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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it OK to slander others on your wall status?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d say yes, just don’t mention names

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I thought not too. Yet a girl that I didn't get on with felt the need to put in her wall. I reported it three times and nothing has been done.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

No. It’s silly and what’s the point? It’s a no from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "
no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought not too. Yet a girl that I didn't get on with felt the need to put in her wall. I reported it three times and nothing has been done. "

That's not very nice

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By *onbons_xxMan over a year ago

Bolton

I would have thought site admin could get involved for that.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Sorry Elizabeth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it's childish behaviour

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

No, just makes the poster look like an idiot!

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So it's unanimous that it should not be allowed as I thought. Thanks for the feedback you lovely people. Hopefully the admins will do something about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Absolutely not! It's disrespectful and naming and shaming, which is against site rules. Report inappropriate behaviour from others to Admin

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have now reported it five times and yet nothing has been done as its still on her wall. Maybe the admins have a big backlog so hopefully they will see my report and do something about it. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No matter what happened and we don’t know the full story, someone shouldn’t waste energy on a nobody like that. Silly girl for letting it get to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it slander if it's true? I arranged a meet a few days ago,paid for a taxi journey to the meet point and they didn't turn up,no Message no apology and then I was blocked! I didn't put it on my status but I can understand why people would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing makes me want to meet someone more than a naming and shaming status. It's such a turn on, who could not be attracted to that level of maturity and discretion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing makes me want to meet someone more than a naming and shaming status. It's such a turn on, who could not be attracted to that level of maturity and discretion"

It makes me damp.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have now reported it five times and yet nothing has been done as its still on her wall. Maybe the admins have a big backlog so hopefully they will see my report and do something about it. Thanks x"

It can take up to 48 hours. Also it's bank holiday. Even Admin needs daylight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think people are more likely to body swerve the person who does that than the one who's named if it's any consolation

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"So it's unanimous that it should not be allowed as I thought. Thanks for the feedback you lovely people. Hopefully the admins will do something about it. "

How long have you given admin to sort it?

I used to be a moderator on another site. Depending on how the functionality works it can take a few days to get to any reports.

Remember mods are volunteer's and so won't be on 24/7

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it's very immature , bet she's put it on Facebook as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Lovely .......I'm not surprised she went ballistic....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would have thought site admin could get involved for that. "

Never happens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Took it thick?

Dirt bird?

What do you mean?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

You have started a thread about slandering someone on a status and then post this?

Nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Did I mention any names?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

She has been on only two months and over eighty meets... You do the math!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Did I mention any names?!"

You did not. If she called you out by name then that is wrong.

It's not cool to slate someone for their sexual appetite, and success. You don't have to meet someone who has advertised, through verifications, that they have met many people if that is a turn off for you. There is no need to slap them down with it.

Good luck with getting meets.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"She has been on only two months and over eighty meets... You do the math!"

And that's got what to do with you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if its a sly dig that only they would understand

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"She has been on only two months and over eighty meets... You do the math!"

You are making assumptions. She may have been here before. A lot may be social. Did you read every single one?

It's none of your business if you're not interested in meeting her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

OMG are you missing the point. I didn't want to meet her because I have standards clearly she doesn't. Yeah each to their own but just because I didn't want to meet her she writes on her status my name and telling all girls to stay clear of me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG are you missing the point. I didn't want to meet her because I have standards clearly she doesn't. Yeah each to their own but just because I didn't want to meet her she writes on her status my name and telling all girls to stay clear of me. "

Girls will be Girls, but at the end of the day it's about discretion

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I don't think so. There is usually 2 sides to every story and I wouldn't appreciate it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

We don't know how you told her you didn't want to meet her. I am making the assumption she contacted you, because of your stated standards. It's easy enough to just delete and not respond.

My advice is to block and ignore. You've already reported her. If you see each other on the street, just ignore.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If she writes something then it could be libel not slander. I don’t see the logic in equating the number of meets with a supposed level of standard.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Why did you feel itwas your place to tell her that?

So you were rude to her and have slated her on a forum thread and accused gerbil habing no standards.

And she sagged you off on a status.

Sounds like a natch made in heaven to be honest

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

‘Ere! These them grapes are sour!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

Why did you feel itwas your place to tell her that?

So you were rude to her and have slated her on a forum thread and accused gerbil habing no standards.

And she sagged you off on a status.

Sounds like a natch made in heaven to be honest "

Bike Monkey, your typos on this one have made me laugh out loud. The poor accused gerbil.

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By *istress CockneyWoman over a year ago

LONDON

If not want you are looking for then why approach her and if messaged you first then could have ignored any communication?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No life's to jolly short

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Calling her a dirt bird does say a little something about you though

Sorry, but it does

Sometimes, judgement is better interalised

There are sights and stories here that make my eyes itch

You just have to move on, quietly

None of that is condoning her behaviour

As frustrating as it is not to rise to it, a quiet report and block would have said more about you than this thread has

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

You should have been kinder in how you rejected her, she shouldn't have put up a status about you. Neither of you are smelling of roses here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Making defamatory comments about others in your profile description should be a BANNABLE offence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

What a prize...****

How dare you. I'm kinda glad she did what she did.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

By the way, OP, welcome to the Lounge forum. You've pushed the saloon swing doors open and stood proud in your cowboy boots.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

You do see that who she meets and how often is none of your business surely? Why not just leave her to it without comment if she doesn’t appeal to you?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Give her my name. I love having sex with women who have shagged loads of men.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman over a year ago

Grangemouth

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

How dare you. I'm kinda glad she did what she did. "

This. All and any empathy made to disappear as if by magic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

How dare you. I'm kinda glad she did what she did.

This. All and any empathy made to disappear as if by magic.

Yup, same here

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I love boys like you

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By *est Wales WifeCouple over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

How can it be slander which is a false spoken statement? Perhaps you mean libel?

And of course there are two sides to most libel disputes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it possible that OP is trolling using a sockpuppet? His account is only one week old.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How can it be slander which is a false spoken statement? Perhaps you mean libel?

And of course there are two sides to most libel disputes."

I noted the difference above. Libel is written (like in library) and slander is the spoken word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Amazeballs

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Amazeballs

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if that’s to me, it’s a compliment

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

PM me her profile name please, sounds a proper sort

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By *arkb73Man over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"How can it be slander which is a false spoken statement? Perhaps you mean libel?

And of course there are two sides to most libel disputes."

Well said and bringing cases for libel (or, indeed, slander) can be expensive both financially and reputationally.

It’s what did for Oscar Wilde.

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By *arkb73Man over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

PM me her profile name please, sounds a proper sort

And me - she sounds ace

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

Why did you feel itwas your place to tell her that?

So you were rude to her and have slated her on a forum thread and accused gerbil habing no standards.

And she sagged you off on a status.

Sounds like a natch made in heaven to be honest

Bike Monkey, your typos on this one have made me laugh out loud. The poor accused gerbil.

Lmao me too!

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I love boys like you "

That Lexi is a proper sort.....

She's been in my bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

Why did you feel itwas your place to tell her that?

So you were rude to her and have slated her on a forum thread and accused gerbil habing no standards.

And she sagged you off on a status.

Sounds like a natch made in heaven to be honest

Bike Monkey, your typos on this one have made me laugh out loud. The poor accused gerbil.

Lmao me too!

me too

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I love boys like you

That Lexi is a proper sort.....

She's been in my bed

Pictures or it didn't happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

How dare you. I'm kinda glad she did what she did. "
I didn't say it in so many words as to say I wouldn't meet someone like that. I just told her I wasn't interested and blocked her. Then she writes that in her wall.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

How dare you. I'm kinda glad she did what she did. I didn't say it in so many words as to say I wouldn't meet someone like that. I just told her I wasn't interested and blocked her. Then she writes that in her wall. "

You shouldn't be able to see her status if you've blocked her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

If you blocked her how do you know what her status says?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

Hang on. You blocked her THEN you saw what she wrote? You couldn’t have as you’d blocked her. It must have been there before you blocked her. Besides which, if you blocked her, that’s that. End. No need to worry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well if you do a search then even people you have blocked comes up in the search and you can see their status.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you do a search then even people you have blocked comes up in the search and you can see their status. "

That isn't true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you do a search then even people you have blocked comes up in the search and you can see their status. "

You can’t read there status updates, think your taxi has arrived.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol. Ermm yes it is. Try it.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well if you do a search then even people you have blocked comes up in the search and you can see their status. "

You can't even search them. It will come up as result not found.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. "
or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

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By *verReadyGirthMan over a year ago

city centre

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No.

Just because someone has a bad meet, it doesn't mean that either one of them is bad. If someone is nasty. Report and block. Simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol. Ermm yes it is. Try it. "

I've been here 8+ years and have never been able to see someone I've blocked. That is the whole point of the block!!!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

They sure dont

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

They don't for people who have blocked me. The only way you can find them is to try a reverse block (thank you, Anonymous, for that tip).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well here’s the thing...

If the verification weren’t displayed ... you’d have still Probably got jiggy with whom ever and you’d have been completely oblivious.

So just because they are shown that then somehow makes a difference ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

They don't. I just randomly blocked a local to see if perhaps things have changed. I can't see him in my local updates anymore.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it ."

I just did, they don't show up on searches

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just makes folk look petty....even if they have a legitimate reason for doing so.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I love boys like you

That Lexi is a proper sort.....

She's been in my bed

Best hide my veris!!!

What a comfy bed it is!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it ."

How have you blocked?

The functionality was changed around 2012/13 to stop people seeing a status on blocks and to stop the search function from finding them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well if I do a local search the three I have blocked still come up in the search.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it ."

Actually you're right. I just tried it that way. I blocked a guy that happened to be online now. He doesn't appear in my updates and I can't search him, but he does show in men online (although I can't _iew his profile) apologies dude. I get what you're saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it ."

You don’t have to do this, you can back out now, or you can keep digging, actually keep digging it’s more entertaining!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"[Removed by poster at 26/08/19 19:19:01]"
you need to be in the budgie smugglers thread, mate.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

So your on a swinger site to find a swinger that doesn’t swing?

The forums are great for that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

You don’t have to do this, you can back out now, or you can keep digging, actually keep digging it’s more entertaining! "

He's right though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

Well... I've never looked at who's online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

You don’t have to do this, you can back out now, or you can keep digging, actually keep digging it’s more entertaining!

He's right though. "
do you want a Loan of my shovel? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

Well... I've never looked at who's online.

Me neither. But it appears blocked users do appear. Admin need to sort that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would you want to?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well 100% every one I have blocked you do a local search and you can still see them but can't look at their profile just! Try it .

Well... I've never looked at who's online.

Me neither. But it appears blocked users do appear. Admin need to sort that. "

They do indeed.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

That’s why I wasn’t sure. Cos I don’t look or look for blocked people.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"[Cunty status removed by poster at 26/08/19 19:27:01]"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has been on only two months and over eighty meets... You do the math!"
and are they all sex meets or clubs socials? Who are you to judge a girl for meeting people i used to meet loads nobody ever called me dirty before i think u need to climb off that high horse before you fall off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

That’s why I wasn’t sure. Cos I don’t look or look for blocked people. "

Point is you can't search for them but you don't have to. Just look at who's online and blocked people do appear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So your on a swinger site to find a swinger that doesn’t swing?

The forums are great for that!!!

"
i found that

so did many others

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Blocked people don’t appear in searches at all. or do they? Actually, I’m not sure now.

That’s why I wasn’t sure. Cos I don’t look or look for blocked people.

Point is you can't search for them but you don't have to. Just look at who's online and blocked people do appear. "
why would I look for people I have blocked. They just come up. Something admin needs to sort not me.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"sockpuppet"

Now there's a word you don't see used much on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes OP, it's bad form to name and slate someone on an update / profile heading.

Yes, you were justified and entitled to report her.

You have now spent a lot of your day and loads of emotional energy reporting her, setting up a forum post about her, dwelling on it, venting, defending your own comments about her and probably because she has annoyed / angered you, you have by association got people's backs up by condemned someone for being promiscuous on a swingers website.

Don't you think you may have let her get to you way beyond her wildest dreams at this stage ?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yes OP, it's bad form to name and slate someone on an update / profile heading.

Yes, you were justified and entitled to report her.

Don't you think you may have let her get to you way beyond her wildest dreams at this stage ?

You can be sure she’s reading this thread and hooting with laughter at how she has affected you. All that life energy wasted.

But it has been an interesting read as there nowt on t’elly.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

It’s incredibly tacky to slag each other off, either in her status or in your posts.

It oozes drama.

Funny as fuck though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "

Did you mail her first or did she mail you?

What exactly did you say when you turned her down?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "

If they deserve it. Yes.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

[Removed by poster at 26/08/19 20:13:42]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

Why did you feel itwas your place to tell her that?

So you were rude to her and have slated her on a forum thread and accused gerbil habing no standards.

And she sagged you off on a status.

Sounds like a natch made in heaven to be honest

Bike Monkey, your typos on this one have made me laugh out loud. The poor accused gerbil.

Lmao me too!

me too

This is why I shouldn't post without my glasses on and hope for the best

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I love boys like you

That Lexi is a proper sort.....

She's been in my bed

Pictures or it didn't happen"

No cameras allowed in Club....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's now 81 shags in 2 weeks, not months! I won't tolerate being sold short in the forum. The forum gerbil is fine too, even though I'm away

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "

Yes if your a cock..

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By *oxychicWoman over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

What a wasted post are u sure it's her with the gripe and not u why would u be interested in what she puts why dont you just move on and judging someone on how many meets is ridiculous how do u know she hasn't done socials or clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Well this doesn’t paint you in a good light.

Nobody should be using a status to say negative things about others, but this post isn’t nice.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Thread pick of the week, so far

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"She has been on only two months and over eighty meets... You do the math!and are they all sex meets or clubs socials? Who are you to judge a girl for meeting people i used to meet loads nobody ever called me dirty before i think u need to climb off that high horse before you fall off "

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By *oodoo VixenWoman over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Just to clarify;

Calling someone a dirtbird is northern Irish slang. It can be taken in a light hearted jokey manner or it can be used as a negative term.

I certainly would not meet anyone with 80+ veris after being on a short while. That is my personal preference.

It’s not ok to name someone regardless of the issues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its libel? Slander is verbal and libel is written.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not big or clever but then people abuse and block we don't know the full story.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Hm... Now you are not showing yourself in the best light, are you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've noticed this on people's profiles quite a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see the pontificators are out on force again.

To quote the bible “Let ye who is without sin cast the first stone”

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

What a prize...****

Like what?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify;

Calling someone a dirtbird is northern Irish slang. It can be taken in a light hearted jokey manner or it can be used as a negative term.

I certainly would not meet anyone with 80+ veris after being on a short while. That is my personal preference.

It’s not ok to name someone regardless of the issues. "

It’s all well and good not meeting anyone with 80+ verifications, that’s your choice. However how do you know any of the people you have met haven’t met that amount of people in such a short space of time?

Some people probably have & simply haven’t written a verification for each meet. Others may have 80+ verifications and many of them be socials.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Just a thought OP.

If you had 80+ meets would you still expect/want people to meet you?

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By *uHorny1Man over a year ago

Cannock

If it's slander then by definition it's not true. Alsondlander is spoken, do if it's your status it's written and therefore, libel...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a form of name & shame

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"

Slut shaming is not great either.

If you don't want to meet a simple no thank you and block will surfice.

Or forget the no thank you and just block.

Why a woman who enjoys sex needs to be name called is beyond me (unless she has indicated this on her profile)

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "
No never.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slander is verbal, its libel for a written comment.

Not that I condone anyone's reason or behaviour for doing that, it *is* her status/wall that she's posting on.

If it is against the terms of acceptable use then I am sure admin will do what they need too to bring things into line.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

81 shags in 2 weeks is one every 4 and a bit hours.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!"
so why did you message her and say something like that.. and "someone like that" you do realise this is a swinger site right

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Erm ... why does a verification = a shag?

Perish the thought that they may have gone to one of the many social events and spoke to 81 people!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope.

I hate seeing it in my updates.

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By *thena123Woman over a year ago

Swansea

Absolutely not, if you have something to say to a particular person/couple either say it direct to them via message or don't say it at all....i don't know why people feel the need to belittle people on here all because the meet,messages etc hasn't gone they way they like...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say no as what good does it do?

There are better ways of dealing with anger or disappointment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird! so why did you message her and say something like that.. and "someone like that" you do realise this is a swinger site right "
I'm not ducking stupid. Not everyone wants to duck rings round them like you you skanky bitch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Erm ... why does a verification = a shag?

Perish the thought that they may have gone to one of the many social events and spoke to 81 people!! another fortunes haha "

And in coherent English?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird!

Slut shaming is not great either.

If you don't want to meet a simple no thank you and block will surfice.

Or forget the no thank you and just block.

Why a woman who enjoys sex needs to be name called is beyond me (unless she has indicated this on her profile) oh get over yourself you dirt bag. Not everyone is on here to fuck everyone. "

Wow! Wtf ....heh a bit of respect wouldn't go amiss love....posts will not always be what you want to read but name calling the posters?!!!!?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people. "

We love pass the parcel on here....

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird! so why did you message her and say something like that.. and "someone like that" you do realise this is a swinger site right I'm not ducking stupid. Not everyone wants to duck rings round them like you you skanky bitch. "
Ducking

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By *oxychicWoman over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people. "

How rude and how patronising you are maybe this isnt the site for you

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people.

How rude and how patronising you are maybe this isnt the site for you

He's gone

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

And he,s gone......... out with the bins .....it's Tuesday

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"And he,s gone......... out with the bins .....it's Tuesday

Ours are collected mondays though

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"So it's unanimous that it should not be allowed as I thought. Thanks for the feedback you lovely people. Hopefully the admins will do something about it. "

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By *oxychicWoman over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people.

How rude and how patronising you are maybe this isnt the site for you

He's gone"

Probably for the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people. "

I can see it now down the market get your stds £2 a pair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And, POOF! Just like that, OP has gone....

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

Well he was a lovely chap

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Well he was a lovely chap

Barely got to know him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some real skanky dirty bitch's on here. Thank fuck I never met one of you. Keep passing round the STDs people. "

What a horrible man.

I woke up to two messages from this guy, not sure why he messaged me about this post rather than post it on here.

Sounds to me like the lady in question had a lucky escape, although she shouldn’t name and shame, he clearly isn’t a nice person.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"And, POOF! Just like that, OP has gone...."

Don't mess with the Fab gerbil

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"She has had over 80 meets with guys and I simply told her I wouldn't meet someone like that so she took it thick. Dirt bird! so why did you message her and say something like that.. and "someone like that" you do realise this is a swinger site right I'm not ducking stupid. Not everyone wants to duck rings round them like you you skanky bitch. "

Clearly Prince charming.

Makes you wonder what he actually said to provoke such a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That was an interesting read.....

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That was an interesting read.....

Holly"

gotta love fab

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple over a year ago

Taunton

"81 shags in 2 weeks is one every 4 and a bit hours. "

They could be batched up. A good 12 man gangbang, and she could then have a couple of days off ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That was an interesting read.....

Holly

gotta love fab

. Too funny!

Dirt Bird! Great user name though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That was an interesting read.....

Holly

gotta love fab

Better than any soap!

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By *oAngelsCouple over a year ago

Sutton

My brain hurts....

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"My brain hurts...."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status? "

Yes

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it OK to slander others on your wall status?

Yes"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My brain hurts...."
stand up let some air get to it

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"My brain hurts....stand up let some air get to it

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I see he went for broke. Go big or go home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last word

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You were saying, F&B?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see he went for broke. Go big or go home. "

He went home.

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