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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it outdated to give a couple a present instead of money? If say they are together a long time and well set up in their own home? Would you rather a present or money? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends, if they have a wedding list then I'd prefer to buy something from that but if not I'd give cash or vouchers, especially if they already had a home together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends, if they have a wedding list then I'd prefer to buy something from that but if not I'd give cash or vouchers, especially if they already had a home together. "
No list at all. Was think a meal voucher and some money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like presents and I'd probably buy a present if I was sure they'd like it and it wouldn't just go to waste. If they wanted money though I'd give that instead! |
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If a gift is from the heart and is something thoughtful and shows insight into their tastes and needs, I think anyone ould be thrilled. But if you're just buying something for the sake of buying it and aren't even sure it's what they would like or want, they'd probably prefer the money.
Don't most folk do wishlists and registries anyway for wedding gifts to give guests guidelines? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If a gift is from the heart and is something thoughtful and shows insight into their tastes and needs, I think anyone ould be thrilled. But if you're just buying something for the sake of buying it and aren't even sure it's what they would like or want, they'd probably prefer the money.
Don't most folk do wishlists and registries anyway for wedding gifts to give guests guidelines? "
Not here no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My bestie got married last weekend her and her fella are pretty much set up so I bought her a pamper session in a spa a couple of days before hand.
She loved it |
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"My bestie got married last weekend her and her fella are pretty much set up so I bought her a pamper session in a spa a couple of days before hand.
She loved it "
Sounds lovely
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they haven't asked for money where are they going on honeymoon? Could you book them a excursion or a massage on the trip?"
Not a bad idea actually
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