We have success with messages, but currently struggling to get to the meet finally we got to have fun on Friday but we had a fair few last minute bails before that.

It’s so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is just a bit of fun only meet in clubs but love chatting on fab ...

So to chat yes sometimes.

Meet no but not looking to.

What is it you looking for and your definition of success."

I would feel it's a success if I had a reply

anything after that would be a bonus

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Yes, We just don't message that often anymore.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Yes, We just don't message that often anymore.

Socials & play meets we'd deem a success. Last one was a single newbie, moved the chat elsewhere & she left the site. Will be taking some pics on our next meet.

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

No to forum or non forum lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"This is just a bit of fun only meet in clubs but love chatting on fab ...

So to chat yes sometimes.

Meet no but not looking to.

What is it you looking for and your definition of success.

I would feel it's a success if I had a reply

anything after that would be a bonus "

Nice to see the bar set low...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest we don’t get hardly any messages from new people wether forum related or other means, like to think we’re pretty proactive on Fab

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF) over a year ago

PDI GRAN CANARIA

We don't send messages, as no need to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is just a bit of fun only meet in clubs but love chatting on fab ...

So to chat yes sometimes.

Meet no but not looking to.

What is it you looking for and your definition of success.

I would feel it's a success if I had a reply

anything after that would be a bonus

Nice to see the bar set low..."

If I set it any higher I doubt anyone would get over it. Thats how I feel anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Same as when I message people who are forum users.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never message first, ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Same as when I message people who are forum users."

Message me, I’ll reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you message people who are not forum users?

"
I do OK more often than not I get a reply rarely send introduction messages mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gosh, there are people beyond the forum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Gosh, there are people beyond the forum? "

Yes i venture out into the big wide open world sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely do, but when I do, yes.

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I don't get messages from anyone. Unless I message first.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Depends how you measure success, if you mean getting a reply then I'm on 100% success rate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's rare that I ever message first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not messaged someone first in a while .

Perhaps I'll do a search and give it a try sometime

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I’m more popular with men who don’t use the forum.

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

Rarely. I don't send many messages tbf but by and large they're not replied to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and no. I dont send so many messages anymore, but I do get messages from forumiters where we talk about different things and as well about forum subjects

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t know coz I’ve never messaged anyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Yes. I'm not presumptions and am always friendly and warm. I have many people message me about all kinds of things and don't assume that they all want to fuck me, so reply accordingly, if I'm not too busy. It seems most people are like that in reverse too.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I very rarely message people outside of the forums, and in fact can't remember the last time I did - however on the 6 occasions that I have, I got 5 replies - have also had non-forum users message me and not just blokes either.

I don't however tend to think of my use of the site in terms of being "successful" or not which to me suggests winning a prize - more in terms of does it meet my needs in however I choose to use it, and to that I can answer an unequivocal yes.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

I never actually message anyone... maybe I should try it and see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I don't message people first, from my experience it doesn't go well

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS over a year ago

Leeds

Yes. But that's because I never message first so I already know they are interested

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By *ikerdude2017Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Never

must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to yes now i ignore them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend not to message people who aren't forum users.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I don’t message first (unless they are unreal!) but yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've given up on messaging any other fab users.

Just message people off the forums now and again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get the odd chat but have only "met" one lady from the site. I live in hope there will be more

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By *etite HandfulWoman over a year ago

Chester

Nearly always yes but then I prefer to message first I don't see the point in only concentrating on people who message me first why limit yourself.

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By *averick20000Man over a year ago

Beverley

Very irregular to be fair

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"When you message people who are not forum users?

Of course! I’ve got a vagina though!

Tbh with all the gossiping, politics, bitching etc I find it far harder/more trouble to meet forumites!

A few I was chatting to with a view to meeting blocked me. I’m guessing the bullshit mill was operating in the background!

It used to bother me but it doesn’t now. I simply do my own thing with people who want to do it with me - and I’m more interested in friendship than sex these days!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"When you message people who are not forum users?

Yes. I've only met two single females and one couple as a direct result of using the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Success as in messaged back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Success as in messaged back? "

Yeah do they see it and reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Success as in messaged back?

Yeah do they see it and reply "

Yes, I've had a few conversations, nothing has concluded in a meet yet this time round on here.

I did have to turn one down the other morning though

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yes I have

Though in fairness it is easier to message someone you've seen from a distance on the forums as you can get a better idea of what they're like and that can facilitate contact.

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