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over a year ago
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Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm "
It's not always like that.
Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone? |
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm
It's not always like that.
Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone?"
There are always lies no matter how you sugar coat it. I think she is right cheaters are invariably accomplished liars even lying to themselves to justify it like you have justified it.  |
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm
It's not always like that.
Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone?
There are always lies no matter how you sugar coat it. I think she is right cheaters are invariably accomplished liars even lying to themselves to justify it like you have justified it. "
That seem very harsh Kate
H always knows and meets socially too
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over a year ago
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"Some do some don’t. I have yes and to be honest have found the married ones were the nicest and most respectful in general in my opinion.
All cheating on there wives or like me with consent? "
Without consent. But on fab people generally only see black and white. You’re a lying cheating scum or you’re not. Quite sad on a site like this really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm
It's not always like that.
Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone?
There are always lies no matter how you sugar coat it. I think she is right cheaters are invariably accomplished liars even lying to themselves to justify it like you have justified it. "
I agree.
No doubt that marriage isn’t straight forward, however I will never agree with cheating and deceit no matter what the excuse is, nor will I knowingly be a participant in it.
I know what it feels like to be lied to & cheated on, I wouldn’t put that on anybody else.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone?"
One persons idea of different directions can be totally different to someone elses.
I totally hear ya on the convenience thing, the practicalities etc. I find it uncomfortable when things are hidden though.
I'm not calling your situation into question, but there are many where one person feels more separated than the other.
My own parents for example. They remained married, lived together (dad slept downstairs for years) it was blatantly obvious to me they were no longer in a loving relationship and they too lived more like brother and sister. Neither were truly happy or living, they were cohabiting and existing. For years I thought they'd have been happier apart, and I'd have probably been happier too.
Anywhoooo, when my dad finally left, even though it was a sure thing it was gonna happen and long overdue - it devastated my mum.
My dad had been seeing my now step-mum for a fair while and they moved in together from the get go.
Aside from the panic of how she would afford the house and that she needed to get off her arse and get a job she was blindsided by the fact she had no clue it was coming. She had gotten comfortable with things the way they were and saw herself and my dad living out their days like it.
I think it would have been fairer to talk. To have the conversation that he wanted to see other people as their marriage was no more than security for the kids and finances. Even though they weren't living as loving husband and wife it knocked her for six and she felt cheated on by someone who wasn't her husband as she knew it way back when, but by a friend, by someone in a position of trust.
You can't help who you fall in love with, and I don't blame my dad for falling for my step-mum. He was out of order the way he went about it tho, and it caused so many rifts. My sister disowned him the day he left and their relationship has remained non existent since then.
Sometimes it's not what you do, it's the way that you do it.
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
.
A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
.
Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm
It's not always like that.
Some people have grown out of love many years ago and have lived almost as brother and sister or housemates for years.
It's not practical or convenient to divorce and totally go their separate ways so they don't bother but live their day to day lives in different directions.
Where there are no questions there are no lies.
Should I have to divorce my wife and live on my own or with friends to expect sex with someone?
There are always lies no matter how you sugar coat it. I think she is right cheaters are invariably accomplished liars even lying to themselves to justify it like you have justified it.
I agree.
No doubt that marriage isn’t straight forward, however I will never agree with cheating and deceit no matter what the excuse is, nor will I knowingly be a participant in it.
I know what it feels like to be lied to & cheated on, I wouldn’t put that on anybody else.
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What happened to you sounds like cheating
Not the same as me enjoying my wife after a play met she knows all about |
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As others have said married men on here playing away are nearly always deceptive both to their partners and to people on here and some of the ways they try to justify it is as others have said lying to themselves as well.
As they say you can't trust a habitual liar so best avoided. |
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"we meet single men, but the married thing is a worry for us, the last thing we want it to break up a relationship"
If , as in your verification you can see Mrs knows why would you be breaking us apart ?
Surly it’s safer to meet a guy that is married and say he is than a maybe single ???? Guy
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"As others have said married men on here playing away are nearly always deceptive both to their partners and to people on here and some of the ways they try to justify it is as others have said lying to themselves as well.
As they say you can't trust a habitual liar so best avoided. "
I strongly disagree
How do you know a “single” guy isn’t married ? |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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I agree, there are plenty of men claiming to be single, but strangely can't accommodate. While for a few it might be because they live in a shared house or have kids at home, 9 out of 10 it is because they have a partner that doesn't know.
I find it easier just to be open and tell them I would prefer to know if they have a partner but will not hold it agianst them. |
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"I agree, there are plenty of men claiming to be single, but strangely can't accommodate. While for a few it might be because they live in a shared house or have kids at home, 9 out of 10 it is because they have a partner that doesn't know.
I find it easier just to be open and tell them I would prefer to know if they have a partner but will not hold it agianst them."
Why do so many lie on here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As others have said married men on here playing away are nearly always deceptive both to their partners and to people on here and some of the ways they try to justify it is as others have said lying to themselves as well.
As they say you can't trust a habitual liar so best avoided.
I strongly disagree
How do you know a “single” guy isn’t married ? "
Oh thats easy to work out but not telling you how. You would disagree but I stand by what I said in the main the married men playing on here are habitual liars. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree, there are plenty of men claiming to be single, but strangely can't accommodate. While for a few it might be because they live in a shared house or have kids at home, 9 out of 10 it is because they have a partner that doesn't know.
I find it easier just to be open and tell them I would prefer to know if they have a partner but will not hold it agianst them.
Why do so many lie on here ? "
Because they have no respect.
If they had respect for their partner or those they're deceiving into meeting then they wouldn't.
Those who are open about it, I may not agree but I can at least say fair play for being honest about it and giving people the choice. When they lie they're taking away a persons right to choose which is really fucking unfair.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm happy to meet married/attached guys, in fact I prefer them. It's not for me to judge them as there may be a multitude of reasons why they are seeking sex outside of their partnership. |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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"Some won’t, others will.
I manage to get meetings. Some women actually prefer married men. "
That is me, I find them to be better at giving pleasure than single men. I guess a lot of single men are single for a reason, a gross generalisation I know, but has worked for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put on she does know and verification confirm this "
That's the arrangement and it's within the boundaries of your relationship so that's cool. Nobody is in the dark or getting hurt.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do some don’t. I have yes and to be honest have found the married ones were the nicest and most respectful in general in my opinion. "
There is a glimmer of hope for a lying cheating scumbags like me then!!  |
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"I put on she does know and verification confirm this
That's the arrangement and it's within the boundaries of your relationship so that's cool. Nobody is in the dark or getting hurt.
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The way it should always be |
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"Some won’t, others will.
I manage to get meetings. Some women actually prefer married men.
That is me, I find them to be better at giving pleasure than single men. I guess a lot of single men are single for a reason, a gross generalisation I know, but has worked for me."
I do hope yiu might test that theory out on me |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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Advantages of married men (even cheating ones)
1. They have been road tested by a real woman, she has [probably] been satisfied enough with his performance to keep him.
2. He has been taught by a real woman what he is doing right or wrong, not by watching porn and the pretend groans of satisfaction from one night stands.
3. Less likely to be taking huge risks, after all how is he going to explain giving his wife an STD? He might be lying to her but he doesn't want his world falling apart by having bareback sex with out on a drink and drug fuelled night out. |
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"Advantages of married men (even cheating ones)
1. They have been road tested by a real woman, she has [probably] been satisfied enough with his performance to keep him.
2. He has been taught by a real woman what he is doing right or wrong, not by watching porn and the pretend groans of satisfaction from one night stands.
3. Less likely to be taking huge risks, after all how is he going to explain giving his wife an STD? He might be lying to her but he doesn't want his world falling apart by having bareback sex with out on a drink and drug fuelled night out."
1/More likley to 3 pumps fart roll over and sleep.
2/Bollocks if sex was so good at home he wouldn't be playing away he would have her here.
3/He is a liar he wouldn't tell anyone he has a sti you the wife nobody. |
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"Advantages of married men (even cheating ones)
1. They have been road tested by a real woman, she has [probably] been satisfied enough with his performance to keep him.
2. He has been taught by a real woman what he is doing right or wrong, not by watching porn and the pretend groans of satisfaction from one night stands.
3. Less likely to be taking huge risks, after all how is he going to explain giving his wife an STD? He might be lying to her but he doesn't want his world falling apart by having bareback sex with out on a drink and drug fuelled night out.
1/More likley to 3 pumps fart roll over and sleep.
2/Bollocks if sex was so good at home he wouldn't be playing away he would have her here.
3/He is a liar he wouldn't tell anyone he has a sti you the wife nobody. "
I must add to that I slept with 3 people over the course of 18 years. One of them cheated on me, the person I fucked after him was protected. I went for testing and found out I had chlamydia.
It happens.
So I either got it from my partner at the time who cheated or the one after even though we used protection.
I'm thankful it was something antibiotics could fix and not something that had a death sentence attached
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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1/More likley to 3 pumps fart roll over and sleep.
2/Bollocks if sex was so good at home he wouldn't be playing away he would have her here.
3/He is a liar he wouldn't tell anyone he has a sti you the wife nobody. "
1) With her probably, the same thing over and over can get boring fast and they just give up.
2) Most women would murder them for even suggesting introducing anyone else to their sex life.
3) Well I'd rather take my chances with a married guy that gets the occasional opportunity than some guy going out every friday night picking up a random woman. |
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"As others have said married men on here playing away are nearly always deceptive both to their partners and to people on here and some of the ways they try to justify it is as others have said lying to themselves as well.
As they say you can't trust a habitual liar so best avoided.
I strongly disagree
How do you know a “single” guy isn’t married ? "
How do you know a married guy is playing with the wife so permission?
Do you let the women you met have a phone chat with the wife beforehand? Or do you just hope they’ll take your word for it? |
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"Advantages of married men (even cheating ones)
1. They have been road tested by a real woman, she has [probably] been satisfied enough with his performance to keep him.
2. He has been taught by a real woman what he is doing right or wrong, not by watching porn and the pretend groans of satisfaction from one night stands.
3. Less likely to be taking huge risks, after all how is he going to explain giving his wife an STD? He might be lying to her but he doesn't want his world falling apart by having bareback sex with out on a drink and drug fuelled night out."
Don’t agree.
A man being married doesn’t mean he’s good in bed.
He may well be a reckless cheat who doesn’t use protection.
He may well be cheating because the wife doesn’t want to have sex with him for various reasons.
What you’re saying is a big generalisation. There’s married men on here barebacking other women, I’ve had messaged from them stating so “I only play bare”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1/More likley to 3 pumps fart roll over and sleep.
2/Bollocks if sex was so good at home he wouldn't be playing away he would have her here.
3/He is a liar he wouldn't tell anyone he has a sti you the wife nobody.
1) With her probably, the same thing over and over can get boring fast and they just give up.
2) Most women would murder them for even suggesting introducing anyone else to their sex life.
3) Well I'd rather take my chances with a married guy that gets the occasional opportunity than some guy going out every friday night picking up a random woman."
Not every single guy goes out every Friday night picking up random women.
Some married men likely do that too and use the excuse “I’m off to the pub”. |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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As I said a generalisation, but in my experience the worst experiences have been with single men who have just tried to bang be through the mattress like a power tool and then want to cum on my face, yuk!
The best have been with married men that I have met with, one who's wife does not know about his activities I have been seeing now for about 4 years.
Being totally selfish, as I wouldn't want to be the one being cheated on, but the men I like the most have almost always been married. |
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"As others have said married men on here playing away are nearly always deceptive both to their partners and to people on here and some of the ways they try to justify it is as others have said lying to themselves as well.
As they say you can't trust a habitual liar so best avoided.
I strongly disagree
How do you know a “single” guy isn’t married ?
How do you know a married guy is playing with the wife so permission?
Do you let the women you met have a phone chat with the wife beforehand? Or do you just hope they’ll take your word for it?"
Meeting is the best way
H doesn’t like chatting on phone |
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I would meet men in a situation like yours op ,as no-one is being deceived or getting hurt.
I don't knowingly meet anyone playing behind a partners back though.Purely because I wouldn't want it done to me.
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"I would meet men in a situation like yours op ,as no-one is being deceived or getting hurt.
I don't knowingly meet anyone playing behind a partners back though.Purely because I wouldn't want it done to me.
Miss"
At last someone understands that there is no deceit what’s so ever, I am up front and say how it is at the start |
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"I would meet men in a situation like yours op ,as no-one is being deceived or getting hurt.
I don't knowingly meet anyone playing behind a partners back though.Purely because I wouldn't want it done to me.
Miss
At last someone understands that there is no deceit what’s so ever, I am up front and say how it is at the start "
Of course there’s no deceit if the wife knows.
However there are some who will say the wife knows, when she doesn’t. |
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"I would meet men in a situation like yours op ,as no-one is being deceived or getting hurt.
I don't knowingly meet anyone playing behind a partners back though.Purely because I wouldn't want it done to me.
Miss
At last someone understands that there is no deceit what’s so ever, I am up front and say how it is at the start
Of course there’s no deceit if the wife knows.
However there are some who will say the wife knows, when she doesn’t. "
That is why we like to both meet up
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"I would meet men in a situation like yours op ,as no-one is being deceived or getting hurt.
I don't knowingly meet anyone playing behind a partners back though.Purely because I wouldn't want it done to me.
Miss
At last someone understands that there is no deceit what’s so ever, I am up front and say how it is at the start "
You don't expect people to actually read what you write before jumping in with their opinions do you :- D
Your situation seems perfectly ethical where both of you consent to the arrangement. Of course reassuring prospective playmates that your wife actually does consent is always going to be the challenge (unless she is happy to confirm).
Playing with consent of their partner does seems to be very much in the minority on here amongst the 'fab single' men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am married ( almost 30 years )
Very happy but i like to meet others
Any comments ? "
Yes, where’s the best place to get a good quality foot spa at this time of the evening ? |
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I havnt read the thread comments, but would it be better to be on a couple profile so it looks more obvious you have the relevant 'permissions'
People sharing husbands and wives is what swinging is all about supposedly so yes people do meet married others. I also have and do. |
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"Sure they do! People also do bareback on here and all sorts of things.
The problem with a married guy though is he is inherently a liar or the ones playing behind the wife's backs are. They freely lie to the wife about what they are doing and where they are going which is their business. However if they lie to the person they married, live with and have a relationship with they will lie to people they are meeting for sex because lying comes naturally to them.
So if you ask them :-
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A/ Are you sti free?
B/ Have you been tested recently?
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Well can you trust what they tell you on those 2? After all you are a casual encounter and they are used to lying.
So what you have to think on is "is it safe to meet a habitual liar?"
Hmmmmmmmmmm "
Wow. I have to reply to this. What about the ones that do own up to it on there profiles. They arnt lying to you so why lie about safe sex. Thats the trouble with fab. Everybody thinks because your married your cheating |
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You tell them ,every one cheats for a reason ,the wife or husband could be disabled or be ill ,they might be together just for financial reasons and the kids ,,there are lots of other reasons but every body has needs ..even if is just sex .. |
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"I havnt read the thread comments, but would it be better to be on a couple profile so it looks more obvious you have the relevant 'permissions'
People sharing husbands and wives is what swinging is all about supposedly so yes people do meet married others. I also have and do. "
We were on a cpls profile, some one complained to admin as it was only me meeting , they then changed it to single ;(
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I meet a married guy. He has always been honest about this. He has his reasons which I understand. I never thought I would dO anything like this, but I don't regret a minute of it - he's a good mate as much as a lover. I don't want him to leave his wife or any of that old behaviour! I just want his extra time ..... and his kiss! |
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No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
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As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
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I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt. |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt. "
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others? "
Yes , as I say she meets socially too |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others? "
Exactly my point. If people are happy in their marriages why are they on here without husband or wife's knowledge or consent? |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Exactly my point. If people are happy in their marriages why are they on here without husband or wife's knowledge or consent? "
Do you understand in our case mrs always knows and consents ?
This adds to our exciting times together, not replacing something missing
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too "
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.". |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Exactly my point. If people are happy in their marriages why are they on here without husband or wife's knowledge or consent? "
I was happy with my ex hubby but I didn’t want to have sex with him. I could never cheat as I had no interest in sex full stop back then. He didn’t want to go elsewhere either. We decided to part and stay friends. I just couldn’t go behind the back of someone I loved. I would either talk to them and have an agreement to go elsewhere or not do it at all. |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt."."
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that. |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.".
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that. "
You say you are in a happy marriage and I was asking if your partner has given their consent for you to be on here and to have sex with other people? |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.".
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that.
You say you are in a happy marriage and I was asking if your partner has given their consent for you to be on here and to have sex with other people?"
Yes she does
We meet together socially too |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.".
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that.
You say you are in a happy marriage and I was asking if your partner has given their consent for you to be on here and to have sex with other people?
Yes she does
We meet together socially too "
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.".
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that.
You say you are in a happy marriage and I was asking if your partner has given their consent for you to be on here and to have sex with other people?
Yes she does
We meet together socially too
Are you and cupra1 the same person?"
Hardly. Hes 110 miles from me. Maybe he just agrees with me. If my wife knows isnt what the post is about. If you want to start a post asking married men if there wives know then i will reply to that. |
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"No, we don't meet married guys or girls. There's no excuse for staying in an unhappy repationship. I (fem) never thought I would leave a guy after I had a kid with him, to me that is the ultimate commitment, moreso than a marriage certificate, but I wasn't happy and I left him. The male half had 3 kids in an unhappy relationship, he tried in vain to make it work and with each child he tried harder but nothing was ever good enough and he couldn't bare the thought of walking out of the family home, but eventually she wore him down so bad he couldn't cope with her anymore, so he left.
To those who say we are happy in every sense except sexually - to those I say, there's always wanking and porn, so no excuse to stray.
As I said, we both enjoy one another fully, over the last 30 years we have and continue to enjoy a busy and interesting sex life
This adds to it
I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.
Does your wife consent to you being on fab and having sex with others?
Yes , as I say she meets socially too
This question was not directed at you as you have already made clear your other half does consent. The question was directed to cupra1 who I had quoted and specifically to his statement "I so agree with this.. people always think you are in an unhappy life. Well sorry but no we arnt.".
Exactly that. No we arnt in a unhappy life. You know what asume stands for in real life. But incase people dont its the same as 1+1= 6. Now i meet consenting people that know im married. If people dont want to meet me then thats ok. I can live with that.
You say you are in a happy marriage and I was asking if your partner has given their consent for you to be on here and to have sex with other people?
Yes she does
We meet together socially too
Are you and cupra1 the same person?
Hardly. Hes 110 miles from me. Maybe he just agrees with me. If my wife knows isnt what the post is about. If you want to start a post asking married men if there wives know then i will reply to that."
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"It's like some surreal alternative reality in here. "
The forams pages are open to everyone. And everyone has an opinion. Some i feel are right. Some i feel are wrong. But this is life. Bit like brexit really |
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"It's like some surreal alternative reality in here.
The forams pages are open to everyone. And everyone has an opinion. Some i feel are right. Some i feel are wrong. But this is life. Bit like brexit really"
Brexit is a definitely sureal alternative reality ! |
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Many of the couples I've met prefer married guys.
We don't expect any sort of relationship and are often far less complicated. I've met couples who've met singles who have subsequently tried to talk the lady out of her relationship. |
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