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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were.... 
Ps I love Meli  "
Everybody loves Meli. She practically has a fan club here. I'm in it. Just being honest. 
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Everybody loves Meli. She practically has a fan club here. I'm in it. Just being honest.
Luke "
And of course she deserves it  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
On here? People do it for all sorts of reasons - to get a meet, to not get a meet, to appear better than the next person, because being truthful and honest is harder, to hide something.
Would always prefer honesty though, and will only ever offer it - those that lie don't take time to consider the impact they are having |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
Obviously you don’t know how to use the tape measure then  "
Obviously you have big cock envy green eyed monster |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
Honestly? It's often easier to perpetuate a lie than face up to the truth. Truth can be painful. Being honest with yourself is the first step and that can be very difficult.
I hear you, though. It can be bloody annoying on here!
Mrs TMN x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really hate lairs and I seem to find them all men saying they are women couples when female is always out at Asda or never there I'm honest think people should be the same x |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
In this digital world I take a lot of things folk claim with a pibch of salt...wonder where that saying came from..hmmmm.. I digress ..in the digital world its easy to be anything and anyone...why.. don't have enough info to offer an opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
Obviously you don’t know how to use the tape measure then
Obviously you have big cock envy green eyed monster "
No mines 15 inches, the first 3 are missing from my tape and I measure it from my bum hole |
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"On here? People do it for all sorts of reasons - to get a meet, to not get a meet, to appear better than the next person, because being truthful and honest is harder, to hide something.
Would always prefer honesty though, and will only ever offer it - those that lie don't take time to consider the impact they are having "
I don't understand it... No need at all... I'm open and honest, it's not hard to do... Anyway not worth my time xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
That's not what I heard 
I round it down to nearest inch, that's why
I'm not talking inches here. "
Oh...that part  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"On here? People do it for all sorts of reasons - to get a meet, to not get a meet, to appear better than the next person, because being truthful and honest is harder, to hide something.
Would always prefer honesty though, and will only ever offer it - those that lie don't take time to consider the impact they are having
I don't understand it... No need at all... I'm open and honest, it's not hard to do... Anyway not worth my time xx"
 I dont actually believe anything anyone tells me anymore then you cant be disappointed or surprised. Works a treat |
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I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
Because, for some people, pretending to be someone else is better than who they actually are. Personally I'd rather never have another meet again before I lied about who I am.
T x |
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
That's not what I heard
I round it down to nearest inch, that's why
I'm not talking inches here.
Oh...that part
Keep UP  "
It does stay up, for at least 30 seconds, but that's all you need when you're this hung |
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks! "
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx |
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
That's not what I heard
I round it down to nearest inch, that's why
I'm not talking inches here.
Oh...that part
Keep UP
It does stay up, for at least 30 seconds, but that's all you need when you're this hung "
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Because, for some people, pretending to be someone else is better than who they actually are. Personally I'd rather never have another meet again before I lied about who I am.
T x"
That's lovely you think like that.. Sadly a lot of others don't  |
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I know I have exaggerated stuff on here before, mostly what my level of kink is. Just trying to get noticed. Wouldn’t do this now, as actually don’t want to participate in anything beyond my boundaries, so why waste everyone’s time. |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Because, for some people, pretending to be someone else is better than who they actually are. Personally I'd rather never have another meet again before I lied about who I am.
T x
That's lovely you think like that.. Sadly a lot of others don't "
I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but I know I'm definitely J's tea of choice and that's all that matters |
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"I know I have exaggerated stuff on here before, mostly what my level of kink is. Just trying to get noticed. Wouldn’t do this now, as actually don’t want to participate in anything beyond my boundaries, so why waste everyone’s time. "
I get that and to a point we all do that that.. Its fab... |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Because, for some people, pretending to be someone else is better than who they actually are. Personally I'd rather never have another meet again before I lied about who I am.
T x
That's lovely you think like that.. Sadly a lot of others don't
I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but I know I'm definitely J's tea of choice and that's all that matters "
That is all that matters |
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I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx"
.....Their loss SnowWhite.....some people are just dicks....chin up....there will be better out there...  |
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I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx
.....Their loss SnowWhite.....some people are just dicks....chin up....there will be better out there... "
Awww thank you that's lovely of you to say so xx |
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks!
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx"
How do you know he had a meet?
Were you in a relationship or was it a first date? |
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks!
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx
How do you know he had a meet?
Were you in a relationship or was it a first date? "
First date so no big thing.. But he'd rung me a lot and said he was open to dating and I'd been clear I was hoping for 1-1... Which I get on here isn't for everyone.. and he was yes thats fine.. And I asked if he had any meets lined up and he said no... And that he wouldn't mess me around... I'm not desperate and even if he had of had meets lined up fine... Just be honest... It was a first date.. But if your gonna lie from the off then what hope is there??? I don't deserve that!! And he admitted it after I cancelled it. |
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks!
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx
How do you know he had a meet?
Were you in a relationship or was it a first date?
First date so no big thing.. But he'd rung me a lot and said he was open to dating and I'd been clear I was hoping for 1-1... Which I get on here isn't for everyone.. and he was yes thats fine.. And I asked if he had any meets lined up and he said no... And that he wouldn't mess me around... I'm not desperate and even if he had of had meets lined up fine... Just be honest... It was a first date.. But if your gonna lie from the off then what hope is there??? I don't deserve that!! And he admitted it after I cancelled it. "
Lucky escape that it happened now. See it as a positive. You'd feel much worse if it was weeks or months down the line. X |
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Lucky escape that it happened now. See it as a positive. You'd feel much worse if it was weeks or months down the line. X"
well said Mavis....I second what you say!!!
Better off without him if he is lying from the start!! |
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks!
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx
How do you know he had a meet?
Were you in a relationship or was it a first date?
First date so no big thing.. But he'd rung me a lot and said he was open to dating and I'd been clear I was hoping for 1-1... Which I get on here isn't for everyone.. and he was yes thats fine.. And I asked if he had any meets lined up and he said no... And that he wouldn't mess me around... I'm not desperate and even if he had of had meets lined up fine... Just be honest... It was a first date.. But if your gonna lie from the off then what hope is there??? I don't deserve that!! And he admitted it after I cancelled it.
Lucky escape that it happened now. See it as a positive. You'd feel much worse if it was weeks or months down the line. X"
I know and thank you... Its hard not be disappointed when you invest time in getting to know someone... I just don't understand, no need for it .. But thank you xx |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
Do I need to come and kick someone ass?
Ps I love Meli and you  |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Do I need to come and kick someone ass?
Ps I love Meli and you "
Awww yes please... Could do with a big hug from you xxx |
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"I don't love meli and don't tell the full truth. Am I destined to burn in hell?"
Nope. Loving Meli is optional and me too... And telling the truth...and burning in hell is optional... I hope I've been bad enough too |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I hardly ever lie, but I did tell my mum and sister that I felt poorly today because I didn’t want to go to a family tea party and instead went to the local festival and had an impromptu social with a couple from here.
I am a very bad woman, but I had a lovely time  |
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"I hardly ever lie, but I did tell my mum and sister that I felt poorly today because I didn’t want to go to a family tea party and instead went to the local festival and had an impromptu social with a couple from here.
I am a very bad woman, but I had a lovely time "
Now those are the type of "gentle lies" that can be tolerated.. Really glad you had a lovely time xx |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Do I need to come and kick someone ass?
Ps I love Meli and you
Awww yes please... Could do with a big hug from you xxx "
Hug sent lovely, and we need to catch up soon. I’ve missed you xxx |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Do I need to come and kick someone ass?
Ps I love Meli and you
Awww yes please... Could do with a big hug from you xxx
Hug sent lovely, and we need to catch up soon. I’ve missed you xxx"
I've missed you too my kindred spirit friend xxx |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
People lie to try to get what they want. Its a little pathetic though as they usually get caught out. |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
People lie to try to get what they want. Its a little pathetic though as they usually get caught out. "
Yes and this one has...but there was no need for it.. Its bloody fab I'm not nieve or a bloody nun.. I'm not perfect either so I get it... Just can't be doing with it. |
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it. "
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by "
Yeah I’m sure |
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by
Yeah I’m sure "
I haven't put the full details on here..surfice to say I'm actually not bothered he had a fab meet... Its fab ... But I do appreciate your comment... If you don't like the thread then no need to read it.. Hope you have a lovely Bank Holiday |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by
Yeah I’m sure
I haven't put the full details on here..surfice to say I'm actually not bothered he had a fab meet... Its fab ... But I do appreciate your comment... If you don't like the thread then no need to read it.. Hope you have a lovely Bank Holiday "
Then I’m not sure what your problem is |
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by
Yeah I’m sure
I haven't put the full details on here..surfice to say I'm actually not bothered he had a fab meet... Its fab ... But I do appreciate your comment... If you don't like the thread then no need to read it.. Hope you have a lovely Bank Holiday
Then I’m not sure what your problem is "
Just people lying... No need for it |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by
Yeah I’m sure
I haven't put the full details on here..surfice to say I'm actually not bothered he had a fab meet... Its fab ... But I do appreciate your comment... If you don't like the thread then no need to read it.. Hope you have a lovely Bank Holiday
Then I’m not sure what your problem is
Just people lying... No need for it "
But you say you’re not bothered so what’s the issue? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it. "
The point you're missing is the thread was about people that lie and why they feel the need to do so - this guy told the OP he wasn't meeting anyone else currently and was open to meeting her with a view to dating and therefore being exclusive - so at best he was lying by omission.
Either way absolutely no need for the derogatory and demeaning remarks they're uncalled for and bear no relevance. |
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
Thank you for your comment.. All feed back is greatly appreciated by
Yeah I’m sure
I haven't put the full details on here..surfice to say I'm actually not bothered he had a fab meet... Its fab ... But I do appreciate your comment... If you don't like the thread then no need to read it.. Hope you have a lovely Bank Holiday
Then I’m not sure what your problem is
Just people lying... No need for it "
Also not sure why your so unhappy with this thread.. Apologies if it has annoyed you |
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
The point you're missing is the thread was about people that lie and why they feel the need to do so - this guy told the OP he wasn't meeting anyone else currently and was open to meeting her with a view to dating and therefore being exclusive - so at best he was lying by omission.
Either way absolutely no need for the derogatory and demeaning remarks they're uncalled for and bear no relevance."
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Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago   |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago "
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner. |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner."
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here."
I'm talking about meeting up on his couple profile. |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
I'm talking about meeting up on his couple profile."
Oh, I get you... He'd know it was me though. |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
I'm talking about meeting up on his couple profile.
Oh, I get you... He'd know it was me though. "
And also, I can't be bothered with playing those sorts of games and 'catching him out'. I just text him and asked. |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
I'm talking about meeting up on his couple profile.
Oh, I get you... He'd know it was me though. "
Keep out of site, or ask someone you can trust to turn up.
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"I’m honest - too bloody honest. Didn’t find it an issue at all until recently - but now I’m looking for a relationship I’m finding it a problem!
Almost every guy on Fab (or any dating site) is happy to shag a swinger - very few are open to having a real relationship with one - even if you’re willing to be monogamous if that’s what they want!
Sometimes honesty sucks!!
On a lighter note I agree - Meli rocks!
I'm the same... Was meant to be on going on a "date" tomorrow ... I was upfront that I want to date...and he was "open" to it. But he had a fab meet and "forgot" to mention it ... Im not bothered... I had an amazing time at a club the other week but why lie about it!!??? I was open I'd been to a club... To me that just does it for me... Hope you find what your looking for.. Hugs xx"
Thanks sweetie! I hope we all do!
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Why do people lie? So many reasons- but most of them selfish. It’s not just on Fab but prevalent in society today. The online culture is leaving us no option really if we want to keep up with the desirables...
Let’s talk Fab. Many damaged fuck ups on here who are out to protect themselves. Come on, it’s a sex site not a dating site! Meaning that if you’re on here you have no feelings, all you want is a good shag and NSA- bah to emotions, yeah as if...
I’m sorry this happened to you OP. I’m glad that you posted it as it’s good to share. I’m sure you’re hurting as your profile clearly states what you want and that’s what makes this unfair... |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
I'm talking about meeting up on his couple profile.
Oh, I get you... He'd know it was me though.
And also, I can't be bothered with playing those sorts of games and 'catching him out'. I just text him and asked. "
What did he say? |
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
Depends what the lie is about.
To gain an advantage to your own benefit, regardless of the thoughts and feelings of others? No.
A white lie to protect someone, probably. |
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I find it incredibly disappointing.
People don't realise the impact finding out someone has lied has. Regardless of their motives it makes you feel like you've either been taken for a total cunt or that they think you're stupid/not worthy of the truth/your morals, feelings, values don't matter.
Saying you're a non-smoker because you think that's ok providing you don't smoke on a meet. That's not ok. That's a blatant lie. Just because they think it's no biggie it could be HUGE to someone else. Unfair and actually quite cruel to deceive someone that way.
Give people the truth and let them make decisions based on the real truth, not what the "meet truth" may be. You owe them that much, it's basic respect.
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over a year ago
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People lie all the time about all sorts of things from ‘you look lovely in that’ to ‘I didn’t kill him’. It’s human nature to tell lies I think. Some matter, some not so much. Just watch how people treat each other at times on here. The lying is probably the least of it. All you can do is trust your instincts and hope for the best |
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"I find it incredibly disappointing.
People don't realise the impact finding out someone has lied has. Regardless of their motives it makes you feel like you've either been taken for a total cunt or that they think you're stupid/not worthy of the truth/your morals, feelings, values don't matter.
Saying you're a non-smoker because you think that's ok providing you don't smoke on a meet. That's not ok. That's a blatant lie. Just because they think it's no biggie it could be HUGE to someone else. Unfair and actually quite cruel to deceive someone that way.
Give people the truth and let them make decisions based on the real truth, not what the "meet truth" may be. You owe them that much, it's basic respect.
P"
I totally agree... Its just basic decency... I'm not here to judge people but at least allow people to make choices on the truth. I don't see why it has to be a big thing. |
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"People lie all the time about all sorts of things from ‘you look lovely in that’ to ‘I didn’t kill him’. It’s human nature to tell lies I think. Some matter, some not so much. Just watch how people treat each other at times on here. The lying is probably the least of it. All you can do is trust your instincts and hope for the best "
Of course it is... I get that.. Like you say its the nature of it.. But another biggy to my gut..I knew something wasn't right.. |
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People like to some extent all the time on here then wonder why people avoid them. It depends on what the lie is but personally I avoid liars you don't know what else they may be lying about lie sti's etc. |
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"I find it incredibly disappointing.
People don't realise the impact finding out someone has lied has. Regardless of their motives it makes you feel like you've either been taken for a total cunt or that they think you're stupid/not worthy of the truth/your morals, feelings, values don't matter.
Saying you're a non-smoker because you think that's ok providing you don't smoke on a meet. That's not ok. That's a blatant lie. Just because they think it's no biggie it could be HUGE to someone else. Unfair and actually quite cruel to deceive someone that way.
Give people the truth and let them make decisions based on the real truth, not what the "meet truth" may be. You owe them that much, it's basic respect.
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I totally agree... Its just basic decency... I'm not here to judge people but at least allow people to make choices on the truth. I don't see why it has to be a big thing. "
I think at times they just don't think. They don't realise the impact.
Would they pretend to be a different religion in order to get in someones undies if they knew it could cause potential issues? To me it's exactly the same thing. It's deception with no regard for the other persons feelings or values. Or what it does do in my eyes is discount their values as not important.
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
And also, I can't be bothered with playing those sorts of games and 'catching him out'. I just text him and asked.
What did he say?"
He said he's not still married, the profile is with a girl he goes to parties with. But it seems like I'm "looking for drama" (which is totally not me), so he'll leave things there. |
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He said he's not still married, the profile is with a girl he goes to parties with. But it seems like I'm "looking for drama" (which is totally not me), so he'll leave things there. "
.....His loss defo, there will be a real genuine person on here for you!!
People always try the Shit like saying people are looking for drama to justify and make themselves feel better!!
Chin up, you better off not with someone like that....plenty more waiting in the wings!!! |
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over a year ago
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"I find it incredibly disappointing.
People don't realise the impact finding out someone has lied has. Regardless of their motives it makes you feel like you've either been taken for a total cunt or that they think you're stupid/not worthy of the truth/your morals, feelings, values don't matter.
Saying you're a non-smoker because you think that's ok providing you don't smoke on a meet. That's not ok. That's a blatant lie. Just because they think it's no biggie it could be HUGE to someone else. Unfair and actually quite cruel to deceive someone that way.
Give people the truth and let them make decisions based on the real truth, not what the "meet truth" may be. You owe them that much, it's basic respect.
P"
Exactly that - I'd rather let people know the truth about me than lead them into false expectations - it could be said I'm too honest at times especially when it comes to things about my abilities - but they will show themselves so I don't see the point in hiding them - if people choose not to meet me because of the truth I've told them then that's fine.
To take your example about smokers saying they don't smoke - of course it matters - they don't know why a person has chosen not to meet smokers - it could be that person is asthmatic and particularly sensitive to anyone that does, and much as a smoker might think it's not noticeable, as an ex-smoker I used to think that way but can now see just how much it does show no matter how many showers etc someone has had since their last fag. |
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"Just discovered what I think could be a massive lie.
Had a tinder date (no mention of anything fab related or kinky) about 2 weeks ago, it went OK and we carried on texting quite a bit after. I wasn't totally sold after the date, but the more we chatted, the better he seemed. About a week ago, he mentioned something about parties/clubs so I figured maybe he was on here and found him. I blocked his profile, but told him I had and said that although I was on here etc, I was looking to date, he said the same. We've carried on messaging and flirting.
So tonight I went to look at his profile and to do so I had to unblock and then search his username. And when I did, 2 profiles came up, the 2nd being a couples profile that had been logged into a day ago
Arrange a meet turn up if he there as a couple you be confronted with 2 options fuck them or fuck him off, then again you could be the partner.
I've already been on a date with him, I didn't meet him on here.
And also, I can't be bothered with playing those sorts of games and 'catching him out'. I just text him and asked.
What did he say?
He said he's not still married, the profile is with a girl he goes to parties with. But it seems like I'm "looking for drama" (which is totally not me), so he'll leave things there. "
His reaction is one of guilt. You don't need that shit. X |
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"People lie all the time about all sorts of things from ‘you look lovely in that’ to ‘I didn’t kill him’. It’s human nature to tell lies I think. Some matter, some not so much. Just watch how people treat each other at times on here. The lying is probably the least of it. All you can do is trust your instincts and hope for the best
Of course it is... I get that.. Like you say its the nature of it.. But another biggy to my gut..I knew something wasn't right.. "
That's another positive. You know you can trust your gut. |
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And also, I can't be bothered with playing those sorts of games and 'catching him out'. I just text him and asked.
What did he say?
He said he's not still married, the profile is with a girl he goes to parties with. But it seems like I'm "looking for drama" (which is totally not me), so he'll leave things there.
His reaction is one of guilt. You don't need that shit. X"
Thanks, agree with what you and _izzymonkey have said. I'm gutted, but there's only two possible options. Either he genuinely thinks that, in which case he's not going to change his mind. Or he's just said that as a get out to turn things round on me because I've caught him out. And either way he's either lied to me or on that profile |
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"I have a 17" penis and I know how to use it.
Obviously you don’t know how to use the tape measure then "
Inches, centimetres, easy mistake to make with complex equipment..... |
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His reaction is one of guilt. You don't need that shit. X
Thanks, agree with what you and _izzymonkey have said. I'm gutted, but there's only two possible options. Either he genuinely thinks that, in which case he's not going to change his mind. Or he's just said that as a get out to turn things round on me because I've caught him out. And either way he's either lied to me or on that profile "
Yes, he may, genuinely or he has at least convinced himself to think that!! So your right, he won't change his mind!!
But for my money & in my experience....I'd say that because he has lied & been found out, he's defo trying to turn it around on you and use it as a get out clause!! |
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Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
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My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details "
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site... |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site... "
I'm not surprised at all to be honest.. But just because this is a NSA sex site doesn't mean people have to be rude or bad mannered or lie.. Simple really. |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site... "
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa. |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa. "
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ? |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ? "
A decent person would |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ?
A decent person would "
In a 'perfect world', maybe. |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ?
A decent person would
In a 'perfect world', maybe. "
Nah not a perfect one. Just a normal one. But it's their loss I suppose |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ?
A decent person would
In a 'perfect world', maybe.
Nah not a perfect one. Just a normal one. But it's their loss I suppose "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli "
Has the bloke this is about commented on the thread, I can’t be arsed to look ?
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"Men and women of forum land. Why lie...??? Why waste people's time!!! Just be honest...its not hard..
As you were....
Ps I love Meli
Has the bloke this is about commented on the thread, I can’t be arsed to look ?
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No he left fab, to be fair yes I had someone in mind but it was a more general comment |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ?
A decent person would
In a 'perfect world', maybe.
Nah not a perfect one. Just a normal one. But it's their loss I suppose "
"Their loss". How so ?
I've not read all of the thread from the posts I read it appears the lady and gent wanted different things one wanted a 1-2-1 the other more freedom. How has he lost ? |
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa.
Firstly, my posts are not aimed at anyone on this thread. Just to be clear and I never post to upset anyone.
He or she is looking for NSA sex should answer that really.
Do they care if the other person is after a relationship ?
A decent person would
In a 'perfect world', maybe.
Nah not a perfect one. Just a normal one. But it's their loss I suppose
"Their loss". How so ?
I've not read all of the thread from the posts I read it appears the lady and gent wanted different things one wanted a 1-2-1 the other more freedom. How has he lost ?"
I'd rather not go into detail on here... It was meant to be a more general post... Surfice to say the person told some untruths.. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Jesus wept, it’s like high school on here.
He had a meet and didn’t mention it - boo hoo.
The world isn’t perfect - get over it.
The point you're missing is the thread was about people that lie and why they feel the need to do so - this guy told the OP he wasn't meeting anyone else currently and was open to meeting her with a view to dating and therefore being exclusive - so at best he was lying by omission.
Either way absolutely no need for the derogatory and demeaning remarks they're uncalled for and bear no relevance."
Just injecting a touch of realism into the thread pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are we really that surprised people lie on here.
Think about it if they look that good for you to want them then they must be turning a few other heads too. Knowing men how I do 75% of men would not turn their head away given the chance. I am in the minority 25% if I was committed to a date or someone
Could you be attracted to the wrong sort of guy?
Not saying lower your standard but dont be surprised when you have been lied to when someone is just sexually attracted to you.
It's fabswingers. A site which promotes sex.
Probably not suited in the land of fairy tales.
My name may be snow white but I'm far from nieve.. And I havent given all the details but no I'm not attracted to the wrong type of guy... You've made a lot of assumptions there without all the details
No assumptions made at all. As you say I dont know you. I have given my opinion on a forum thread.
I am sure your not naive, so you should not be surprised when someone has lied to you on a NSA sex site...
Sorry for jumping in here but i think the point is, if you want nsa then just say. Dont make out you want to date and have more from someone to manipulate them into bed. There are plenty of people he could have messaged, he didn't have to go for people who are clearly not looking for nsa. "
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