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over a year ago
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Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?
Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.
Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.
Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company |
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I think you need to do what works for you. I'm not big into seduction, but I like getting on the same page with expectations. If I can't find people who are happy to make me comfortable, I stay home. |
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"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?
Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.
Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.
Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company "
Your Aim is bit higher  well it's not wrong but in my _iew, it shows four love and caring towards your partner, and I am sure he would love it. |
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Different occasions require different seductions. If my wife tries to cook me a nice meal when I get to her house in September, its going to burn while she is on the kitchen table naked and dishevelled. But the second day it would be great  |
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"I would prefer not to eat before sex to be honest, unless there's like a 2 hour rest period in-between  "
Sometimes I make a tasting menu which doesn't lay heavy on the stomach or we eat dessert after sex  |
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"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?
Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.
Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.
Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company "
At the risk of being cliche, "not all men" just want to plunge straight in. Your approach sounds perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?
Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.
Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.
Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company
Your Aim is bit higher well it's not wrong but in my _iew, it shows four love and caring towards your partner, and I am sure he would love it. "
Aiming high seems to increase the sexual tension as he hopefully can see my efforts |
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"Do you think women like to seduce men differently to set the scene for a meeting of debauchery?
Personally with my fwb, I like to cook something delicious, arouse his tastebuds. Converse over our current lives and lend a empathetic ear. Then indulge on good wine to feel inhibited.
Then an evening of teasing to build up to hedonistic sex.
Am I wasting my time as men just want to get to the act quicker? Personally I find it liberating to do all this, almost like foreplay and appreciation of the company
At the risk of being cliche, "not all men" just want to plunge straight in. Your approach sounds perfect."
Thank you. The careful planning of food and drinks is as important as deciding how we will fuck. It sets the scene |
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