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Do you think females can be as sexually free as males?
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By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago
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In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex? |
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over a year ago
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I like to think so, although I do think women get judged more than men.
Nature of the beast as wank as that is.
It may be an unpopular opinion, but there are in some cases I believe those who struggle with perhaps self image or mental health and use sex as a distraction almost becoming an addiction or obsession, rather than for their natural enjoyment of sex. These are the ones I generally find get labelled and have seen it a few times.
A little like me with biscuits, I like a biscuit and don't have them that often but I do realise that if I'm clamming a packet a day it's not because I'm enjoying them, it's because I'm comfort eating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately I think women are still judged for their sexual appetite in the real world.
Slags, slut, whore, local bike spring to mind... Would shag her, but wouldn't want her as my girlfriend /Mrs /other half.. Attitude.
Where it seems acceptable for men somehow?
Not sure if it will ever change?
I'll get back to my chair in the corner.... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to think so, although I do think women get judged more than men.
Nature of the beast as wank as that is.
It may be an unpopular opinion, but there are in some cases I believe those who struggle with perhaps self image or mental health and use sex as a distraction almost becoming an addiction or obsession, rather than for their natural enjoyment of sex. These are the ones I generally find get labelled and have seen it a few times.
A little like me with biscuits, I like a biscuit and don't have them that often but I do realise that if I'm clamming a packet a day it's not because I'm enjoying them, it's because I'm comfort eating.
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This very much so  as someone who has has mental health problems in the past I’m very aware of when I’m genuinely having fun or in a bad place and potentially making irrational decisions, I’d like to think I have the intellectual maturity to spot these occurrences and generally I do and can happily socialise and steer clear of getting on the horse for all the wrong reasons but I see it so often when you just wanna scream at folk and say get off dab and take some time out because you’re soooooo not enjoying this and your behaviour is not normal in any way shape or form, men are just as guilty and the amount of for want of better word stalkers and psychos on here that are exactly that damaged and have mental health issues screaming out for attention in all the wrong ways I just wanna give them a good slap and a cuddle and tell them to find other avenues to pursue |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex? "
It beggars belief that women in this day and age are still being judged by their actions and it’s normally other women that make this judgment.
I was once called, ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ at the age of 40 by my 28 year old sister, because her husband couldn’t take his eyes off my chest. I was wearing a top showing a little cleavage (about half an inch) and jeans with no makeup, whilst playing a game of cards with 3 other adults. Never did she tell her husband off. Once again, a women is responsible for other people’s actions. 
I wonder what they would say if they knew what I get up to now!  |
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex?
It beggars belief that women in this day and age are still being judged by their actions and it’s normally other women that make this judgment.
I was once called, ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ at the age of 40 by my 28 year old sister, because her husband couldn’t take his eyes off my chest. I was wearing a top showing a little cleavage (about half an inch) and jeans with no makeup, whilst playing a game of cards with 3 other adults. Never did she tell her husband off. Once again, a women is responsible for other people’s actions.
I wonder what they would say if they knew what I get up to now! "
My sister couldn't refrain herself for telling me that my top was very low cut! It showed off my cleavage yes but in a classy way.... My norks certainly weren't hanging out.
The amusing thing was everyone else commented on how lovely I looked in it...
Seems we both have a jealous sister lol
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I think they can, society is becoming more sexually liberated, in part thanks to the internet and spread of sex education in my opinion but people will still judge women behind their backs.
I've pulled people up on it before when they've commented on women they didn't know I knew well. The norm is a look of surprise and confusion, and then an inability to explain why they thought said person was a slut |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex?
It beggars belief that women in this day and age are still being judged by their actions and it’s normally other women that make this judgment.
I was once called, ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ at the age of 40 by my 28 year old sister, because her husband couldn’t take his eyes off my chest. I was wearing a top showing a little cleavage (about half an inch) and jeans with no makeup, whilst playing a game of cards with 3 other adults. Never did she tell her husband off. Once again, a women is responsible for other people’s actions.
I wonder what they would say if they knew what I get up to now!
My sister couldn't refrain herself for telling me that my top was very low cut! It showed off my cleavage yes but in a classy way.... My norks certainly weren't hanging out.
The amusing thing was everyone else commented on how lovely I looked in it...
Seems we both have a jealous sister lol
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Probably and it’s along story. The thing is, when I said that wasn’t a nice thing to say, my mother piped up and said, ‘He can’t put his eyes anywhere else’. A long story, but my mother and sister are thick as thieves.
Ah well. Families. |
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"Unfortunately I think women are still judged for their sexual appetite in the real world.
Slags, slut, whore, local bike spring to mind... Would shag her, but wouldn't want her as my girlfriend /Mrs /other half.. Attitude.
Where it seems acceptable for men somehow?
Not sure if it will ever change?
I'll get back to my chair in the corner.... X "
Sadly absolutely true.
Things have changed/improved a little bit but there's still a huge difference in attitudes between male and female sexuality.
Still double standards that need to be challenged.
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex? "
Would like to say a respect the individual to do as they wish with their life go have fun.. |
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex?
It beggars belief that women in this day and age are still being judged by their actions and it’s normally other women that make this judgment.
I was once called, ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ at the age of 40 by my 28 year old sister, because her husband couldn’t take his eyes off my chest. I was wearing a top showing a little cleavage (about half an inch) and jeans with no makeup, whilst playing a game of cards with 3 other adults. Never did she tell her husband off. Once again, a women is responsible for other people’s actions.
I wonder what they would say if they knew what I get up to now!
My sister couldn't refrain herself for telling me that my top was very low cut! It showed off my cleavage yes but in a classy way.... My norks certainly weren't hanging out.
The amusing thing was everyone else commented on how lovely I looked in it...
Seems we both have a jealous sister lol
Probably and it’s along story. The thing is, when I said that wasn’t a nice thing to say, my mother piped up and said, ‘He can’t put his eyes anywhere else’. A long story, but my mother and sister are thick as thieves.
Ah well. Families. "
I'd of been tempted to say....
"he could just try looking at the cards"
Or
"Maybe he's trying to see if I've a card down my top"
Families indeed...
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I (Luke) have loads of respect for a woman who wants something different to what polite society says they should want and goes out to get it. Sadly we live in a judgemental world and many people (men and women) feel it warrants trying to shame people for (especially women).
I wonder if we'll ever get to a stage where having multiple partners (simultaneously or one by one) will be perfectly acceptable for singles and couples and just be viewed as a choice people are entitled to make without criticism. Will it ever be the norm for people to show their faces on here? I can't see that happening any time soon. |
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"In the real world I’ve recently heard a female being called a bike for having sex with a few different men. I did pull the people up on their use of that word and questioned why we can’t have sex with multiple people without it being seen as a bad thing.
Has the world moved on or are we still judged differently to the opposite sex?
It beggars belief that women in this day and age are still being judged by their actions and it’s normally other women that make this judgment.
I was once called, ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ at the age of 40 by my 28 year old sister, because her husband couldn’t take his eyes off my chest. I was wearing a top showing a little cleavage (about half an inch) and jeans with no makeup, whilst playing a game of cards with 3 other adults. Never did she tell her husband off. Once again, a women is responsible for other people’s actions.
I wonder what they would say if they knew what I get up to now!
My sister couldn't refrain herself for telling me that my top was very low cut! It showed off my cleavage yes but in a classy way.... My norks certainly weren't hanging out.
The amusing thing was everyone else commented on how lovely I looked in it...
Seems we both have a jealous sister lol
Probably and it’s along story. The thing is, when I said that wasn’t a nice thing to say, my mother piped up and said, ‘He can’t put his eyes anywhere else’. A long story, but my mother and sister are thick as thieves.
Ah well. Families.
I'd of been tempted to say....
"he could just try looking at the cards"
Or
"Maybe he's trying to see if I've a card down my top"
Families indeed...
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Aye jealousy rearing it’s ugly head, clearly the Hubbie wasn’t thinking it was distasteful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Name calling aside, they already must be.
Let's face it, ignoring all the not-inconsiderable options in terms of homosexuality etc etc, all the horny men having sex must be doing it with someone.
So logically women must already be just as rampant as men surely? Sex is a game for two players (ish) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly think it is better now than it has ever been and we are probably more open about sex than ever before. I do still think there are too many people around who think that sleeping with a lot of men must mean you're a tramp. But, fuck them sexist assholes because you'll never change their mind! |
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