Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? |
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Yes they do and there are those that only do it with people they trust, who may also be doing it with people they trust... you get the picture.
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"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "
I always get asked to go bareback! My answer is always no  |
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Yes, people do. When we were in our early twenties nearly everyone did, condoms were only used to help protect against pregnancy.
The last thing we want is for people to be wary about saying they play bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep.
It's weird...I don't do it either, yet I'm able to say so without shaming those who do.
It's their choice. It's not weird or wrong, just not for you, or I.
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?"
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger. |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger."
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one. |
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"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "
Two people to meet and asked to go bareback .. u lucky fucker ... even one asking go for a finger would be a result lol .. |
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"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.
Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.
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6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol |
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"Yes they do and there are those that only do it with people they trust, who may also be doing it with people they trust... you get the picture.
Your body, your choice. My choice would be no thank you "
this is what worries me that circle okay I trust him ok he trusts her she trusts him where would it end. Thankfully not my game if its mentioned its an instant block. But different strokes for different folks wouldn't be me in that circle |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens. |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."
Exactly this 
We went to swinging clubs, house parties, dogging, hotel meets, met for one to one, and had stacks of group sex. And in nine years we only met 2 people who wanted protected oral sex. Neither got it from us, and one guy who said he wanted to wear a condom for a bj one night when we were out with another couple, was politely told to forget it after the other lady had a mouthful of rubber for twenty minutes with no happy ending.
I told the lady who asked me to wear a condom for a bj that I’d rather have a wank. And that’s what I did |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens."
So how would you perform oral sex? |
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"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.
Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.
6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol "
When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess  |
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"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.
Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.
6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol
When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess "
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex? "
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger. |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex?
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger. "
But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.
No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex?
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.
But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.
No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.
Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though. "
I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am. |
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"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.
Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.
6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol
When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess
Sluts!"
That’s a compliment in my eyes, thank you
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex?
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.
But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.
No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.
Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.
I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am."
Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.
I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it. |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one."
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"When we were swinging we never once had protected oral sex. And we had loads of meets.
Zero std’s and we were checked every six weeks.
6 weeks how active r u.. I get checked every 6 decades, that’s how active I am lol
When we were active which was from 2010 - 2018 we had over a thousand meets, so pretty active I guess
Sluts!
That’s a compliment in my eyes, thank you
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex?
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.
But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.
No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.
Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.
I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am.
Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.
I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it. "
How can you day it's weird for people to risk their health when you are in fact doing the same, just at a reduced level.
Everyone is into different things. If something isn't for you, don't worry, just pass it by |
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"What are your views on unprotected oral op?
I guess it depends on how I feel about the person. The risks of catching anything through oral are lower but again it’s not something I’d chance on a first meet with a complete stranger.
Sorry, but I call bullshit.
In 12 years of swinging I've never come across a single person who uses condoms for oral sex. Not one.
Sorry I thought you meant giving oral sex not receiving. This may make me sound like a proper freak but I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex so it’s not something that really happens.
So how would you perform oral sex?
Like I said, if I felt comfortable with the person I would perform oral sex, the risks are much lower for oral and you can generally tell what the person is like and whether it’s too much of a risk. I certainly wouldn’t have unprotected sex with a complete stranger.
But you know you can catch herpes even with a condom, right? Or warts, lice...condoms don't protect against any of that.
No sex is the only safe sex. Protected sex is merely safer.
Yeah I know but weighing up the fun to risk ratio I would risk unprotected sex. Still would want to have sex occasionally though.
I agree. Bareback only happens with my OH. But I don't assume others are weird or wrong for being happy to take more of a risk than I am.
Sorry realised the typo in my last thread.
I guess my use of words wasn’t great, it’s weird to me why people would risk their health. Each to their own but it’s certainly not for me and I was interested to get other people’s views on it.
How can you day it's weird for people to risk their health when you are in fact doing the same, just at a reduced level.
Everyone is into different things. If something isn't for you, don't worry, just pass it by "
I have passed it by. |
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"Do people really meet and have unprotected sex with complete strangers? I’ve been asked by 2 separate people today to do it. Not a chance in a million years would I take that risk. Do some people actually risk it though or are these women weird? "
Their preference, you said no, they know the risk: their monkey, their circus.
I have enough business of my own to take on anyone else's. |
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