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Do any other women/ couple's get annoyed when
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But would it still annoy you if you fancied the pants out of them  . It doesn't annoy me,if I don't want to answer I won't."
A little yes cause I know I'll not get to meet that sexyness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "
No. Just shows they are interested |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Not anymore, we've never been after single guys but we'd still get them message chancing it.
So we blocked them all, no more messages. Blocking newbies & those without pics helps too.
If you then message a guy you are. Interested in hey bypass the block 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not anymore, we've never been after single guys but we'd still get them message chancing it.
So we blocked them all, no more messages. Blocking newbies & those without pics helps too.
If you then message a guy you are. Interested in hey bypass the block
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Best thing to do I did the same on my couple's profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance
No. Just shows they are interested "
I get that but it's not always possible to have any follow up because of distance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what they're after. If it's wank chat they're wasting their time.
They usually do it more in the night. They see a woman post, realise she's online and send some filth.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends who it is and why they've messaged me privately. If its something they could've just said on the thread it is a wee bit annoying. "
That particularly annoys me there's just no need |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what they're after. If it's wank chat they're wasting their time.
They usually do it more in the night. They see a woman post, realise she's online and send some filth. "
Yes! And it's usually something you are not into I end up feeling repulsed  |
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Yes it’s my pet hate
I always reply to their DM back on the original form post telling them I’m not interested
There’s one or two I swear start posts just for the responses and as an excuse to DM
people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it’s my pet hate
I always reply to their DM back on the original form post telling them I’m not interested
There’s one or two I swear start posts just for the responses and as an excuse to DM
people"
I was going to do that earlier but didn't go through with it |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "
Yep. I find that like someone thinking that anyone talking to them at a party is a come on. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's not just men that do it you know - it doesn't annoy me but I do wonder why if it's something that could have been said on the thread - sometimes though if the thread has gone off at a tangent or if it's a more personal comment it makes sense to.
It's also been know for people to hit the Reply Privately button by mistake.
Like most things on here though I don't let them get to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not just men that do it you know - it doesn't annoy me but I do wonder why if it's something that could have been said on the thread - sometimes though if the thread has gone off at a tangent or if it's a more personal comment it makes sense to.
It's also been know for people to hit the Reply Privately button by mistake.
Like most things on here though I don't let them get to me"
I didn't specify if it was men 
The messages I'm meaning are intentional |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a beautiful sunny day....
Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life...."
Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a beautiful sunny day....
Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life....
Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time"
I'll PM you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a beautiful sunny day....
Even if it wasn't I can't quite get annoyed by something that would have so little impact on my life....
Agree wholeheartedly. I ignore my inbox mostly anyway so I wouldn't know if someone has messaged off the back of a forum post. I only read messages from those that intrigue me after I've checked their profile out. Makes for a stress free fab time
I'll PM you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance
Yep. I find that like someone thinking that anyone talking to them at a party is a come on."
It annoys me when they say well I'm on here so obviously I'm looking for fun.
Err no. Not with you matey! |
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I just ignore them or delete them or answer them if it suits me .....
I often wonder why they won't put their comment in the forum but WILL comment to me in private.
The ones I really don't like are the lurkers who don't comment on the forum but message you because of something you've said in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "
lol u think its only women and couples who get them  |
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance "
Just PM’d you love  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You comment on a forum post and get replys in your inbox or is it just me? Normally it's to try and get Kik or can fun or general flirting but always from people I'll never meet due to distance lol u think its only women and couples who get them "
Actually yes because no one has ever told me any different  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was just talking to someone about this other day after a bloke from a couple thought it was a licence to tell me his wifes antics really odd convo that was after i said i dont care and he tells me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was just talking to someone about this other day after a bloke from a couple thought it was a licence to tell me his wifes antics really odd convo that was after i said i dont care and he tells me anyway "
There's some strange folk around |
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"I just ignore them or delete them or answer them if it suits me .....
I often wonder why they won't put their comment in the forum but WILL comment to me in private.
The ones I really don't like are the lurkers who don't comment on the forum but message you because of something you've said in there. "
Yeah that's a bit weird isn't it,I'm more likely to ignore those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get the private message from someone I wouldn't want it from, I just post in the thread that there is no need to PM me but they could have replied in the thread. Usually they get the hint. |
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