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Married or taken .. does it really matter ?
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"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once." Well they got to learn to run a tight ship then  .. i dont agree with the partner contacting etc .. its not the participants fault is it ! | |||
"I'll not judge anyone "playing away" but personally I wouldn't meet anyone that was - too much potential for dramas. Everyone will be different however and we each follow our own moral compass when choosing who we meet." Yeah thats fair ... | |||
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"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " Many won't like the fact you're cheating but many others won't care, many will say clubs are best for you because they tend to cater for NSA more but having said that, someone for everyone here knock yourself out  | |||
"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once. Well they got to learn to run a tight ship then .. i dont agree with the partner contacting etc .. its not the participants fault is it ! "Unfortunately doesn't work like that...it's not their partner's fault either... | |||
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"Why work around someone when there are lots of single guys available to suit my needs. In my experience taken people are more likely to cause drama. "  My thoughts too. Plenty of singles on here. | |||
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"Frustrated men cum too quick. " I beg to differ | |||
"The fab meets i have had the most problems with have been single men. Saying that it's all about the person and how we get on and gut instinct!!! Everyone has a reason for being here and I'm not about start judging them for it
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"It just doesn't sit right with me and my karma. If I know that they are with somebody else I just don't feel comfortable about it as I would hate that to be done to me. That is completely separate to the drama that comes with the whole situation sometimes. I had a guy lied to me on here, of course that sadly is very normal, he said he was single, but his partner found a message, phoned me up and said she was leaving him now and taking their baby. I know people lie, cheat and hide the truth but if I am aware they are with somebody else then I just don't find it works the same for me mentally." thats a fair point ... though i know it wouldnt bother guys so much if it was the other way around .. wonder why there lol .. but theres cheats and then theres lost souls who happen to be in commitment .. there is a difference .. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " Totally agree. Much less chance of unhealthy attachments forming, I would have thought. Also much more incentive to be discreet hence less potential for dramas. | |||
"It just doesn't sit right with me and my karma. If I know that they are with somebody else I just don't feel comfortable about it as I would hate that to be done to me. That is completely separate to the drama that comes with the whole situation sometimes. I had a guy lied to me on here, of course that sadly is very normal, he said he was single, but his partner found a message, phoned me up and said she was leaving him now and taking their baby. I know people lie, cheat and hide the truth but if I am aware they are with somebody else then I just don't find it works the same for me mentally. thats a fair point ... though i know it wouldnt bother guys so much if it was the other way around .. wonder why there lol .. but theres cheats and then theres lost souls who happen to be in commitment .. there is a difference .. " My husband ran off with a whore behind my back. Still denies it to this day. Ruined me for awhile and now i don't believe in relationships so please think twice about cheating behind people's back | |||
"It just doesn't sit right with me and my karma. If I know that they are with somebody else I just don't feel comfortable about it as I would hate that to be done to me. That is completely separate to the drama that comes with the whole situation sometimes. I had a guy lied to me on here, of course that sadly is very normal, he said he was single, but his partner found a message, phoned me up and said she was leaving him now and taking their baby. I know people lie, cheat and hide the truth but if I am aware they are with somebody else then I just don't find it works the same for me mentally. thats a fair point ... though i know it wouldnt bother guys so much if it was the other way around .. wonder why there lol .. but theres cheats and then theres lost souls who happen to be in commitment .. there is a difference .. My husband ran off with a whore behind my back. Still denies it to this day. Ruined me for awhile and now i don't believe in relationships so please think twice about cheating behind people's back " I hear you .... but whats a guy to do when they get nothing from there partner in the connection sense but cannot leave .. married women have affairs all the time .. but when a guy does it hes labelled ? | |||
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"It just doesn't sit right with me and my karma. If I know that they are with somebody else I just don't feel comfortable about it as I would hate that to be done to me. That is completely separate to the drama that comes with the whole situation sometimes. I had a guy lied to me on here, of course that sadly is very normal, he said he was single, but his partner found a message, phoned me up and said she was leaving him now and taking their baby. I know people lie, cheat and hide the truth but if I am aware they are with somebody else then I just don't find it works the same for me mentally. thats a fair point ... though i know it wouldnt bother guys so much if it was the other way around .. wonder why there lol .. but theres cheats and then theres lost souls who happen to be in commitment .. there is a difference .. My husband ran off with a whore behind my back. Still denies it to this day. Ruined me for awhile and now i don't believe in relationships so please think twice about cheating behind people's back I hear you .... but whats a guy to do when they get nothing from there partner in the connection sense but cannot leave .. married women have affairs all the time .. but when a guy does it hes labelled ? " Discuss and go counselling etc or seperate then sleep around. Don't go behind people's back and pretend you're doing nothing. Its deciet which is not acceptable in a marriage | |||
"There are enough liberated couples and singles around the scene not to have to deal with the potential hassle of people who play without their long term partner knowing." Exactly be open to your partner if you want to sleep with other people. Its the deception more than the act that's immoral | |||
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"It just doesn't sit right with me and my karma. If I know that they are with somebody else I just don't feel comfortable about it as I would hate that to be done to me. That is completely separate to the drama that comes with the whole situation sometimes. I had a guy lied to me on here, of course that sadly is very normal, he said he was single, but his partner found a message, phoned me up and said she was leaving him now and taking their baby. I know people lie, cheat and hide the truth but if I am aware they are with somebody else then I just don't find it works the same for me mentally. thats a fair point ... though i know it wouldnt bother guys so much if it was the other way around .. wonder why there lol .. but theres cheats and then theres lost souls who happen to be in commitment .. there is a difference .. My husband ran off with a whore behind my back. Still denies it to this day. Ruined me for awhile and now i don't believe in relationships so please think twice about cheating behind people's back I hear you .... but whats a guy to do when they get nothing from there partner in the connection sense but cannot leave .. married women have affairs all the time .. but when a guy does it hes labelled ? Discuss and go counselling etc or seperate then sleep around. Don't go behind people's back and pretend you're doing nothing. Its deciet which is not acceptable in a marriage " im not here for advice darling ... or to be judged .. everyone has their reasons ... just wanted to see the general opinion with that i respect yours ... | |||
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"It doesn't bother me unless I was hoping for more than NS fun. I met a girl once in a nightclub, she was with her boyfriends friend while her boyfriend was at home babysitting. She invited me back to hers and the friend said that I was just to pretend that I was his mate. Anyway went back to hers, her bf was sleeping, then we both cuddled up on the couch. The bf woke up and came in the living room, I removed my arm, made my excuses and left. The boyfriend didn't even say anything other than "who's this?" " Who this  .. | |||
"Does it really matter to who? " To the people in general .. | |||
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"So putting the debate of morals to one side for a minute. While I can see how genuine singles males bring less complications, how many of the single or even “couples” profiles truly genuine? From what I hear there are many many guys lying and hiding behind a fake profile/s. Therefore is not a case of “better the devil you know” when you have a male being honest about their relationship status? Surely a guy who has been honest about their situation is more likely to be honest with you and ref meets with you know where you stand? I know I know, I’m questioning the benefits of someone being honest on a Fab profile who perhaps isn’t being honest at home, but that’s another debate all together." exactly pal .. i totally agree .. most guys hide behind that single status when in reality they are not .. can see someone will say why not be honest with your partner then ... maybe because we all know what this site is designed for and why were here .. not for tickles .. | |||
"So putting the debate of morals to one side for a minute. While I can see how genuine singles males bring less complications, how many of the single or even “couples” profiles truly genuine? From what I hear there are many many guys lying and hiding behind a fake profile/s. Therefore is not a case of “better the devil you know” when you have a male being honest about their relationship status? Surely a guy who has been honest about their situation is more likely to be honest with you and ref meets with you know where you stand? I know I know, I’m questioning the benefits of someone being honest on a Fab profile who perhaps isn’t being honest at home, but that’s another debate all together. exactly pal .. i totally agree .. most guys hide behind that single status when in reality they are not .. can see someone will say why not be honest with your partner then ... maybe because we all know what this site is designed for and why were here .. not for tickles .. "I don't see the point in not being honest on this site. Fair enough if you're on a normal dating site and you're trying to play away, but not on a site like this where people of all orientations can come to play | |||
"Does it really matter to who? To the people in general .. " Then no, it doesn't really matter. It might matter to individuals though | |||
"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once. Well they got to learn to run a tight ship then .. i dont agree with the partner contacting etc .. its not the participants fault is it ! "Rightly or wrongly if you are messing with a married in general their partner will see you as more the instigator & the bigger wrongdoer. It's easier to be blinkered to the truth than deal with it head on so to speak. It takes two to tango as they say. S | |||
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"Life is complicated enough: why compound it if you don't have to? With limited time why waste it on someone who has to clock watch, cancel last minute etc. It's when one playmate bought me shower gel and perfume, his wife's brand so as not to leave a scent trail I decided to not meet married men. I don't play nice, so those trying to get through my net exclude themselves when they realise what's in store for them. "the not playing nice made me smile as I'd like to see them explain that away | |||
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"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves. "Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke. | |||
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"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves. "The guy I’m meeting is definitely single. Not all are doing the same. The last 3 guys I was seeing were single too. I think spending 2-3 times a week between each other’s places and being introduced to each other’s friends etc would be hard to hide anyone. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke."It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone. | |||
"So I take a different _iew. I'm married he knows I'm here. I prefer to meet attached men. The reason for this is because I like regular meets. It's safer If he's attached too. My fwb is married I see him almost every week and have done so for almost 10 months. Feelings develop naturally. With a single guy that would be detrimental to my own marriage so for selfish reasons attached men are better for me." I think that is fair and safer for your respective relationships but the potential is also there for 3 relationships to be lost. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone. "Once you've been single for a long time you learn the behaviours of married/ attached people there is definitely a lot of patterns they follow. Of course over the years I've fallen down the holes a few times so learnt from experience. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke."It is actually pretty easy. | |||
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"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone. "I agree, if I'm meeting someone regularly I'll go to their house, spend the night there, go out with them in public, all the things attached men can't do, and that's why i prefer single men. Its actually quite easy to tell who's attached and who isn't. | |||
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"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once." This...ive had this and more..nearly ended up in court..not funny at all..i didnt know he was attached at the time. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " Jeez, where to start... 1) They lie, a lot.. e.g One day they are 32, the next 39 
2) You become 3rd in the scenario
3) Partners normally go bat shit crazy when found out and 4/5 times you’ll be stuck in it somewhere
4) They ALWAYS find out you’re a cheating piece of shit
5) what suits you never matters
6) I have my reasons just means greed, not a nice trait..
7) they lie, a lot... so what else are they hiding
I was gonna go with bullet points but figured numbers was better.. thoughts? | |||
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"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once. Well they got to learn to run a tight ship then .. i dont agree with the partner contacting etc .. its not the participants fault is it !
Unfortunately doesn't work like that...it's not their partner's fault either..."Eileen is on point! | |||
"Yes it matters to the ones it matters too. " Booooom there it is! Every single time with the one line specials. So true! | |||
"Yes it matters to the ones it matters too. Booooom there it is! Every single time with the one line specials. So true!" Simple but true. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Jeez, where to start... 1) They lie, a lot.. e.g One day they are 32, the next 39
2) You become 3rd in the scenario
3) Partners normally go bat shit crazy when found out and 4/5 times you’ll be stuck in it somewhere
4) They ALWAYS find out you’re a cheating piece of shit
5) what suits you never matters
6) I have my reasons just means greed, not a nice trait..
7) they lie, a lot... so what else are they hiding
I was gonna go with bullet points but figured numbers was better.. thoughts? "See your a bitch pal .. what i do has no concern to you .. you’ve been on my profile with fine toothed comb you gimp .. highlighting this and that .. when you know nothing .. stick to the topic and not directs at me .. you bellend | |||
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"So putting the debate of morals to one side for a minute. While I can see how genuine singles males bring less complications, how many of the single or even “couples” profiles truly genuine? From what I hear there are many many guys lying and hiding behind a fake profile/s. Therefore is not a case of “better the devil you know” when you have a male being honest about their relationship status? Surely a guy who has been honest about their situation is more likely to be honest with you and ref meets with you know where you stand? I know I know, I’m questioning the benefits of someone being honest on a Fab profile who perhaps isn’t being honest at home, but that’s another debate all together." You expect someone being dishonest with their spouse to be honest with a casual fuck? Seriously?!!  | |||
"No, I’ll fuck anyone "Tart! | |||
"I wasn't sure if I should post in this little, "debate" but I think I'll put my two pence worth in. Yeah I'm a cheater. Read my profile it's all there in black and white. I'm on here and my partner doesn't know. Judge me if you want, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I'm not going to bore you with why I cheat or how my life is going, but I cheat and I've got my reasons. The reason I joined here was to hopefully find someone who is in the same boat as myself. I am open and honest in my profile about why I'm on here and its actually good to see on women's profiles that they make it clear they're not interested in attached guys, that's fine, each to their own, i honestly get why you'd give us " cheaters" a wide berth, certainly makes it a lot easier for everyone. Since I joined, i have met a woman who lives near me and she is married, and she, like me made it clear why she was here. We chatted online for a couple of weeks, getting to know each other. We've since met four times and it's been pretty amazing. Afterwards we both go back to our own lives until our next meet. Yes there's lying, yes theres deceit on both parts and yeah it is difficult trying to arrange hook ups around our busy family lives, but at least we're honest with each other. What really dumbfound me is while reading this thread, I'm finding out there are people on here who claim to be single but in reality they're married or attached ? Wtf ? At the end of the day, I'd rather meet someone who was upfront and honest about their situation than someone who deceives both partner and lover. The last woman I had an affair with, who was single by the way, came online specifically looking for a married guy. When I asked her why she would rather date a married guy, her answer was, I'm sick to death of all the hurt and lies that single guys have brought over the years. " lol well you're exonerated then, you've admitted you lie and you deceive but you're criticising those that lie and deceive and that for most is the reason why people don't meet attached people and remember quite a few here are here because a partner cheated, I don't actually care if the woman I chose to meet is married that's for her conscience not mine but honesty in any form is not part of the equation | |||
"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once." Unknowingly been there too not nice situation to be in when you think your playing with a single guy | |||
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"There are 100 guys to every single lady on here. Of that 100 id say 75% are married or in a relationship. That's just my own opinion from messages i get on here. I never want to be the other woman so the "can't accomodate" is a bit of a giveaway. I understand people live at home, share with others etc. but again from previous experience it usually means paying away. " Can't accommodate could be for shared housing, living with a relative or friend, living with your child or if you're really promiscuous not wanting a trail of people coming to your door for neighbours to see, it means nothing just an assumption  | |||
"There are 100 guys to every single lady on here. Of that 100 id say 75% are married or in a relationship. That's just my own opinion from messages i get on here. I never want to be the other woman so the "can't accomodate" is a bit of a giveaway. I understand people live at home, share with others etc. but again from previous experience it usually means paying away. Can't accommodate could be for shared housing, living with a relative or friend, living with your child or if you're really promiscuous not wanting a trail of people coming to your door for neighbours to see, it means nothing just an assumption "That's what i said? But for most of means there's a partner at home. I didn't say all but i would guess at most. | |||
"There are 100 guys to every single lady on here. Of that 100 id say 75% are married or in a relationship. That's just my own opinion from messages i get on here. I never want to be the other woman so the "can't accomodate" is a bit of a giveaway. I understand people live at home, share with others etc. but again from previous experience it usually means paying away. Can't accommodate could be for shared housing, living with a relative or friend, living with your child or if you're really promiscuous not wanting a trail of people coming to your door for neighbours to see, it means nothing just an assumption
That's what i said?
But for most of means there's a partner at home. I didn't say all but i would guess at most. "well I kinda disagree in a nice way for the reasons I've said lol | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs" Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me  | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me "Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along..... | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along....."maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided .. | |||
"...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... " I don't find individuals have different standards for men and women. They either approve generally or they don't. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along.....
maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided .. "Who said it was ok for either sex? I didn't.... | |||
"It doesn't bother me unless I was hoping for more than NS fun. I met a girl once in a nightclub, she was with her boyfriends friend while her boyfriend was at home babysitting. She invited me back to hers and the friend said that I was just to pretend that I was his mate. Anyway went back to hers, her bf was sleeping, then we both cuddled up on the couch. The bf woke up and came in the living room, I removed my arm, made my excuses and left. The boyfriend didn't even say anything other than "who's this?" Who this .. "Did she reply; “Don’t know, it’s a new one on me.......” | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along.....
maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided .. "Nature prevails and you have to?? Hilarious.. so you married for sex??hahaha So one post you said you are picky and the previous one you say you have to compromise, see you can’t even keep up with your own lies at this stage.. | |||
"...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... I don't find individuals have different standards for men and women. They either approve generally or they don't. " | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " It does to some, it doesn't to others. Pretty much the same as many things on here! Mrs TMN | |||
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"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. " Not great if you're on the receiving end of your partner cheating, especially if they're cheating when you were working 2 part time jobs on top of a full time job to cloth, feed the family and keep the wolf from the door to pay the mortgage and bills. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Many won't like the fact you're cheating but many others won't care, many will say clubs are best for you because they tend to cater for NSA more but having said that, someone for everyone here knock yourself out "I’ve had far more success with private meets through Fab, than visiting clubs. The private meets I’ve had, have mostly been attached ladies looking for discreet nsa fun, but also couples looking for a guy to join them who won’t go shouting about it to his mates in the pub. Clubs never have very many single ladies in, and they usually have a crowd of men around them. Some of the couples I’ve met in clubs, one of the first questions they’ve asked me is; are you married? Followed by; does your wife know you’re here? Followed by; we’re looking for single guys, not cheats. But I’ve also met some great couples in clubs, who don’t ask any questions The beauty of Fab is, people can make their choice up front, and nobody has lost an evening | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Not great if you're on the receiving end of your partner cheating, especially if they're cheating when you were working 2 part time jobs on top of a full time job to cloth, feed the family and keep the wolf from the door to pay the mortgage and bills." And this is why I  you..... | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Many won't like the fact you're cheating but many others won't care, many will say clubs are best for you because they tend to cater for NSA more but having said that, someone for everyone here knock yourself out
I’ve had far more success with private meets through Fab, than visiting clubs. The private meets I’ve had, have mostly been attached ladies looking for discreet nsa fun, but also couples looking for a guy to join them who won’t go shouting about it to his mates in the pub. Clubs never have very many single ladies in, and they usually have a crowd of men around them. Some of the couples I’ve met in clubs, one of the first questions they’ve asked me is; are you married? Followed by; does your wife know you’re here? Followed by; we’re looking for single guys, not cheats. But I’ve also met some great couples in clubs, who don’t ask any questions The beauty of Fab is, people can make their choice up front, and nobody has lost an evening "really they've asked would say that's quite rare but I suppose occasionally they must, it's all about circumstances I used to meet a woman who's hubby had had an operation and couldn't get hard anymore even with tablets and had lost all desire for sex. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Not great if you're on the receiving end of your partner cheating, especially if they're cheating when you were working 2 part time jobs on top of a full time job to cloth, feed the family and keep the wolf from the door to pay the mortgage and bills. And this is why I you..... "I would say thanks but it's a sore point | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. Not great if you're on the receiving end of your partner cheating, especially if they're cheating when you were working 2 part time jobs on top of a full time job to cloth, feed the family and keep the wolf from the door to pay the mortgage and bills. And this is why I you.....
I would say thanks but it's a sore point "In person so much better....  | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone. "Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along.....
maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided ..
Who said it was ok for either sex? I didn't...."oh yes you diiiid | |||
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"In the clubs you don’t know if they are or not. Ive always took the stance for its complicated and not for me but have a regular meet who is. Yes, I judged a few years ago but then I looked at life as black n white. It’s not. With him, it’s uncomplicated; the irony! " see here you go a convert | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging."I like to spend lots of time with women I like doesn't mean it's a relationship | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along.....
maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided ..
Nature prevails and you have to?? Hilarious.. so you married for sex??hahaha
So one post you said you are picky and the previous one you say you have to compromise, see you can’t even keep up with your own lies at this stage.. "you still here ... mr moral high ground .. im picky who i choose .. .. i have to compromise meets .. its not that hard to understand pal .. but i see your trying throw shade around and when you started with directs ... go about your day without commenting on individuals .. no fucks given what you think anyway .. | |||
"So as the title says .. most peeps say that married or taken is complicated ? How ? in what way ? .. meets might be awkward but can be worked around .. but IMO these types are best for no stings no dramas or complications .. and the meets could be wild through the frustrations of circumstance which could turn out to be magic .. what are your thoughts ? .. I meet whenever I want not attached people can only meet when they can get away and lie so wouldn't work for me ... I like honest fun around my needs Fair enough .. attached people lie ? . maybe to their partners for whatever reason but peeps lie to one another everyday so i aint got time to be bothered about that .. single people lie too .. being single or taken doesnt change the person does it .. thing is everyones here to suit their own needs and thats it ...everyones like when i want this and that .. i compromise .. works well for me
Errr yeh, being *taken* makes it a whole different ball game.......you love someone why would you want to go elsewhere, I don't get it.....to me it's just like a dog on heat will fck any bitch that comes along.....
maybe i didnt want to go anywhere else ! .. but nature prevails and you have too ...when a woman does it .. its deemed ok cos she has “needs” and all that .. guys are labelled cheats fact ... im picky so i dont fuck anything im no walking std .. . and singles fuck anything cos they can .. but fair enough opinions were always going be divided ..
Nature prevails and you have to?? Hilarious.. so you married for sex??hahaha
So one post you said you are picky and the previous one you say you have to compromise, see you can’t even keep up with your own lies at this stage..
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"I wasn't sure if I should post in this little, "debate" but I think I'll put my two pence worth in. Yeah I'm a cheater. Read my profile it's all there in black and white. I'm on here and my partner doesn't know. Judge me if you want, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I'm not going to bore you with why I cheat or how my life is going, but I cheat and I've got my reasons. The reason I joined here was to hopefully find someone who is in the same boat as myself. I am open and honest in my profile about why I'm on here and its actually good to see on women's profiles that they make it clear they're not interested in attached guys, that's fine, each to their own, i honestly get why you'd give us " cheaters" a wide berth, certainly makes it a lot easier for everyone. Since I joined, i have met a woman who lives near me and she is married, and she, like me made it clear why she was here. We chatted online for a couple of weeks, getting to know each other. We've since met four times and it's been pretty amazing. Afterwards we both go back to our own lives until our next meet. Yes there's lying, yes theres deceit on both parts and yeah it is difficult trying to arrange hook ups around our busy family lives, but at least we're honest with each other. What really dumbfound me is while reading this thread, I'm finding out there are people on here who claim to be single but in reality they're married or attached ? Wtf ? At the end of the day, I'd rather meet someone who was upfront and honest about their situation than someone who deceives both partner and lover. The last woman I had an affair with, who was single by the way, came online specifically looking for a married guy. When I asked her why she would rather date a married guy, her answer was, I'm sick to death of all the hurt and lies that single guys have brought over the years. " Good on you mate. Im in the same boat and own up to being married and dont care who knows | |||
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"People have different moral compasses, if they are married/ attached and fcking behind their spouses backs then it's on them ....... The big boys club saying *yeh well done lad I'm in same boat and don't care who knows* you sound like a twat end of......" | |||
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"Life is complicated, so are relationships, sometimes they are even broken beyond repair, yet still continue in some form for reasons we may not understand or agree with or even some we can, eg kids, economic ties etc. I cannot walk in anothers shoes..... Yet we often all seek that same thing, peace contentment acceptance, love even. When things break in life, we try to find ways to fix things, sometimes we cant, but if life and love overcome adversity then I cannot judge another for seeking those better things that make life worth living..... We have only this life, how we live it is for us to decide, and then live with the consequences. " best thing ive read today pal .. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging."I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner. | |||
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"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once." This. And in our experience it happens more when the cheated on partner is a woman. | |||
"I’m not married but i have a girlfriend. I have it on my profile. It probably puts a lot of people off but Hopefully there are people out there who don’t mind. Just here for good sex and I don’t see why being married/attached should get in the way of that. " You don't,seriously? | |||
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"I have never met anyone, in my limited life, that when caught cheating it has never been a problem or caused issues in their life. By that alone, surely it would mean that cheating hurts people & therefore the cheater is taking responsibility for other people/s upset and these being the ones they love/d? Invariably this isn't the case and world war 3 tends to ensue with the damage someties lasting a lifetime! Why oh why would I as a happily single person want to play a major role in that scenario? I'm single, have endless possibilities and opportunities so I prefer to take the easier option, with less possibility of drama and causing other people pain " I'm single........ Saying that for a friend | |||
"If their partner finds out and turns up at your door/starts emailing/texting/calling you, you might think differently. Yes, that's happened. More than once." Exactly this! | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner. "And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl | |||
"I wasn't sure if I should post in this little, "debate" but I think I'll put my two pence worth in. Yeah I'm a cheater. Read my profile it's all there in black and white. I'm on here and my partner doesn't know. Judge me if you want, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I'm not going to bore you with why I cheat or how my life is going, but I cheat and I've got my reasons. The reason I joined here was to hopefully find someone who is in the same boat as myself. I am open and honest in my profile about why I'm on here and its actually good to see on women's profiles that they make it clear they're not interested in attached guys, that's fine, each to their own, i honestly get why you'd give us " cheaters" a wide berth, certainly makes it a lot easier for everyone. Since I joined, i have met a woman who lives near me and she is married, and she, like me made it clear why she was here. We chatted online for a couple of weeks, getting to know each other. We've since met four times and it's been pretty amazing. Afterwards we both go back to our own lives until our next meet. Yes there's lying, yes theres deceit on both parts and yeah it is difficult trying to arrange hook ups around our busy family lives, but at least we're honest with each other. What really dumbfound me is while reading this thread, I'm finding out there are people on here who claim to be single but in reality they're married or attached ? Wtf ? At the end of the day, I'd rather meet someone who was upfront and honest about their situation than someone who deceives both partner and lover. The last woman I had an affair with, who was single by the way, came online specifically looking for a married guy. When I asked her why she would rather date a married guy, her answer was, I'm sick to death of all the hurt and lies that single guys have brought over the years. Good on you mate. Im in the same boat and own up to being married and dont care who knows" Would you care if your wife knows then? | |||
"I wasn't sure if I should post in this little, "debate" but I think I'll put my two pence worth in. Yeah I'm a cheater. Read my profile it's all there in black and white. I'm on here and my partner doesn't know. Judge me if you want, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I'm not going to bore you with why I cheat or how my life is going, but I cheat and I've got my reasons. The reason I joined here was to hopefully find someone who is in the same boat as myself. I am open and honest in my profile about why I'm on here and its actually good to see on women's profiles that they make it clear they're not interested in attached guys, that's fine, each to their own, i honestly get why you'd give us " cheaters" a wide berth, certainly makes it a lot easier for everyone. Since I joined, i have met a woman who lives near me and she is married, and she, like me made it clear why she was here. We chatted online for a couple of weeks, getting to know each other. We've since met four times and it's been pretty amazing. Afterwards we both go back to our own lives until our next meet. Yes there's lying, yes theres deceit on both parts and yeah it is difficult trying to arrange hook ups around our busy family lives, but at least we're honest with each other. What really dumbfound me is while reading this thread, I'm finding out there are people on here who claim to be single but in reality they're married or attached ? Wtf ? At the end of the day, I'd rather meet someone who was upfront and honest about their situation than someone who deceives both partner and lover. The last woman I had an affair with, who was single by the way, came online specifically looking for a married guy. When I asked her why she would rather date a married guy, her answer was, I'm sick to death of all the hurt and lies that single guys have brought over the years. Good on you mate. Im in the same boat and own up to being married and dont care who knows Would you care if your wife knows then? "God all these questions I'd be confused by now | |||
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"For all those playing around behind their partners backs, it does matter. It matters when you get found out by said spouse. There will be consequences, and unlikely to be good ones for you, partner, kids and the third person you are cheating with. Enjoy your fun while it lasts, it's unlikely you'll get away with it indefinitely. Some of us want no part in it and don't appreciate being lied to for you to fulfil your needs. " this is an equal opportunities monologue men and women unfortunately cheat and in the swinging world it is rife don't be naive love you wife or your life | |||
"For all those playing around behind their partners backs, it does matter. It matters when you get found out by said spouse. There will be consequences, and unlikely to be good ones for you, partner, kids and the third person you are cheating with. Enjoy your fun while it lasts, it's unlikely you'll get away with it indefinitely. Some of us want no part in it and don't appreciate being lied to for you to fulfil your needs. this is an equal opportunities monologue men and women unfortunately cheat and in the swinging world it is rife don't be naive love you wife or your life "your wife | |||
"Life is complicated, so are relationships, sometimes they are even broken beyond repair, yet still continue in some form for reasons we may not understand or agree with or even some we can, eg kids, economic ties etc. I cannot walk in anothers shoes..... Yet we often all seek that same thing, peace contentment acceptance, love even. When things break in life, we try to find ways to fix things, sometimes we cant, but if life and love overcome adversity then I cannot judge another for seeking those better things that make life worth living..... We have only this life, how we live it is for us to decide, and then live with the consequences. best thing ive read today pal .. "But finding your own happiness over the detriment of other people's feelings? I just don't get cheaters... Selfishness is what springs in my mind. | |||
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"It's not swinging, it's cheating. Pure and simple. Swinging is with consent and meant to be open an honest. Are the cheaters masquerading as swingers open and honest with their partners? I suspect not in most cases. This means they are not, in fact swjngers. " their aren't any written down rules anywhere though nothing is ever black and white and maybe she in this case knows and doesn't care, let's face it some women are astute, obviously it causes upset and angst if they get caught, when they get caught but only they know why they do it, most women I've known who cheated didn't have a conscience related to it | |||
"Life is complicated, so are relationships, sometimes they are even broken beyond repair, yet still continue in some form for reasons we may not understand or agree with or even some we can, eg kids, economic ties etc. I cannot walk in anothers shoes..... Yet we often all seek that same thing, peace contentment acceptance, love even. When things break in life, we try to find ways to fix things, sometimes we cant, but if life and love overcome adversity then I cannot judge another for seeking those better things that make life worth living..... We have only this life, how we live it is for us to decide, and then live with the consequences. " Most sensible comment on here | |||
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"Life is complicated, so are relationships, sometimes they are even broken beyond repair, yet still continue in some form for reasons we may not understand or agree with or even some we can, eg kids, economic ties etc. I cannot walk in anothers shoes..... Yet we often all seek that same thing, peace contentment acceptance, love even. When things break in life, we try to find ways to fix things, sometimes we cant, but if life and love overcome adversity then I cannot judge another for seeking those better things that make life worth living..... We have only this life, how we live it is for us to decide, and then live with the consequences. Most sensible comment on here "Il second that kinda similar to my point only beter put across x | |||
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"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl "You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!! | |||
"In my experience (based on 2 meets) attached men aren’t for me. They can be paranoid and there is never much spontaneity. I don’t find anything fun about a meet that gets planned weeks in advanced just to get cancelled last minute, and then on the occasions where the meet does go ahead, they are watching the clock. When I’m with someone I like to be the centre of their attention (as they are mine) and I’ve just never felt like when meeting attached men." twice lol | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl
You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!! "Well maybe it’s your age that’s causing the issue with my remark making no sense! Never mind though x | |||
"In my experience (based on 2 meets) attached men aren’t for me. They can be paranoid and there is never much spontaneity. I don’t find anything fun about a meet that gets planned weeks in advanced just to get cancelled last minute, and then on the occasions where the meet does go ahead, they are watching the clock. When I’m with someone I like to be the centre of their attention (as they are mine) and I’ve just never felt like when meeting attached men.twice lol "Enough to not want to gamble on a third, thanks. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl
You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!!
Well maybe it’s your age that’s causing the issue with my remark making no sense! Never mind though x"I’m not that old! | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl
You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!!
Well maybe it’s your age that’s causing the issue with my remark making no sense! Never mind though x
I’m not that old! "yes shes not old godamnit I'm 49 and she's younger than me | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl
You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!!
Well maybe it’s your age that’s causing the issue with my remark making no sense! Never mind though x
I’m not that old! yes shes not old godamnit I'm 49 and she's younger than me "I’m 48 actually. Still younger but not much.  | |||
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"I know the majority of my ‘fab’ friends I’ve become acquainted with that state they are single aren’t, to be honest it’s how I like it - keeps things nsa. If I wanted things like meals out etc... I’d be on a dating site. " What if you want a swinging partner and meals out in one person? | |||
"I know the majority of my ‘fab’ friends I’ve become acquainted with that state they are single aren’t, to be honest it’s how I like it - keeps things nsa. If I wanted things like meals out etc... I’d be on a dating site. What if you want a swinging partner and meals out in one person? " Sounds like an ideal ticket. Each to their own though. | |||
"I know the majority of my ‘fab’ friends I’ve become acquainted with that state they are single aren’t, to be honest it’s how I like it - keeps things nsa. If I wanted things like meals out etc... I’d be on a dating site. What if you want a swinging partner and meals out in one person? " I don’t - it’s definitely not what I’m after in my swinging life, I know some people want that but not me and I’ve seen friends do that and In reality it’s a relationship in everything but name - people just wont admit to it. We all use fab how we want to use it’s that’s the beauty of it | |||
"I know the majority of my ‘fab’ friends I’ve become acquainted with that state they are single aren’t, to be honest it’s how I like it - keeps things nsa. If I wanted things like meals out etc... I’d be on a dating site. What if you want a swinging partner and meals out in one person? I don’t - it’s definitely not what I’m after in my swinging life, I know some people want that but not me and I’ve seen friends do that and In reality it’s a relationship in everything but name - people just wont admit to it. We all use fab how we want to use it’s that’s the beauty of it " I didn’t mean you specifically, I was referring to the dating site comment. If someone wanted to find a kinky/swinging person but also enjoys company outside the bedroom then here is as good as any place. | |||
"You're all mad. Most on here are cheating behind their partners backs and telling you they're single, fact! Most don't care as most lack moral fiber, fact. Let's just all be selfish and think about ourselves.
Very true. How people think they can determine if a person is in a relationship or not is a joke.
It’s not hard if you spend lots of time with someone.
Then you’re in a relationship and not casually swinging.
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just spending lots of time with someone I get on with. Not putting labels as we are both free to meet others. Im not into casual swinging anyway. I only swing with a willing partner.
And I’m free to define casual swinging how I like girl
You make no sense. I was referring to knowing if someone is single or not and how I get to know my sexual partners, it would be hard to hide a partner. Less of the girl, I’m older than you!!
Well maybe it’s your age that’s causing the issue with my remark making no sense! Never mind though x
I’m not that old! yes shes not old godamnit I'm 49 and she's younger than me
I’m 48 actually. Still younger but not much. "Never said you were old, you’re the one quoting you’re older than me, so merely suggested in a round about way, that you wear the cap. Looks like a good fit from here x | |||
