes my piss boil more is men pretending to be a couple,actually using wife's pics and pretending she is the one texting me.oh she has just gone to do the tea...Steve talking now lol

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

It might be more of an issue for singles claiming to be seeking nsa/casual/fwb etc when in fact they are hoping for a relationship?"

If they wants relationship shouldn’t they try plenty of fish etc?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

It might be more of an issue for singles claiming to be seeking nsa/casual/fwb etc when in fact they are hoping for a relationship?

If they wants relationship shouldn’t they try plenty of fish etc?"

There might be a bit more competition for men's attention on plenty of fish?

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"What makes my piss boil more is men pretending to be a couple,actually using wife's pics and pretending she is the one texting me.oh she has just gone to do the tea...Steve talking now lol"

The one that bugs me is when chatting to a couple and they are both online in different rooms or locations and you get two very different answers to the same question. Eg.. so your profile says that male gives permission for another man to borrow female because he lives far away and she needs attention. How long have you been in this long distance relationship? Lady answers" 4 years and it works perfectly for us as he is really caring and hates to see me alone" 30 secs later message from male " fuck off you nosey cunt. What difference does it make to anyone if I want to whore out my bitch? You're blocked arsehole!" Just one example of communication on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

It might be more of an issue for singles claiming to be seeking nsa/casual/fwb etc when in fact they are hoping for a relationship?

If they wants relationship shouldn’t they try plenty of fish etc?"

They can try anywhere they like.

Relationships are formed anywhere, still they should be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't judge anyone I play with single guys and married guys even guys with girlfriend's.the amount of women they play with guys in clubs that are with someone is huge.live and let live,if people don't want to play with married guys then don't. I don't understand why people keep posting about it.you never no what's going on in people's lives.....stop judging."

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

Make or female is irrelevant. If the other partner knows nothing I'd not meet them. I however have several friends on here who are married who I have never played with and never will but they were totally honest about it so I'm happy to be friends but that's it.

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

*male

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

"Make or female is irrelevant. If the other partner knows nothing I'd not meet them. I however have several friends on here who are married who I have never played with and never will but they were totally honest about it so I'm happy to be friends but that's it.

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob."

How were you burnt?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

People lie about all sorts of things on here ,that includes men and women.

Smoking,size,marital status ,bare back.

Just be cautious and take what people say with a big pinch of salt.

Miss

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?"

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes my piss boil more is men pretending to be a couple,actually using wife's pics and pretending she is the one texting me.oh she has just gone to do the tea...Steve talking now lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had single people lie to me as much as married.

So if he lies to his wife he will lie to me....why would he lie to me? If I know he's married and we are not exclusive then why would he have anything to lie about?

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it.

Couldn't agree more of its not single guys it's married guys that seem to be getting it constantly on here. If people don't want to meet them either married or single just set filters and do the searching themselves. And if they do message just ignore and block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm perfectly happy to announce I'm a horrible,cheating,scumbag but before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not anougher married men post. About the 3rd one this week. What is it pick on married men week.

Look if you dont want to meet married men then fine. But stop keep going on about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm perfectly happy to announce I'm a horrible,cheating,scumbag but before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean.

At least you’re cool with admitting it.

It’s the ones who try to justify it in the wildest way that I find strange.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t judge anyone for being on here, whether they’re married, attached or single. Each to their own, however I don’t meet married or attached men, not because they are dishonest but because they are unable to offer me the quality meets that I am here for.

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married. "

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx

It might be more of an issue for singles claiming to be seeking nsa/casual/fwb etc when in fact they are hoping for a relationship?

If they wants relationship shouldn’t they try plenty of fish etc?"

That’s like me saying why are married people on here ( cheating) if they already have a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here"

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part. "

I think you will find that 99.9% of the men on this site are here looking for sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part. "

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Being able to trust someone is very important in the swinging world so I understand why someone being a know liar could make some people feel at risk.

So the fact is, we all lie.

of course there is it's a silly comparison.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

I think you will find that 99.9% of the men on this site are here looking for sex"

And will lie to get it.

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By *W ChapMan over a year ago

Swindon

"I’m afraid I don’t understand the correlation and the leap between dishonesty and success meeting on fab.

I suspect there are many and very unique reasons. For some honesty is important. For many others a person’s story is irrelevant.

We all have things that we don’t share with strangers.

V x

Very much this ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF! "

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits. "

Me too absolutely ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

I think you will find that 99.9% of the men on this site are here looking for sex"

So, they are not really after a fwb then. I have met someone and I would say the friend part is the more important thing. We do everything together but we don’t focus as much on the sex. It’s a very small part of our friendship. He’s become a very important person in my life and we see each other 2-3 times a week. Think most men you are referring to want a fuck buddy.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits. "

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits.....

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By *euschMan over a year ago

peterborough

Yes, I think you are right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits....."

I think on here it should really be called bwf - benefits with friend!

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By *W ChapMan over a year ago

Swindon

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits. "

But a FB can develop into a FWB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But a FB can develop into a FWB

I'm not sure about that ... more likely to develop into BWF or a relationship than FWB really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "

I think you'll find most don't lie about it.

And it is a very different thing anyway. Cheated on husband's are less likely to blame the person their wife cheated with and get all all bunny-boilerish.

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By *ndy0001Man over a year ago

leeds

The married ladies I have met, have done so because they don't want someone looking for a relationship and also someone who knows the position and respects it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The married ladies I have met, have done so because they don't want someone looking for a relationship and also someone who knows the position and respects it.

There’s likely plenty of single men who aren’t looking for a relationship, know the position and respect it also.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits....."

Exactly. Many don’t want a friend on here. They just want the benefits.

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By *rCheeky44Man over a year ago

a town near you

I’m div and still told I’m cheating . I found no matter what you say people will think your married and cheating at my age.

Found it far harder the old I am from when I was younger on here. Think it’s a young mans game on here these days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m div and still told I’m cheating . I found no matter what you say people will think your married and cheating at my age.

Found it far harder the old I am from when I was younger on here. Think it’s a young mans game on here these days "

Why do people think you're cheating though?

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By *ancsUpForFunMan over a year ago

Morecambe

I'm in a relationship with someone that doesn't know I'm here and I'm openly honest about it on my profile. I'm not proud of the fact but sometimes even a relationship can be a lonely place and getting the attention I crave from somewhere else fills the void. I have found plenty of friends on here that I chat to without ever contemplating taking it further and to be fair that's all I really need, just the occasional ego boost and being made to feel wanted.

As regards women meeting married men I think a big part of the attraction is that they are guaranteed discretion, let's be honest I'm not going to start shouting from the rooftops telling everybody about Doris at number tens desire to have Marmite licked of her arse in a gimp suit am I?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm in a relationship with someone that doesn't know I'm here and I'm openly honest about it on my profile. I'm not proud of the fact but sometimes even a relationship can be a lonely place and getting the attention I crave from somewhere else fills the void. I have found plenty of friends on here that I chat to without ever contemplating taking it further and to be fair that's all I really need, just the occasional ego boost and being made to feel wanted.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I’m div and still told I’m cheating . I found no matter what you say people will think your married and cheating at my age.

Found it far harder the old I am from when I was younger on here. Think it’s a young mans game on here these days "

Now that’s an interesting thing although slightly hijacking the original topic. I’m a similar age But I have never been accused of cheating by a man so do you assume

1.... men don’t care (generally)?

2.... there’s something in our profiles that makes me seem single and you not?

3..... women are more suspicious?

Something else?

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m div and still told I’m cheating . I found no matter what you say people will think your married and cheating at my age.

Found it far harder the old I am from when I was younger on here. Think it’s a young mans game on here these days

Now that’s an interesting thing although slightly hijacking the original topic. I’m a similar age But I have never been accused of cheating by a man so do you assume

1.... men don’t care (generally)?

2.... there’s something in our profiles that makes me seem single and you not?

3..... women are more suspicious?

Something else?

V x "

It is very interesting as I am a similar age and never been accused of cheating.

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By *rCheeky44Man over a year ago

a town near you

Because so many do and it seems to them all men my age are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because so many do and it seems to them all men my age are. "

It's not that simple lol or your age ... something you say or do or can't do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've nothing against married people being on here, though personally would never cheat on anyone not have I been cheated on ... for me it's more about they don't fit with my wants and I'm not interested in having a 3rd person involved albeit involuntarily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've nothing against married people being on here, though personally would never cheat on anyone not have I been cheated on ... for me it's more about they don't fit with my wants and I'm not interested in having a 3rd person involved albeit involuntarily "

Oh that and the fact they that they lie to themselves all the time ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is my single profile but we have a couples too,if we go to quest we play separately,we don't want to play with other couples.I love playing with guys and he loves playing with women.as for me I'd never play with a couple as in the past the women has got jealous and it ruined the night.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Because so many do and it seems to them all men my age are.

It's not that simple lol or your age ... something you say or do or can't do? "

I agree. I pay little attention to how things seem to others and I don’t judge one man by another’s actions. So I’m guessing it’s something else.

V x

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I think that like war, when engaging in swinging the first casualty is the the truth.

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By *0something1965Man over a year ago

Belfast

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here"

I never mentioned the type of relationship. Fbs, fwbs or an actual couple is irrelevant.

Honesty is number 1. End of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss "

If they want to lie then they arent much if a person in my opinion.

I'd never knowingly play with a married man unless he were a part of a couple I'd play with or if his oh knew about it. And yes. I'd check.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss "

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception. "

Hang on. Your talking about the ones that dont tell you there married. What about the ones that do. They arnt telling you lies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception.

Hang on. Your talking about the ones that dont tell you there married. What about the ones that do. They arnt telling you lies"

They may not be telling me lies.

But they may well be telling their other half lies.

So there’s still deception.

I don’t knowingly meet married men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception.

Hang on. Your talking about the ones that dont tell you there married. What about the ones that do. They arnt telling you lies

They may not be telling me lies.

But they may well be telling their other half lies.

So there’s still deception.

I don’t knowingly meet married men. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m div and still told I’m cheating . I found no matter what you say people will think your married and cheating at my age.

Found it far harder the old I am from when I was younger on here. Think it’s a young mans game on here these days

Now that’s an interesting thing although slightly hijacking the original topic. I’m a similar age But I have never been accused of cheating by a man so do you assume

1.... men don’t care (generally)?

2.... there’s something in our profiles that makes me seem single and you not?

3..... women are more suspicious?

Something else?

V x "

I think it's 1.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits.....

Exactly. Many don’t want a friend on here. They just want the benefits. "

I'm happy with just friends, no benefits.

I'm a Billy no mates cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m afraid I don’t understand the correlation and the leap between dishonesty and success meeting on fab.

I suspect there are many and very unique reasons. For some honesty is important. For many others a person’s story is irrelevant.

We all have things that we don’t share with strangers.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits.....

Exactly. Many don’t want a friend on here. They just want the benefits.

I'm happy with just friends, no benefits.

I'm a Billy no mates cunt. "

You’re a lovely billy though. You are a good friend to anyone who is lucky to have you in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ?

That’s because many men don’t care about their situation.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

I've been burnt by a married guy who was a lying arsehole and I never knew until afterwards... lying knob.

How were you burnt?

Had a relationship with a single guy only to find after we had split he was married.

Admittedly not nice, but a relationship is different to a FWB etc that people are looking for here

A real fwb is not just someone you pick up and put down, they are a real friend who you spend quality time with outside the bedroom. The sex is the least important part.

At last ^^^ someone gets it! Totally different to a FB or BWF!

It annoys me how many people on here confuse a fuck buddy with a friend with benefits.

Friend With Benefits.

Kind of suggests it's friends before benefits.....

Exactly. Many don’t want a friend on here. They just want the benefits.

I'm happy with just friends, no benefits.

I'm a Billy no mates cunt. "

Awwwwww you do a good doctor impression.........daft sod

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception. "

That's true but the liars shouldn't expect people on here to believe anything they say which they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have things that we don’t share with strangers.

V x

Thats true but then its unreasonable to expect someone who knows you are dishonest not to want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If folks wanna lie why shouldnt they ignorance is bliss

Folks are free to lie.

Equally as other folks are free to call them out on their lies, or not meet them due to their deception.

That's true but the liars shouldn't expect people on here to believe anything they say which they do. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human "

Married cheats have stinkier shit though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human

Married cheats have stinkier shit though

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By *etite HandfulWoman over a year ago

Chester

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human "

A means to an end then! A married guy with a sti lying about both is fine to do it then because the security services and lavatory the double glazing salesman does it so its fine! I can see why we are described as a fucked up society morals wise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human "

This doesn’t tie away from the fact, cheaters lie to their other halves, right?

Nobody is saying their “shit doesn’t stink” but some of us would rather not meet with people cheating & lying to their loved ones, some of us would rather not cheat also.

In my opinion cheaters are bad, to answer your question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human "

So a salesman is the same as a member of the security services?

Deluded or what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

And people will always lie to get laid. It's all subjective as to what degree of lie they tell though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human

So a salesman is the same as a member of the security services?

Deluded or what?"

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By *y93Man over a year ago

London

"Each to their own. If we like someone and wanna play with them, we really don’t care if they are married or not or lie about it. It’s their burden to carry not ours. Xx"

the most sensible take on the situation from my point of view too on the subject.

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By *S1407Couple over a year ago

dartford

Interesting thread. My wife and I have got closer as a result of swinging. We both play together and I’m allowed to play individually. She can play individually but chooses not to. Yes I accept I’m a very lucky guy. I normally arrange for the other girl and my wife to talk. Most women do not want to abuse a marriage so they need to hear they have permission to play. I wouldn’t want it any other way. Having said all of that,I prefer to play with another girl WITH my wife as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It surprises me how disliked married men who cheat are on this site.

Because on other apps a lot of women are looking for married men, because they want the forbidden fruit and find it a turn on.

Many times I've chatted with women who thought I was married and when I told them I was single they ended the chat.

Pls I'd love to know those other Apps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, I guess its different for many people. I'd gladly give that information if relevant or requested.

Some people clearly state in their bios, they're aren't interested in your personal life or history. So I think if you wanna know stuff about anyone indeed you ask.

I don't lie about stuff at least not to a stranger.

Speaking for me alone.

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By *iptonblokeMan over a year ago

tipton

Honesty will always win yes same goes for married women (just sayin)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence. "

Love it haa haa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence. "

To whom it may concern!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I’m married I don’t hide it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? "
I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

In my (not to be returned to) past I discovered that some women are more than willing to go with married men because they know they won't get pressured into something more meaningful and consuming.

There's a market for married men, it's time some people on here stop being amazed by that.

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By *ueen of sleeze OP Woman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Your marriage is your business not mine to worry about

But i think my original question stems from,

If you have a FWB they know the score they know your married.

But you have no feelings for your FWB its just sex.

So are you more truthful with your FWB than your wife as they know the score

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

"Your marriage is your business not mine to worry about

But i think my original question stems from,

If you have a FWB they know the score they know your married.

But you have no feelings for your FWB its just sex.

So are you more truthful with your FWB than your wife as they know the score "

Well if you're hiding it from your wife then the answer is obviously yes.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple over a year ago

Cheltenham

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it."

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

"
Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?

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By *ueen of sleeze OP Woman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?"

Should be the same rule for all

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

I don't lie about it,

I'm married,

No idea where she is, bar the City of Prague,

No intention of finding out either, we say hello about once a month on WhatsApp and that's enough, maybe that is way more than enough, Jesus I have family members I don't chat to 12 times a year,,

Lol

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By *verage JosephMan over a year ago

Grays & London

"In my (not to be returned to) past I discovered that some women are more than willing to go with married men because they know they won't get pressured into something more meaningful and consuming.

There's a market for married men, it's time some people on here stop being amazed by that."

I need to find this market!!

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By *asha86Couple over a year ago

walsall

In my view married men are more likely to keep quiet than brag about it all which is a good thing as on the outside we seem like a vanilla couple and wouldnt want our family/ friends/ work colleges to find out what we do in our spare time.

i know this isnt always the case but just what weve found

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather not meet anyone, than lie to people. It just doesn't sit well with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a catfish and been married for 38 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I'm married

Why do you think I'm here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

My thoughts too.

I always stated about honesty to ex b/f. I knew all about his random women but not the fact I was not his only girlfriend. Some people cannot help but lie it seems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?

Should be the same rule for all "
That is right it should be that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It surprises me how disliked married men who cheat are on this site.

Because on other apps a lot of women are looking for married men, because they want the forbidden fruit and find it a turn on.

Many times I've chatted with women who thought I was married and when I told them I was single they ended the chat.

They may consider a married man safer, ie no emotions to get involved with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence. "

Moral, don't date a politician

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence.

Moral, don't date a politician

But if you do be sure to save the evidence

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

And people will always lie to get laid. It's all subjective as to what degree of lie they tell though.

"
This is so true. I've yet to meet a single guy who isnt milipative and deceitful. For me it's about the married man disclosing that he's married so I can make an informed decision if it's for me or not. It's the married men who have profiles that dont mention it, I cant stand.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t meet married men BUT how does one know in a Club if a man is married?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

"
I just get the feeling that all us single guys are thought of as being married men wanting to play away

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?

Should be the same rule for all That is right it should be that

It should be Shag. But most guys have no interest if someones married or not, a hole is a hole let's be honest about this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Walks in turns around and walks out

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I don’t meet married men BUT how does one know in a Club if a man is married? "

You dont

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm....cheating wife....kind of a turn on for me...sorry! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty won't always win. See General Election for evidence.

Moral, don't date a politician

But if you do be sure to save the evidence

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'd rather not meet anyone, than lie to people. It just doesn't sit well with me "

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I don’t meet married men BUT how does one know in a Club if a man is married?

You dont

They are the ones watching and wanking waiting to be invited to join in as they would hate to be thrown out...it would the the waste of a night out ha h

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?

Should be the same rule for all That is right it should be that

It should be Shag. But most guys have no interest if someones married or not, a hole is a hole let's be honest about this. "
I think it goes to both as well there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some folks acting like there shit dont stink lol

Im a salesman i lie every day

The security services that stop terrorists are liers too does that make us bad no it makes us human

So a salesman is the same as a member of the security services?

Deluded or what?"
much more important

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a couples profile and we both have singles,I also play with married guys.

Ahh those nipples such a treat and great legs by the way.

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By *hades of FunMan over a year ago

Hitchin

Honesty will, whenever possible, always be the best policy of course .. but, I guess we all have our little secrets and sometimes it's best not to tell the full truth rather than hurt someone.

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By *0something1965Man over a year ago

Belfast

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

Who says we are lying to the total stranger? Have you ever taken a minute to try to understand why a guy is here - married or not? There are many reasons why a married man might want a sexual liaison but not want to disrupt his family. I am honest on my profile - I would not want to deceive someone whose trust I am trying to gain. Plenty of men (and women) on here who are married and don't declare it.

Long story short - if you don't like it, don't do it but don't qvetch about it - life's too short x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am a catfish and been married for 38 years "

Me too. Are you my husband?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read on here about Married men and if they are lying to there wifes of course they lie to you

Well there is what I dont understand

We all know the score we are adults but if you have to lie to a total stranger then there is no wonder that men find it hard to get a meet.

Honesty will alway win

I honestly like your profile pic

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"What about the married women lying on here who find it easy to get a meet ? I was about to say the same it is cos it is more acceptable if a woman does it.

The hypocrisy of swinging huh?

I find women are worse than men when in a club for touching me up....they never ask first.....yet if a guy did it to them they would report and have him expelled from club....

Yes it sure is that and I think it is strange aint it of how it is one rule for the men and women there isnt it?

Should be the same rule for all That is right it should be that

It should be Shag. But most guys have no interest if someones married or not, a hole is a hole let's be honest about this. I think it goes to both as well there."
To be honest I've given up giving any shits about just about everything on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honesty is soooo wasted on many, and I hate how much one person can insult your intelligence by blatantly lying and expecting you to buy what they've said as the truth and beleive it.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Makes me laugh how they say ‘at least I’m honest about it in my profile’ - like it’s ok to say that so we will fall at their feet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes me laugh how they say ‘at least I’m honest about it in my profile’ - like it’s ok to say that so we will fall at their feet.

Are you saying you don't?

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Makes me laugh how they say ‘at least I’m honest about it in my profile’ - like it’s ok to say that so we will fall at their feet.

Are you saying you don't?

I don’t fall at anyone’s feet lol.

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