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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Family lives far away and they wouldn't approve so no point of telling them.
Few of my mates know.
I'm single, meeting single men so nothing to feel bad about.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family don't know but I barely speak to them aside from my dad who lives 150 miles away, or my son. Can't say it's something I'd bring into the convo with my lad but wouldn't hide it if he mentioned it.
Don't have friends away from fab really aside from those I work with and a few of them know. Most of them know I'm an open book and many come to me with personal issues. I like that they trust me enough to tell me stuff and value my opinion and advice. I'm like the crazy aunt of the workplace.
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"Private, to protect our children!! "
Same here! Well, to protect our children and careers as some of us work in industries where people judge you based on your personal life or social media posts!
For those reasons we are very wary of meeting people who openly brag about what they get up to and who they meet.
Lou x
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I dont hide it except from my younger kids. Although it would help if other people respected that and didnt think it was okay to try to out people
One reason I never meet at home just at clubs is that my kids never see anything.
Adult friends and family.. I see no reason to hide it. |
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"Out of curiosity how many people are open with friends/family about been a swinger?
Personally Im not bothered who knows
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One of my sisters and my friends know I've been to events and stuff. No need for my parents to know it doesnt benefit either of us |
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Our experience on this is most genuine couples( not all) are secretive, especially if they have kids. Most singles aren’t. They aren’t really considered swingers by some people, especially the vanilla brigade, so it’s considered normal. People who view swing as “wife swapping” don’t see singles shagging each other in the same light as swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private and we tend to avoid people who aren't nowadays. We've met people for socials who talk so loudly about swinging that it embarrasses us and the people who can hear"
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"Told my mum that I swing she hit the roof, then told her I dress she hit the roof basically tuff shit if I like it then I will do it regardless of other people's thoughts"
My mum used to “hit the roof”...lothat phrase is such a flashback for me! |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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Nobody knows anything about me and my life as Alex apart from the people that Alex meets from here and at events.
I run my own business with staff, customers and suppliers. Plus a small family and a few friends.
The two never coincide or meet, it's also nobody else's business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our daughters kind of suspect Mum And Dad are not vanilla but we have never confirmed their suspicions. Our parents def wouldn’t even consider what we get up too. Few of our friends know too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secret.
It's not something I would ever discuss with family or friends. They have no need to know.
And I have no interest in the judgemental attitude of others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Becky my non swinging FB knows but other than that nobody else that feel I need to tell really. Only told her as we do get together fairly regularly and thought it only fair she should know really |
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Neither my family or friends know and that isn’t going to change.
One friend outside of here knows I go out for drinks or meet mates at the weekend. He’s never asked any details, how I meet people etc, except where am I meeting them. He just checks in the next day to make sure I’m ok. His hair would curl if he knew
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I've told my 3 best friends. Not told, or planning to tell, anyone else. Definitely private! And I warn men I've met how they might meet me in my professional life, and that they should keep it to themselves... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Mr best male mate knows.
Mine and my wife's main group of vanilla friends all know and one of whom (female) is also a swinger.
Non of mine or my wifes work colleagues know anything in relation to our swinging. The same applies to our families aswell and we plan for that to never change.
KJ x
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