"Because if I'm the most beautiful woman someone has ever seen, they need to get out more! "
The ridiculous over the top nature of them gives them away a lot of the time.
Generally yes, and I'm usually right. I do try to accept compliments, but I'm a bit jaded. |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
women do yes it involves their knickers  |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
Not if they live bloody hundreds of miles away, nope.
Local, more likely! But hey, doesn't bother me. Always nice to get compliments 
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I accept compliments better in life not here though the "you're gorgeous" inspires a "you're looking at my photos not me" attitude from me. How, apart from "well written profile" or "like ya photos" can you actually compliment someone you have never seen let alone met? Puzzles me tbh |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
Had it tried on me so I'd say yes. I'm not trusting a 'friendly' bloke unless we've met at a social and/or he participates in forums. |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
Not always but 99% of the time yes. |
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Funny we where discussing this very issue this morning.
More to the point the trend of over familiar terms of endearment.
The paraphrase
Good morning my dream woman, how's the most beautiful woman on here your a dream come true babe you are amazing and a hottie of the highest quality babes xx
This is not a direct quote.
But you get the gist.
I dunno it's really difficult messaging people on here but it's possible to go too far.
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Good morning my dream woman, how's the most beautiful woman on here your a dream come true babe you are amazing and a hottie of the highest quality babes xx"
I’m stealing this. Will let you know how I get on Mr. |
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Good morning my dream woman, how's the most beautiful woman on here your a dream come true babe you are amazing and a hottie of the highest quality babes xx
I’m stealing this. Will let you know how I get on Mr. "
Omg, you're the sexiest woman on Fab, I bet you stop traffic! I just can't get over how stunning you are! Mmm, mmm, mmmm!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I think all compliments given on this site have an ulterior motive. The person sending the comment is hoping for a message back"
I don't necessarily think that's the case, but can see how it may be the perception - I don't give or accept compliments too easily, so when I do give them they're certainly genuine and without ulterior motive - however because of the nature of the site they are certainly diluted to the point that it's only people that know me who appreciate them for how genuine they are.
That said, I think it's usually easy to spot the false flattery type, that allude to the intended recipient being "the best", "most" and other superlatives that simply couldn't be true |
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I'm suspicious of all compliments that come from people I've not interacted with before. I might choose to accept them, but I won't take any strings that might try to follow them.
I like giving compliments and raising people up, but here I do it carefully given the suspicion it naturally attracts. |
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"Funny we where discussing this very issue this morning.
More to the point the trend of over familiar terms of endearment.
The paraphrase
Good morning my dream woman, how's the most beautiful woman on here your a dream come true babe you are amazing and a hottie of the highest quality babes xx
This is not a direct quote.
But you get the gist.
I dunno it's really difficult messaging people on here but it's possible to go too far.
Lol"
The thing that gets me is how quickly they will go from the above, to the complete opposite when you turn them down (something along the lines of "I wasn't really interested, you are a fat pig"). Not all guys take rejection badly, but some are real charmers. |
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"Funny we where discussing this very issue this morning.
More to the point the trend of over familiar terms of endearment.
The paraphrase
Good morning my dream woman, how's the most beautiful woman on here your a dream come true babe you are amazing and a hottie of the highest quality babes xx
This is not a direct quote.
But you get the gist.
I dunno it's really difficult messaging people on here but it's possible to go too far.
Lol
The thing that gets me is how quickly they will go from the above, to the complete opposite when you turn them down (something along the lines of "I wasn't really interested, you are a fat pig"). Not all guys take rejection badly, but some are real charmers. "
Yeah never understood what they hope to gain by that approach |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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It’s difficult to accept compliments from folk when they’re telling you you’re so beautiful when all they can see is your lingerie. I take everything with a pinch of salt on here. If they compliment me on my boobs then I would take that because my boobs are beautiful  |
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"It’s difficult to accept compliments from folk when they’re telling you you’re so beautiful when all they can see is your lingerie. I take everything with a pinch of salt on here. If they compliment me on my boobs then I would take that because my boobs are beautiful "
you're boobs are beautiful and they say a person looks like their boobs so you must be beautiful or is that their dog oh my  |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
I've just had a woman from a couple message me a few days ago and I'm sure she had an ulterior motive !
Unfortunately it was to scam me not shag me ! |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
Usually.. but not always. Some guys just like to pass on a compliment and they are always lovely to hear. |
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"If it's on here isn't that kind of a given? That's not saying it's a bad thing just that if someone messages me anything on here I assume their intention is to have sex with me."
Just correcting this to say there are occassional exceptions like people asking where I got certain items of clothing/footwear or someone with questions about Poly but they're in the minority. |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?
Usually.. but not always. Some guys just like to pass on a compliment and they are always lovely to hear. "
This is what I was worried about, I like to compliment people on fab and in real life and wondered if they assumed I was a dirty old man  |
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"Inspired by a comment on another thread.
Do the folks of fab always assume that if a guy messages them nice compliments etc that there's always an ulterior motive to get them into bed ?"
Yes 90% of the time.
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"If it's on here isn't that kind of a given? That's not saying it's a bad thing just that if someone messages me anything on here I assume their intention is to have sex with me.
Just correcting this to say there are occassional exceptions like people asking where I got certain items of clothing/footwear or someone with questions about Poly but they're in the minority."
It's expected for folk to be cynical on here, but I occasionally compliment just because it's a nice thing to do...just looked at your profile and I'm not what your looking for, have no angle other than to say you looking stunning |
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"Why is the motive seen as ulterior. I thought everyone is on here to try and get in someone else's pants?"
It's aimed at the gushing false over the top comments to get in someone's pants rather than genuine chat.
And I've messaged compliments with no intention of meeting because I don't fit there criteria or distance kills it |
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I accept a compliment if its sincere and plausible.. If a guy says you are beautiful/so pretty when I obviously only have bum/boobs/fadge in my public pics then no but if he were to say your boobs are nice or you suit those knickers then I will accept it as he has obviously looked at my profile and complimented me on what he sees |
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"Why is the motive seen as ulterior. I thought everyone is on here to try and get in someone else's pants?
It's aimed at the gushing false over the top comments to get in someone's pants rather than genuine chat.
And I've messaged compliments with no intention of meeting because I don't fit there criteria or distance kills it"
That's what I mean, it's not ulterior. Pointless, but not ulterior.. |
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"Why is the motive seen as ulterior. I thought everyone is on here to try and get in someone else's pants?
It's aimed at the gushing false over the top comments to get in someone's pants rather than genuine chat.
And I've messaged compliments with no intention of meeting because I don't fit there criteria or distance kills it
That's what I mean, it's not ulterior. Pointless, but not ulterior.."
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