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over a year ago
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It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it  |
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over a year ago
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it "
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything? 
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement |
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over a year ago
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement"
Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.
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over a year ago
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement
Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.
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The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement
Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.
The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe. "
people in relationships cheat all the time, let's not be silly now. It's good you and your fwb trust each other, and I'm not saying it's happening to you, but it does happen.
Saying results are pointless because they're only for a snapshot of a one day window - ok, so what measure does anyone have of someone's cleanliness? Basically it all boils down to trust - and your own judgement that you can have faith in the other person.
It's just tiring that a good portion of this website slings shit on another good portion, week in week out, for their sexual practices and preferences, more often than not out of stigma, fear, and judgement. It would be nice to change the narrative is all. |
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement
Ever been in a relationship? If so, did you ever decide to go bare? What was the reason for that? Was it trust perhaps? If you've exchanged clear results, talked for a while, and you get a good vibe, how is that different from your relationship, save perhaps the length of time you've known someone? Good judgement is not barebacking a random you just met in an alley. You can say it's luck but you could say everything in life is down to chance in that sense.
The results are only valid for that day they are taken and to be honest you could have contacted something the day before and it would still come up clear. In a relationship it's different, they are not fucking other people bare too. I go bare with my fwb but we only go bare with each other and even then I still get tested regularly. I do trust him 100% but no sex is 100% safe.
people in relationships cheat all the time, let's not be silly now. It's good you and your fwb trust each other, and I'm not saying it's happening to you, but it does happen.
Saying results are pointless because they're only for a snapshot of a one day window - ok, so what measure does anyone have of someone's cleanliness? Basically it all boils down to trust - and your own judgement that you can have faith in the other person.
It's just tiring that a good portion of this website slings shit on another good portion, week in week out, for their sexual practices and preferences, more often than not out of stigma, fear, and judgement. It would be nice to change the narrative is all."
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it
How does good judgement work? Urm that one's looks clean there is no way they have anything?
If you have been doing it years and not contracted an STI, it's called luck rather than judgement"
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It does feel a lot better without a condom which is why I had a vasectomy. However, Hannah and I would only go bareback with each other. If we met anybody from here it would be protected. It's conceivable we would have enough trust with a third party but I doubt it even if we knew them very well. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Im guessing the op likes bareback but is happy to have safe sex when his partner does. I list anal as an interest, doesn't mean I want it every time. I think the majority would agree bareback feels better, practicalities aside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own really, if one person prefers and wants to go bareback, and the other doesn't its up to the person who wants bareback to respect the choice of the other surly. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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It’s a trust thing. I only dare bare with my regular fwb that I have been seeing for over a year. We both share our test results and are completely honest about what we get up to, well I am and so far he hasn’t given me any reason to doubt him. I don’t exactly trust easily either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im guessing the op likes bareback but is happy to have safe sex when his partner does. I list anal as an interest, doesn't mean I want it every time. I think the majority would agree bareback feels better, practicalities aside. "
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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We are all adults that make our own choices. I would choose not the have unprotected sex, not even with a special friend who says it’s only with me etc.
I’m responsible for myself so I wouldn’t hand that over to anyone else. |
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Doritos launched a new bag where the chips can be mild, medium or hot. You can only tell when you eat them which one is hot and blows your head off. This is a bit like random sex with strangers without protection. If the hot one did you harm would you still eat the packet. I prefer the term Russian Roulette. It's the same principle.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doritos launched a new bag where the chips can be mild, medium or hot. You can only tell when you eat them which one is hot and blows your head off. This is a bit like random sex with strangers without protection. If the hot one did you harm would you still eat the packet. I prefer the term Russian Roulette. It's the same principle. "
Terrible metaphor. The odds of Russian roulette are 1:6; can anyone actually statistically quantify the risk of contracting a fatal illness from bareback sex? This is disregarding how manageable HIV is these days (not saying that it's a non issue, just that it isn't a death sentence like a bullet), let alone the transmission rates for most sti's between hetero partners is actually quite low.
I'm not advocating that people never using protection, but jesus some people doom-monger |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing. Despite the self-proclaimed medical experts that like to get on the moral high horse everyone these things pop up, with good judgement and a commitment to regular testing the risks of bareback are minimal. Been doing it for years and not a single issue. Gotta love it "
Surely, your not that stupid to say the risk is minimal if you have good judgement and go for testing! Testing is to see if you have an STD, and if you do you get treatment. Your judgement would never know if a person has any STD'S, how could it? Most STD'S have no symptoms. A man your your age should know this. You honestly sound so stupid its shocking. You have just shown FAB how shocking your judgement is. |
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Many of the infections are increasingly resistant to treatment. Gonorrea, Chlamydia and an emerging one where unsafe anal takes place leaving weeping sores in your anus which again is resistant to anti biotics. A leading charity claims that in men's saunas one in six people have undiagnosed HIV.
The treatment is not the only issue it's the drain on the NHS.
One in Six. Maybe the Russian Roulette metaphor is not so silly |
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"Many of the infections are increasingly resistant to treatment. Gonorrea, Chlamydia and an emerging one where unsafe anal takes place leaving weeping sores in your anus which again is resistant to anti biotics. A leading charity claims that in men's saunas one in six people have undiagnosed HIV.
The treatment is not the only issue it's the drain on the NHS.
One in Six. Maybe the Russian Roulette metaphor is not so silly "
Interesting claim. But if undiagnosed then it's not really empirical evidence, is it. |
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I don't mind if they have a bare back or not to be fair....its quite nice sometimes to have a bit of artistry to stare at whilst one is pounding away from behind....even if it is just a tramp stamp......
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Just read information from the Terrence Higgins Trust site. The increase in STIs year on year is staggering and the cost over 5 years is something like 700 million. Interestingly there is more prelevance amongst certain racial groups and gay and bisexual groups.. and the rise in syphillis is alarming..
There is literally an exponential growth in infection. At least be informed before making choices..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bareback feels better and if the risks are managed by everyone involved by having regular sti tests it can be safer fun. But no sex is 100 per cent safe.
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I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking |
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"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking"
Hope you don't run red lights |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking"
Yep.
Informed choices.
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"I've been barebacking for years get tested monthly it reels so good esplicly after muiltyable fucks and its dripping out and on a few occasions I've had the female partners lick my cunt clean after yes the risk is there but then so is turning out of your drive every day you go to work life is made around risk taking
Yep.
Informed choices.
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Lives revolved around risk taking tend to be short... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a problem with the girth of my cock
It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback
I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun
I've never had a STI
So there you go
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"Delicious
I have a problem with the girth of my cock
It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback
I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun
I've never had a STI
So there you go
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modest to boot...... |
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"Delicious
I have a problem with the girth of my cock
It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback
I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun
I've never had a STI
So there you go
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For starters you're not that big going by photos king size at a push. Can even get super king size from the clinics which is practically same size as a femidom. There's also other condom brands and even ones who will custom make condoms tailored to your cock.
It's just an excuse
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"Delicious
I have a problem with the girth of my cock
It's big , very big , and when I get hard even the biggest condoms on the market just fly off after I start fucking, so I have to go bareback
I get tested and Touchwood, pardon the pun
I've never had a STI
So there you go
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Go to theyfitdotcom. They do custom sizes at least as thick as yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She has a really tiny hand
Xxxx
Lol
She isn't gob almighty though. I've had cocks i could barely get in my mouth yet they wore condoms.
That's over 7 inches girth. You can get condoms to fit
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Ok
Leave me alone now I'm getting a cock complex
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By (user no longer on site)
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She has a really tiny hand
Xxxx
Lol
She isn't gob almighty though. I've had cocks i could barely get in my mouth yet they wore condoms.
That's over 7 inches girth. You can get condoms to fit
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Yea and but well
She has a tiny face as well
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I don't think there's any doubt that BB "feels" better.
Gloving up can sometimes spoil the mood of the moment.
It can also lead to Mr Droop.
Know the risks, make your choices.
Live with the consequences of uninformed and poorly thought out choices. |
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"I haven't spoken to one person in my life who actually prefers safe sex over bareback.
Who knows, maybe there are very few who have a latex fetish.
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Couldn’t have said this better - but I value my health waaaaaaay more! No glove no love! |
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