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A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
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"I spy all my hotlistees with green arrow and make sure to post right after them on every single thread if possible."
I would say that’s perfectly acceptable behaviour and hope that it stands you in good stead. You are only expressing interest after all, openly and without shame. |
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over a year ago
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
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like anyone would admit to it lol  |
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
like anyone would admit to it lol "
Ain’t that the truth |
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To answer the first part I try to portray myself as "cool" about other people having fun, but I do get a little jealous when people I fancy are more interested in others.
I don't think I show it though, but others might think differently. |
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"I’m not a stalker but sometimes I weep a fresh tear of regret when my message doesn’t get answered.
I don’t show it though because if there’s one thing worse than a stalker, it’s a needy stalker  "
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"Very good question actually. 
I'm exactly what it says on my profile although much more reserved in person from my Forum persona. "
Thank you kind sir, it was just a thought, a simple question. No cats and pigeons here |
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I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments . |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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It's a good question but I'm not sure it's one that can be answered from ones own single point of view.
I believe that I am straightforward, sharing and sometimes caring in this Fab world. I'm happy for people I like to find each other and have great, uncomplicated sex. That does mean that sometimes I lose out on the sex-side because I move entirely into the friend zone when I was hoping more for the share-plate.
In low moods I might get a pang of 'why not me?' ism but that's about my internal demons. And being sex-starved.
Friends and hotlists lets you know when those you have an interest in get a new verification and I'm nosey so I will look. I congratulated someone on their new one just this week.
How others view me might be completely different and who is to say which is the correct reading?
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments . "
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps "
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
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"It's a good question but I'm not sure it's one that can be answered from ones own single point of view.
I believe that I am straightforward, sharing and sometimes caring in this Fab world. I'm happy for people I like to find each other and have great, uncomplicated sex. That does mean that sometimes I lose out on the sex-side because I move entirely into the friend zone when I was hoping more for the share-plate.
In low moods I might get a pang of 'why not me?' ism but that's about my internal demons. And being sex-starved.
Friends and hotlists lets you know when those you have an interest in get a new verification and I'm nosey so I will look. I congratulated someone on their new one just this week.
How others view me might be completely different and who is to say which is the correct reading?
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Ah Ms Lickety, we all have our green-eyed moments, of this I have no doubt, but I couldn't imagine for one minute you would articulate that to anyone you desired, some of us silently fumed I guess, whilst others not so. |
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
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Taff!!!! Make it so! |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
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It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way  |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way "
I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too ! |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way
I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too ! "
I get sexually frustrated when I see your melons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way
I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too !
I get sexually frustrated when I see your melons "
Same here ! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way "
Back to your OP and my response, my view of that is very different. Two third parties had a hand in that and you have always had the choice to let me know if you're here in London. Who's view is correct? |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way
I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too ! "
It's real, oh boy it's real |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way
I can feel some sexual frustated tension between you too !
It's real, oh boy it's real"
Sending you virtual hugs |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
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To paraphrase an ad: And the shirt is gone! |
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"I am actually the opposite of what I am trying to portray on here
I like that shirt - keep portraying it.
(Sorry, OP. Did I mention I'm sex-starved?)
It's all cool, if you hadn't friend zoned me 4 years ago, who knows? Next time your this way
Back to your OP and my response, my view of that is very different. Two third parties had a hand in that and you have always had the choice to let me know if you're here in London. Who's view is correct? "
My view obviously Ms Lickety, keep up!! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's an interesting question and one I've been discussing with a few friends recently. I think, yes, I am but with an exception.
I have absolutely no desire to engage in more than a good friendship and fucking with anyone on the site. Yes, I talk a lot but I like talking. Who they meet is of no concern to me; I'm more likely to be cheerleadering them on than making disparaging remarks. I quite like seeing new veris pop up from friends, in an odd way it's nice to see that people are meeting others and have fun, it's like a form of compersion. If someone came back on the site I might find it a bit more difficult but the likelihood of that is 0.25%. Sometimes I don't understand how people can meet someone so different from me but that's not in a malicious way.
The only way I differ from how I can come across on the fora is I can be prone to overthinking and uncertainty rather than the confident person I seem to be. But I'm working on that. |
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
Taff!!!! Make it so! "
Oh there is room in the pod for 3  |
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
Taff!!!! Make it so!
Oh there is room in the pod for 3 "
Right I am going to make this happen now, be warned, I am on the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
Taff!!!! Make it so!
Oh there is room in the pod for 3
Right I am going to make this happen now, be warned, I am on the case"
spiffing |
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"To answer the first part I try to portray myself as "cool" about other people having fun, but I do get a little jealous when people I fancy are more interested in others.
I don't think I show it though, but others might think differently."
I like this honest response and I feel the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am exactly what I seem. Not sure I've managed to get that across in my profile though.
Hardest part is convincing other fabbers that I am. Solution to that,still eludes me |
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"I’m just another cliche
Any cliche
Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable what about lacey? "
I’ll ask her when she gets back from her weekly parking lesson |
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"I’m just another cliche
Any cliche
Just pick one and I’m sure it’ll be applicable what about lacey?
I’ll ask her when she gets back from her weekly parking lesson"
After she has cooked your tea, obviously |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I would like to think I am as my profile and persona portrays .
A gentleman who is happy go lucky , a bit silly and lives some what in the past .
Though like all of us I do have my hufty moments .
You and I are peas in a pod (sorry if that isn't a compliment!). But I am sure you keep your huff well under wraps
Sorry to derail slightly... that's a pod I'd like to squeeze into.
Taff!!!! Make it so!
Oh there is room in the pod for 3 "
Where's the clapping emoji? |
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
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I'd say that's the right attitude that you have |
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
I'd say that's the right attitude that you have "
I like your bum |
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
I'd say that's the right attitude that you have
I like your bum"
your cock looks magnificent |
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"A strange question perhaps but are you? Perhaps more aimed at the “gentlemen” of fab. Do you portray yourself as someone who is relaxed, open minded, laissez faire, who delights in knowing that their fellow fabbers are out there enjoying themselves.
When really you watch your “targets” profile like a hawk, pouncing on any verifications given and received with derogatory comments about the people they have met?
Me? I own no one, and this is the life I lead, I feel it would be conceited and quite irrational (nay controlling and frightening) to message someone, criticise their choices and then make derogatory remarks about that person. I would never dream of discussing someone’s previous choices, if I didn’t like their choices, I simply wouldn’t message them but perhaps I have a testosterone deficiency.
I'd say that's the right attitude that you have
I like your bum
your cock looks magnificent "
knock it off or I will blush  |
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