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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes there is. It's something I'd absolutely love to try but I've not even brought it up with another because I think 1) They'd laugh/think how peculiar and 2) Maybe some things are better kept at fantasy? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes there is. It's something I'd absolutely love to try but I've not even brought it up with another because I think 1) They'd laugh/think how peculiar and 2) Maybe some things are better kept at fantasy? "
If you have a partner there's no reason not to bring it up, they might be into it as well. And to hell with them if they think less of you for it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did all the things I fantasised about years ago, yes I'm old.
Some should have stayed a fantasy! "
But wouldn't it have bugged you if you've never tried them?
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"I have a fantasy but it stays just that a fantasy I know I could never go through with it "
Hmm...now that just leaves us all intrigued...do tell!
My fantasy is to go sexy shopping with a woman, choosing what sexy things for each of us wear, go back, dress and undress each other and lots of fun (I love to lick lots!) Being bent over in heels stockings and plaid skirt, panties pulled to one side and fucked with a strap-on! |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I did all the things I fantasised about years ago, yes I'm old.
Some should have stayed a fantasy!
But wouldn't it have bugged you if you've never tried them?
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No buggery was not one of my fantasies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually many years ago me and the ex wife were away in a hotel, we were in the shower together and I was going down on her when she stopped me and said she needed a wee, I stopped, she got out of the shower for a wee and then we got back to it. I’ve often thought about that and wished I’d have carried in giving her oral and told her to just have her wee as I did. I’m not into that kind of thing but sometimes I just wish I’d have told her to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy but it stays just that a fantasy I know I could never go through with it
What is it  "
It's a group thing so I know although a fantasy it wouldn't be something I would do |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve tried what i wanted to. Now i’m just looking for good quality filthy sex. No pre planning, no talking about it for days beforehand, just getting naked and getting it on and seeing where the spontaneity takes us. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I would love to find a man who know how to speak to women and who I want to jump into a bed with! Sounds simple enough, but my god, the lack of conversational skills of late leave me hanging my head in my hands and my legs well and truly crossed! As they have been for at least the last two years, god help me, all I want is some decent sex with some decent good looking intelligent man my own age, talk about asking for a lot   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are lots of sexy scenario's I'd love to try but I've not been in the right place at the right time I should get out there more really I'd try anything legal."
There are definitely legal things you wouldn't want to try, trust me on that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy but it stays just that a fantasy I know I could never go through with it
Hmm...now that just leaves us all intrigued...do tell!
My fantasy is to go sexy shopping with a woman, choosing what sexy things for each of us wear, go back, dress and undress each other and lots of fun (I love to lick lots!) Being bent over in heels stockings and plaid skirt, panties pulled to one side and fucked with a strap-on!"
I don't think I could ever do that, the dressing up part  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did all the things I fantasised about years ago, yes I'm old.
Some should have stayed a fantasy!
But wouldn't it have bugged you if you've never tried them?
No buggery was not one of my fantasies! "
Really? I've always fantasized about a woman in a mugger mask! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually many years ago me and the ex wife were away in a hotel, we were in the shower together and I was going down on her when she stopped me and said she needed a wee, I stopped, she got out of the shower for a wee and then we got back to it. I’ve often thought about that and wished I’d have carried in giving her oral and told her to just have her wee as I did. I’m not into that kind of thing but sometimes I just wish I’d have told her to do it. "
Dirty bastard, I love it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a man who know how to speak to women and who I want to jump into a bed with! Sounds simple enough, but my god, the lack of conversational skills of late leave me hanging my head in my hands and my legs well and truly crossed! As they have been for at least the last two years, god help me, all I want is some decent sex with some decent good looking intelligent man my own age, talk about asking for a lot "
We're talking about fantasies here, not myths! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve tried what i wanted to. Now i’m just looking for good quality filthy sex. No pre planning, no talking about it for days beforehand, just getting naked and getting it on and seeing where the spontaneity takes us."
I want to be in that situation, but I feel like I discover something new I like every week. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves. "
So they're heavily trust based then? |
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?"
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MMF, MFF, FF...I think I will at some point but my main worry is that I don't like the reality as much as the fantasy and let the other person/people down. Pretty sure I would though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah - I think I've seen most of my fantasies in videos - they'll probably stay that way as well - I rarely meet anyone who is capable of fulfilling my two main ones lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a man who know how to speak to women and who I want to jump into a bed with! Sounds simple enough, but my god, the lack of conversational skills of late leave me hanging my head in my hands and my legs well and truly crossed! As they have been for at least the last two years, god help me, all I want is some decent sex with some decent good looking intelligent man my own age, talk about asking for a lot
We're talking about fantasies here, not myths!"
Hey it is my fantasy I am speaking about here.....it might happen! You never know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to "
I think that's the worry with most things. The worst part is that if you bring it up, they might say they like it just to please but if you don't bring it up they might like it but are also too shy to bring it up! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"MMF, MFF, FF...I think I will at some point but my main worry is that I don't like the reality as much as the fantasy and let the other person/people down. Pretty sure I would though "
Moresomes, more fun! Or at least in theory. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah - I think I've seen most of my fantasies in videos - they'll probably stay that way as well - I rarely meet anyone who is capable of fulfilling my two main ones lol"
Yup, finding someone is definitely most of the work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a man who know how to speak to women and who I want to jump into a bed with! Sounds simple enough, but my god, the lack of conversational skills of late leave me hanging my head in my hands and my legs well and truly crossed! As they have been for at least the last two years, god help me, all I want is some decent sex with some decent good looking intelligent man my own age, talk about asking for a lot
We're talking about fantasies here, not myths!
Hey it is my fantasy I am speaking about here.....it might happen! You never know "
I'll sooner have my reverse gangbang  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at it this way. Gay/Bi guys are like a 70/30 split bottom/top. Sexuality aside, there's a biological reason why that is - so long as you're warmed up properly, it's fucking amazing.
If you meet a lass who's up for pegging, take my advice - don't let any hangups get in your way.
Oh, and also take my advice - lube |
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Fantasies are only fantasies until you fulfil them.
Swinging gives everyone the opportunity to fulfil them if they want to. It all depends if they want to enough and are driven enough to make them happen.
I never had any fantasies to be honest as I have never been that driven or ambitious for things I felt out of my grasp.
I think I've always thought I'm luckier than many people who are worse off than me so I'm grateful for that, I suppose.
Since I started swinging I've done most things but don't really feel that there's anything I'd regret not having done if it ended tomorrow because I've done so much since I started that I had no idea that I'd be fortunate enough to do beforehand.
It would be nice to find a friend with benefits that I could share my funtimes with and enjoy the couples scene more fully than the ladies I have been FWBs with in the past but I don't fantasise about it and don't expect it to happen either.
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to
I think that's the worry with most things. The worst part is that if you bring it up, they might say they like it just to please but if you don't bring it up they might like it but are also too shy to bring it up!"
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
We get one life and only so many chances in life to do thing we want to so better to give things a go while you can than regret not trying things when you can no longer do them. |
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.  
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans "
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx "
That's a lot of F's, did you keyboard get stuck or something You would need a very very big bed for that!
Yes, a Dom lady and straight MMF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some things are better left a fantasy.
In your fantasy everything is perfect and in reality it would probably be nothing like you thought. "
You could be right... I have some particularly dirty/kinky ones but often wonder whether they are best left as fantasies... |
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to
I think that's the worry with most things. The worst part is that if you bring it up, they might say they like it just to please but if you don't bring it up they might like it but are also too shy to bring it up!
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
We get one life and only so many chances in life to do thing we want to so better to give things a go while you can than regret not trying things when you can no longer do them. "
Bloody hell, i'm not that old!
I've been on the scene almost 20 years, i'm not afraid to discuss or try new things...but experience has taught me that finding the right person is paramount |
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to
I think that's the worry with most things. The worst part is that if you bring it up, they might say they like it just to please but if you don't bring it up they might like it but are also too shy to bring it up!
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
We get one life and only so many chances in life to do thing we want to so better to give things a go while you can than regret not trying things when you can no longer do them.
Bloody hell, i'm not that old!
I've been on the scene almost 20 years, i'm not afraid to discuss or try new things...but experience has taught me that finding the right person is paramount "
I have to say I am so lucky to have enjoyed the experiences I have had in my three years on the scene.
There are still things I would like to try. If I trusted a lady enough to let them peg me I would but I know that a lot of ladies have had bad experiences from guys who didn't give a fuck when they took their anal cherry so it's not gonna happen any time soon.
I've had lots of ladies try to milk my prostate but no one has found it yet. I swear I've even looked on Google Maps for the fuckin thing and nothing.
I don't really fantasise about these things but they are on my to do list with DVP and DAP with the right couple. |
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"I have a couple of things left on my list...for me it's more about being certain of the other people involved, rather than the acts themselves.
So they're heavily trust based then?
To a certain extent, but it's more about me being certain that they're genuinely into it, not just doing it because I want to
I think that's the worry with most things. The worst part is that if you bring it up, they might say they like it just to please but if you don't bring it up they might like it but are also too shy to bring it up!
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
We get one life and only so many chances in life to do thing we want to so better to give things a go while you can than regret not trying things when you can no longer do them.
Bloody hell, i'm not that old!
I've been on the scene almost 20 years, i'm not afraid to discuss or try new things...but experience has taught me that finding the right person is paramount "
It's not an age thing really as none of us know what's round the corner for us at any age.
All I'm saying is don't let missed opportunities turn into regret. If you have a yearning and you get the chance then grab it. If you like it keep doing it. If you don't like it maybe give it a second go with someone else and see if you like it then. Life is for living at the end of the day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd like to try a gloryhole but I hate not knowing who's cock I will be playing with! And I guess that's what a glory hole is all about "
Choose 20 men, and have someone else pick 10 from those 20, that will make it random |
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx
That's a lot of F's, did you keyboard get stuck or something You would need a very very big bed for that!
Yes, a Dom lady and straight MMF"
Hahaha I was having an orgasm whilst I typed it. 
I'm sure you won't have any issues arranging that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx
That's a lot of F's, did you keyboard get stuck or something You would need a very very big bed for that!
Yes, a Dom lady and straight MMF
Hahaha I was having an orgasm whilst I typed it.
I'm sure you won't have any issues arranging that.
Jo.Xx "
Always horny, you are
I think I would have plenty of issues considering the amount of rules I would want in place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes theres plenty of things I fantasie about and the idea is to find a person who you can engage with to create these scenarios. "
And that is near impossible it would seem lol |
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx
That's a lot of F's, did you keyboard get stuck or something You would need a very very big bed for that!
Yes, a Dom lady and straight MMF
Hahaha I was having an orgasm whilst I typed it.
I'm sure you won't have any issues arranging that.
Jo.Xx
Always horny, you are
I think I would have plenty of issues considering the amount of rules I would want in place "
You know me so well!
I bet they are the same rules as any other straight male in this situation. You just need to find the right couple to click with.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I may have one or two or more!
You can't really put a limit on these things.
Jo.Xx
Spill the beans
To have a Fffffffffffffffffffffm!
I would feel guilty if all the Women didn't get satisfied so it will most likely stay a fantasy.
I would like the pleasure of another Man's cock in my mouth.
The thought of a MMF is extremely horny and we have talked about doing it whilst fucking. But the reality is it will remain a fantasy until I'm 100% comfortable with the idea.
Group fun is also something I would like to experience.
I must admit when I see other people's fantasies my mind starts to run through the scenario and if it tickles my fancy then it will be added to the list.
Do you have any OP?
Jo.Xx
That's a lot of F's, did you keyboard get stuck or something You would need a very very big bed for that!
Yes, a Dom lady and straight MMF
Hahaha I was having an orgasm whilst I typed it.
I'm sure you won't have any issues arranging that.
Jo.Xx
Always horny, you are
I think I would have plenty of issues considering the amount of rules I would want in place
You know me so well!
I bet they are the same rules as any other straight male in this situation. You just need to find the right couple to click with.
Jo.Xx "
I know but that's the case for any fantasy, finding that person/couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of my fantasies but it is on my sex bucket list, MFM.
Mmmmmmm yes please xx"
Would more than gladly offer myself for this.. gorgeous lady |
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