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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just wondering how and why these are used by others I only view my winks to bulk delete and same with friends request unless agreed in advance

Does this approach work ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I delete both straight away.

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By *cott73Man  over a year ago

brighton

Don't get either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I delete both straight away."

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What is a friend request?

What is a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I bulk delete after a while

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't get either. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prefer winks to random messages here though never delete or chat to anyone who sends me a friend request without asking says all on my profile too

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

It sounds perfectly reasonable. Friend requests out of the blue are only from chancers. Some people like winks and some don't. I personally do. They are better than a badly-written message. If you don't then that delete button is all yours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't delete the friend requests, because then they can't try again.. I just leave it

Winks, I very rarely look..

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales

We don't mind winks but only get them from couples & if they don't

say the lady meets alone on their profile we ignore them as we are only looking for lady friends now.

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Friend requests from strangers, I find extremely rude. There I said it

Rude. Rude. Rude.

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman  over a year ago

leicester

I figure it’s all just communication , like acknowledging someone you pass in the street , or smiling at someone in a bar , same sort of thing .

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By *cott73Man  over a year ago

brighton


"I figure it’s all just communication , like acknowledging someone you pass in the street , or smiling at someone in a bar , same sort of thing .

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Have to agree. What's the difference between a wink and a fab? Is just someone showing their appreciation of your pic / profile etc.

And everyone seems to like a fab on here....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate it

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By *urls and DressesWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I bulk delete winks but not friend requests because then they can’t send another request

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"I don't delete the friend requests, because then they can't try again.. I just leave it

Winks, I very rarely look.. "

That’s the way I approach it as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I accept friends requests when they are offline, fab their friends only pics then remove them as friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I accept friends requests when they are offline, fab their friends only pics then remove them as friends "

Hahahahahahahahaha omg I'm so going to do this

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

I didn’t realise by cancelling a friend request they can’t do a second one

I like winks it’s better than some inane messages I get. At least it’s easier to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find random friend requests rude and usually from young males hoping to see pics. I've been known to ask the sender why they were so lazy

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

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I like winks, and have actually chatted to and met some lovely people from winks.

Random friends requests I just ignore...I learnt a while ago that some people will just repeatedly send them if I delete, but they can't if you leave it sat there pending.

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By *unkym34Man  over a year ago

London

I’d just be happy to get winks and friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I accept friends requests when they are offline, fab their friends only pics then remove them as friends "

We do this too

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan  over a year ago

button moon

I delete random friend requests. They're only being nosey!!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl

Delete Delete

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I quite like winks..shows a bit of interest but random friends requests I don't accept ever..and don't delete because they are just left there in limbo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Delete Delete "

Wink

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By *airyChestedDaveMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve winked a few, no ones winked back or sent me any friend requests though.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"I don't delete the friend requests, because then they can't try again.. I just leave it

Winks, I very rarely look.. "

Doesn't matter... They can still send another one after a while whether you delete it or not. I haven't deleted mine in a while and just skimmed the list now to see the same names popping up every few weeks. I think it's the same as winks... They can only be sent once within 7/14 day period.

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By *isty286Couple  over a year ago

Dorset

When we get an unsolicited friend request, especially from couples with no photos or no friend only pics, we leave the request in place, maybe taking a look in about another 6 months, if there's new pics we might accept, if we don't like what we see we unfriend or delete, once they have made the request they can't undo it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I take no notice unless I'm chatting to someone & we are getting along

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By *irkydirkyMan  over a year ago

Stevenage


"Just wondering how and why these are used by others I only view my winks to bulk delete and same with friends request unless agreed in advance

Does this approach work ?"

Some like, some don’t..

It’s not a big deal to just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like receiving a wink.. it’s kinda flattering.

Random friend requests... I’ll most likely accept.

But only because I’m really nosey and want to see lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel like iv turned into a right grumpy bastard now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I’m a chicken shit I’ll send a wink rather then a first message

I never accept the random friends requests but I do look at the winks

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By *wo4FemCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham

We look at winks. We wink back if it's someone we like.

Mr2

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t add folk unless i’m going to meet them.

I don’t look at my winks at all.

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By *izzymonkeyMan  over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Surely it's a case of each to their own....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

We don't mind a wink if they have looked at our profile and fit with what we are after.

Random friends requests are always deleted or sometimes just left there,so they can't send another.

Miss

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