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Can you say no
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Absolutely. I think we've probably all done it once or twice in our younger days.... Sex with someone we didn't really fancy that much because they were readily available and we were really horny. Thing is, almost immediately afterwards you just feel empty and ashamed that you took advantage of someone, particularly if it meant something to them. I think as you mature you develop more common sense than to shag someone when you're wearing horn-goggles. I find that the absolute best sex is with someone you've connected with... A private and intimate encounter that is as much a meeting of minds as of bodies... a shared mutual sensual pleasure. The endorphins last much longer too, otherwise you might as well be going to the gym for a workout  |
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"If you're horny and want to have sex with a willing person, why would you want to turn it down?
What if you're not actually attracted to them though... Just horny? "
Or they're your brother, you just both happen to be horny at the same time 
I've gone without if it will make me late for work, or create unnecessary hassle
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"If you're horny and want to have sex with a willing person, why would you want to turn it down?
What if you're not actually attracted to them though... Just horny? "
I would put that in the category of not wanting to have sex with somebody. This particular scenario was not mentioned by the OP. |
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met? "
I love near a male who could never say no. Got him into loads of bother...fights, unwanted pregnancies, trouble with the neighbours. He was in constant misery, a slave to his nuts until his family intervened. Now he's an overweight social outcast who rarely leaves his house and sleeps most of the day.
His experience thought me self control and the velue of having opposing thumbs, as I never want to be taken to the vet's like poor old Tabby  |
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Think declining because you don't fancy the person on offer is a given, regardless of how horny I am.
I'll also say no when I'm actually desperate to though if I'm just in a huff  |
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"Yes but sometimes regret it afterwards 
Its better to say no then regret it than say yes and then think god why oh why did I do that  "
Yes , as in I can say no to someone..
then regret it but no damage done  |
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I’ve also turned down advances from people I would have loved to have fucked for a number of reasons. I’m conflicted about whether I made the right decision or not  |
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met?
I love near a male who could never say no. Got him into loads of bother...fights, unwanted pregnancies, trouble with the neighbours. He was in constant misery, a slave to his nuts until his family intervened. Now he's an overweight social outcast who rarely leaves his house and sleeps most of the day.
His experience thought me self control and the velue of having opposing thumbs, as I never want to be taken to the vet's like poor old Tabby "
What did they do to him? |
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met?
Genuine Swingers never say no. 
Like the thought Mavis, but why is your profile hidden?"
I'm working my way through the men wanting to shag me. Can't take any more on today. |
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met? "
the weather plays a big part whether I say yes or no to sex on the beach  |
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met?
I love near a male who could never say no. Got him into loads of bother...fights, unwanted pregnancies, trouble with the neighbours. He was in constant misery, a slave to his nuts until his family intervened. Now he's an overweight social outcast who rarely leaves his house and sleeps most of the day.
His experience thought me self control and the velue of having opposing thumbs, as I never want to be taken to the vet's like poor old Tabby
What did they do to him? "
I don't know exactly what his owners got the vet to do to him Mavis, but before the procedure he used to say 'meow', but since then he just mutters 'Ow'  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can you say no to sex when your really horny? Weather it's with a partner for someone you've met? the weather plays a big part whether I say yes or no to sex on the beach "
H
So true lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah all the time. Fighting those damn women off
Oh Lucy you. You must be wearing the lynx that attracts women."
Lucy Lucy Lucy me. I’m a Lucy son of a gun. . Faf |
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"Yeah all the time. Fighting those damn women off
Oh Lucy you. You must be wearing the lynx that attracts women.
Lucy Lucy Lucy me. I’m a Lucy son of a gun. . Faf"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With most people, yes, with some, no! 
Theres just some who make saying no very hard.
There definitely are! And some that make it impossible!  "
Oh this I know only to well. |
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