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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a little scoundrel. Or would be, given a chance.
Whatever my justification (and I believe I have fair cause), no doubt what I'm here for would be identified as cheating, if it came to pass.
Maybe that's why I'm getting no luck - the universe is acting to save me from myself. |
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I didn't mean the OP should tell the wife, or go guns blazing and raise hell but an anonymous txt or letter would have the same effect.
I just feel for the woman (Ive been in her shoes and no one bothered telling me) she might be clueless. Believe me Id rather know and go through the pain than waste any more time.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't mean the OP should tell the wife, or go guns blazing and raise hell but an anonymous txt or letter would have the same effect.
I just feel for the woman (Ive been in her shoes and no one bothered telling me) she might be clueless. Believe me Id rather know and go through the pain than waste any more time.... "
i told no wives any such thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
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clearly your too full of rage at the minute to make a decision for the best take a couple days and re read your thread |
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
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I didn’t say you were one I said you were acting like one and we were trying to stop that behaviour  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
I didn’t say you were one I said you were acting like one and we were trying to stop that behaviour "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I should point out my comments on the other thread were tongue in cheek. This is a general disclaimer that I like to roll out in the event that I could end up in trouble.
Thanks for listening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I should point out my comments on the other thread were tongue in cheek. This is a general disclaimer that I like to roll out in the event that I could end up in trouble.
Thanks for listening. "
 too much elm street |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OH DEAR.....this looks like its quickly going to spiral into chaos and name calling....lets all relax, take feel breathes and gently touch each other intimately.....   "
no no no grumpiness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
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Have you heard from him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
Have you heard from him?"
Yeah this morning, said he would call me I told him not to bother I wasn’t interested and he best be honest with her.
If he calls I will decline, I don’t want to talk to him he knows I’m angry I don’t want him to hear the hurt in my voice or give him the satisfaction if I get upset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
Have you heard from him?
Yeah this morning, said he would call me I told him not to bother I wasn’t interested and he best be honest with her.
If he calls I will decline, I don’t want to talk to him he knows I’m angry I don’t want him to hear the hurt in my voice or give him the satisfaction if I get upset. "
im sorry youve been put in this situation.
i was living with my cheater when i found out he was married! (squaddie - wife still in germany while he posted to UK)
be kind to yourself, take your time, be angry and when you've calmed down think about your next move
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what a lovely bunch you lot were.....
I’m now being called a crazy petulant bitch nice.........
I asked for advice which I took onboard and rightly so I’m hurt and angry my future has just been shattered. Thank you so much for those blaming me for the situation and calling me names it says a great deal about you as people.
And to those few have sent pvt msgs especially one very nice lady thanks for your support and genuine honest advice it was very much appreciated.
Have you heard from him?
Yeah this morning, said he would call me I told him not to bother I wasn’t interested and he best be honest with her.
If he calls I will decline, I don’t want to talk to him he knows I’m angry I don’t want him to hear the hurt in my voice or give him the satisfaction if I get upset. "
Good for you. 
Hope he doesn't call you. Probably best to not answer anyway in case his wife has found out and it's her calling you..  |
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I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R"
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R"
Adults don't take revenge. |
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue"
Yeah it is, but it doesn't punish anyone but the guy and it will give the wife ammo for her divorce if she wants one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue"
And it’s pretty shit finding out when your the so called person they are making plans for the future with too.
Both of us are innocent in his game he needs to grow a pair and admit it to her before someone else does. |
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
Adults don't take revenge."
Pfff yeah they do. And they can be just as ruthless to eachother as children can. |
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue
And it’s pretty shit finding out when your the so called person they are making plans for the future with too.
Both of us are innocent in his game he needs to grow a pair and admit it to her before someone else does. "
I am honestly so so sorry this has happened to you, and to anyone. Why ppl are so abject to eachother I would never know.
Thing is that you will get blamed for this sooner or later....and it breaks my heart and I think it's very unfair.
One can only think if you haven't of found out how long would it have lasted.
I'm sorry. I truly am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue
Yeah it is, but it doesn't punish anyone but the guy and it will give the wife ammo for her divorce if she wants one."
I have been the one to recieve that message and it was shit and didnt help in the slightest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue
And it’s pretty shit finding out when your the so called person they are making plans for the future with too.
Both of us are innocent in his game he needs to grow a pair and admit it to her before someone else does. "
Absolutely yes but its for him to do. |
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"I think the problem here is that the lady should have anonymity in telling, so....make a fake address on Yahoo, use a plug to hide your ip and email her all your conversations with your name, nic, pic blacked out.
You have your revenge and from a safe distance.
The decision is yours but I appreciate the need for revenge and I respect it. Ppl here are all nice and forgiving until it's you in the advocates office signing papers.
Give the lady a head start and ammunition to get that money in her divorce.
Everyone is an adult, including him, and cheating has its appeal and risks.
Maybe she knows and gets off on it, in any way u will be anonymous.
Respect
R
That still punishes the wife though. That is a pretty shitty message to recieve out of the blue"
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