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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Help !, my missus is for ever complaining at the lack of male pics on cpls profiles. Yes, the women are beautiful, sexy etc, but the ladies also want to see what they may potentially be getting to grips with, and no, I don't mean just a cock shot.
Do you think it's out of order to expect to see cpls profiles with BOTH people shown ?.
As for getting face pics of both - don't get us started 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Help !, my missus is for ever complaining at the lack of male pics on cpls profiles. Yes, the women are beautiful, sexy etc, but the ladies also want to see what they may potentially be getting to grips with, and no, I don't mean just a cock shot.
Do you think it's out of order to expect to see cpls profiles with BOTH people shown ?.
As for getting face pics of both - don't get us started
xx"
Yes we completely agree. We started using other sites due to the amount of profiles like that on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very honest of you x
Im nothing special, and men don't take as nice a pic as the ladies (generaly) in all your sexy play gear, but we are a cple and it's only fair and respectful - also saves wasting peoples time if either of us doesn't float your boat |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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I’m totally with you and would feel the same frustration when we were looking too.
At the moment ours is top heavy with me, but then again we’re not meeting right now and I’m just piss farting about so I don’t feel bad about that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plenty of both of us on ours x"
And that's how it should be - gold star and big soppy kiss to you and the other cpls who realise a cple means two people xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of both of us on ours x
And that's how it should be - gold star and big soppy kiss to you and the other cpls who realise a cple means two people xx"
You have some super hot pics x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a couple of hubby...but we are just as guilty of this as everyone else. I blame him, he hates his pic taken "
This is us exactly, G is the same. But if that’s enough to put someone off, there isn’t a lot I can do about it. There’s a few and face pics or pic as well for friends -Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree. It's also nice to know which one of you is sending the message  "
If we do a reply, whoever is replying puts there name first and we alsways address the message to BOTH x |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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As with most things about profiles.
it's their profile their choice. 
if it doesn't attract whom they seek (puts others off for whatever reason) they'll need to change something. If the profile doesn't interest you op for whatever readon.. press back and find a profile that does. .simples.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As with most things about profiles.
it's their profile their choice.
if it doesn't attract whom they seek (puts others off for whatever reason) they'll need to change something. If the profile doesn't interest you op for whatever readon.. press back and find a profile that does. .simples.
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Thats true - if you are searching - but what if it's the people contacting you ?
Thats the point here.
Yes, you can ignore, otherwise you are back to the original reason for this thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had a look and 18 out of 110 public pics are of both of us together or Paul only. There are more in private so think we have enough."
It's a great, sexy profile - well done guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah.
We’re not interested in guys for sexual purposes, more pictures of lady’s the better
We just assume the guy isn’t involved in any play which suits us perfectly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah.
We’re not interested in guys for sexual purposes, more pictures of lady’s the better
We just assume the guy isn’t involved in any play which suits us perfectly.
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Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if the man is getting involved then you need pictures of him. I do notice it too, lots of pictures of female and maybe one of the man. I don't think a cock pic is sufficient enough. I imagine most would be happy to send more pictures through private messages if you asked though.
I have a couples profile but no pictures of my partner as he isn't looking to meet and likes his privacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree. It's also nice to know which one of you is sending the message "
I am terrible for this, but we don’t cold message people. If we sent a message to someone we didn’t talk to, I would definitely identify and if it was a single woman, I would message rather than G just because of fake profiles.
When I reply off the back of forum posts and I don’t think I forget to say. I’m good about it on the forums most of the time. - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are more of me but that's just because we have more of me than him. But I like to see equal ish amount too! K X
And very nice they are too  "
As are yours! |
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"Just had a look and 18 out of 110 public pics are of both of us together or Paul only. There are more in private so think we have enough.
It's a great, sexy profile - well done guys x"
Likewise xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are more of me but that's just because we have more of me than him. But I like to see equal ish amount too! K X
And very nice they are too
As are yours! "
Blush - thank you x |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"As with most things about profiles.
it's their profile their choice.
if it doesn't attract whom they seek (puts others off for whatever reason) they'll need to change something. If the profile doesn't interest you op for whatever readon.. press back and find a profile that does. .simples.
Thats true - if you are searching - but what if it's the people contacting you ?
Thats the point here.
Yes, you can ignore, otherwise you are back to the original reason for this thread"
Ok.. their profile, their choice. If for whatever reason whether you're proactively looking or reactively .. if it doesn't tick your boxes.. move on. You can't police others profiles.
There are countless threads as often as not aimed at guys suggesting pictures for profiles.. the concensus is variety.. same applies to all genders. If they're not attracting the folk they'd like to meet they'll need to change sommething.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a problem with some profiles, difficult to get that four way attraction. We’d like to think we portray an even balance with our profile/pictures.In a club environment one can see instantly of both partners so a lot easier to make a decision.This swinging lark is a funny ole game at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a problem with some profiles, difficult to get that four way attraction. We’d like to think we portray an even balance with our profile/pictures.In a club environment one can see instantly of both partners so a lot easier to make a decision.This swinging lark is a funny ole game at times "
It's a very sexy profile of you BOTH, and yes, socialising / playing at a club does eliminate the issue x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours is mainly me because he is rubbish at having his picture taken. Also because the profile was initially just mine, we changed it to a couples one. Another reason is that he’s away for 8 months so only I’m meeting.
We have private pics of him if people send us pics of them, and we’re likely to be close enough to meet.
I like having my photo taken, he doesn’t, so it suits us. Personally it doesn’t bother us if others have profiles like ours, we just share pics when we get chatting x Viv x |
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Some people do contact us and attach a picture of the guy which is fair enough. The reason we don't interact with profiles where there are none of him is because from experience if there aren't any no matter what the profile says the guy isn't interested in playing. They usually just want to watch their partner with another guy or even with another woman (despite me (f) being straight). Obviously that isn't always the case but it's happened enough times now for us to make it one of our filters.
When it comes to messages as far as we're concerned they all come from both of us, it's a couple's profile. Would anyone respond differently depending on who signed it?
As a lot of people have said it's up to the individual couple how they run their profile though and I agree with that. |
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"Some people do contact us and attach a picture of the guy which is fair enough. The reason we don't interact with profiles where there are none of him is because from experience if there aren't any no matter what the profile says the guy isn't interested in playing. They usually just want to watch their partner with another guy or even with another woman (despite me (f) being straight). Obviously that isn't always the case but it's happened enough times now for us to make it one of our filters.
When it comes to messages as far as we're concerned they all come from both of us, it's a couple's profile. Would anyone respond differently depending on who signed it?
As a lot of people have said it's up to the individual couple how they run their profile though and I agree with that. "
This exactly x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We agree, OP. We have pictures of both of us available. "
Well done guys
However, reading some previous comments I think I may have it all wrong.
Despite me being in the lifestyle for around 15yrs and having had a number of different couples / singles profiles over those years on fab. Maybe we should just automatically assume that if there are no pics of the male in public OR friends then the male takes no active part and just likes to watch 
 Moment xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is annoying...but you can't dictate the way others run their profiles....
On my couples profile we have pics of us both, but only my face pics are public, we've had grief about that. |
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I think it's up to couples to run their profiles how they see fit and for those just searching single ladies or where the man doesn't play they have their reasons for not having pics of the male.
Having said that we get so many messages and winks from couples with absolutely no pictures of the guy it's really frustrating. I always used to message back and ask for pics but now I use it more as a filter for those couples we wouldn't be compatible with. If I have to ask for pictures when they have contacted us first I tend not to bother.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's up to couples to run their profiles how they see fit and for those just searching single ladies or where the man doesn't play they have their reasons for not having pics of the male.
Having said that we get so many messages and winks from couples with absolutely no pictures of the guy it's really frustrating. I always used to message back and ask for pics but now I use it more as a filter for those couples we wouldn't be compatible with. If I have to ask for pictures when they have contacted us first I tend not to bother.
Red"
Spot on Red
Agree with all your comments, especially when being contacted first.
Yours is a terrific profile btw  |
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Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty  ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We agree totally and try and have a mix on ours although my wife is obviously more attractive lol.
When we message people we send them a clear face picture of us both together in the 1 pic. It's amazing how hard getting a picture of the other male in a couple can be at times x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time. "
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time. "
It's a shame some people think this thread is about policing others profiles or being nosey etc.
It really isn't and I'm sorry if people view it that way.
It's more about realising that the woman in a couples profile is also intrested in seeing the guy.
We are all different and all looking for different things and I respect that.
Wasn't being nasty to anyone or wishing to cause offence x |
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
It's a shame some people think this thread is about policing others profiles or being nosey etc.
It really isn't and I'm sorry if people view it that way.
It's more about realising that the woman in a couples profile is also intrested in seeing the guy.
We are all different and all looking for different things and I respect that.
Wasn't being nasty to anyone or wishing to cause offence x"
I don't think anyone took offence. But look at it from this point of view. The vast majority here with couples photos have the photos taken by the male. How often does the female take the initiative and take photos of the male, very very rarely. I can't take a decent selfie to save my life and I don't think Mrs has ever offered to take photos for me. I suspect this is the case with most couples. Maybe we should be asking the girls to get behind the camera and show of their men instead of the other way around |
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
P"
Me too!
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"I think it's up to couples to run their profiles how they see fit and for those just searching single ladies or where the man doesn't play they have their reasons for not having pics of the male.
Having said that we get so many messages and winks from couples with absolutely no pictures of the guy it's really frustrating. I always used to message back and ask for pics but now I use it more as a filter for those couples we wouldn't be compatible with. If I have to ask for pictures when they have contacted us first I tend not to bother.
Red
Spot on Red
Agree with all your comments, especially when being contacted first.
Yours is a terrific profile btw "
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"Maybe the guys don't measure up to their beautiful wives  "
you could be right but some of the most attractive people we have met here turned out to be complete Aholes. It doesn't matter what weight you are punching at as long as you are punching. Beauty doesn't = personality |
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
P"
Pffffft, give over. You guys inject humour and lust in your photos. That's rare here and brilliant. Excellent profile guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is annoying...but you can't dictate the way others run their profiles....
On my couples profile we have pics of us both, but only my face pics are public, we've had grief about that."
Grief in what way? |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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There are only a few of me and most are of S, but at least we've tried to give an idea. If we have contact with people we do have and send face pics of us both.
As you say, it is difficult, especially for the male half of a couple, when there are no male pics on couples profiles. If I see something I like then there also needs to be something for S to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something that bugs me (female half) as well. Obviously people should run their profiles how they want, but if a couple's profile only has pics of the woman, it's a no from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help !, my missus is for ever complaining at the lack of male pics on cpls profiles. Yes, the women are beautiful, sexy etc, but the ladies also want to see what they may potentially be getting to grips with, and no, I don't mean just a cock shot.
Do you think it's out of order to expect to see cpls profiles with BOTH people shown ?.
As for getting face pics of both - don't get us started
xx"
you have some great photos OP nothing wrong with any of them.
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"Help !, my missus is for ever complaining at the lack of male pics on cpls profiles. Yes, the women are beautiful, sexy etc, but the ladies also want to see what they may potentially be getting to grips with, and no, I don't mean just a cock shot.
Do you think it's out of order to expect to see cpls profiles with BOTH people shown ?.
As for getting face pics of both - don't get us started
xx"
I think both partners should be in the photos. It's only fair to see both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
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Pffffft, give over. You guys inject humour and lust in your photos. That's rare here and brilliant. Excellent profile guys "
Aw, thanks very much! 
We do get a nice warm glow when people tell us they appreciate them, especially those who have clearly taken the time and effort over their own galleries!
Out of curiosity we did count up how many pics there are of each of us on our profile and for our public gallery of currently 175 pics came up with 75 solo pics of P and 31 of B? As othershave said, a lot to do with the fact that B has developed quite a passion for taking such shots... Clearly more of P, but we don't think anyone could not get a good idea of what we're both like.
Also we came out with 69 pics with BOTH of us in together, split probably about half between us both about equally and the other half where it's almost all of one of us with a fraction of the other sneaking into view ha (on both sides)
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
P
Pffffft, give over. You guys inject humour and lust in your photos. That's rare here and brilliant. Excellent profile guys
Aw, thanks very much!
We do get a nice warm glow when people tell us they appreciate them, especially those who have clearly taken the time and effort over their own galleries!
Out of curiosity we did count up how many pics there are of each of us on our profile and for our public gallery of currently 175 pics came up with 75 solo pics of P and 31 of B? As othershave said, a lot to do with the fact that B has developed quite a passion for taking such shots... Clearly more of P, but we don't think anyone could not get a good idea of what we're both like.
Also we came out with 69 pics with BOTH of us in together, split probably about half between us both about equally and the other half where it's almost all of one of us with a fraction of the other sneaking into view ha (on both sides)
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you just love taking pics don't you |
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"Really good topic. We have stated in our profile for a long time that we won't speak to couples without showing photos of the male as well. It cuts the chance of turning up to a meet and having to walk out. Not that it would ever get that far without veri photos anyway. I (the male) post a few of myself more so to let people know what kind of shape I'm in (It's not always pretty ) but as she isn't bothered taking photos I tend to have her in front of the camera 95% of the time.
You're photos are bloody fantabulous. I have picture envy right now
P
Pffffft, give over. You guys inject humour and lust in your photos. That's rare here and brilliant. Excellent profile guys
Aw, thanks very much!
We do get a nice warm glow when people tell us they appreciate them, especially those who have clearly taken the time and effort over their own galleries!
Out of curiosity we did count up how many pics there are of each of us on our profile and for our public gallery of currently 175 pics came up with 75 solo pics of P and 31 of B? As othershave said, a lot to do with the fact that B has developed quite a passion for taking such shots... Clearly more of P, but we don't think anyone could not get a good idea of what we're both like.
Also we came out with 69 pics with BOTH of us in together, split probably about half between us both about equally and the other half where it's almost all of one of us with a fraction of the other sneaking into view ha (on both sides)
you just love taking pics don't you "
Now what gave you that idea...?
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