I'm really particular what i find sexually attractive. Do other women are similar in this way of thinking or just me being ultra fussy? (yes i dated all sorts of men before deciding what type i mostly enjoy having sex with) |
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over a year ago
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I'm extremely 'fussy' on here. But here for the fantasy, rather than regular life. If I ever settle down again. I know that he won't be exactly like the fantasy in my head. I mean David Gandy is taken  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine or would like to imagine most people need a certain amount of physical and personality based attraction. Without that, for me, nothing is happening at all. |
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By *isterXMan
over a year ago
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"I'm really particular what i find sexually attractive. Do other women are similar in this way of thinking or just me being ultra fussy? (yes i dated all sorts of men before deciding what type i mostly enjoy having sex with) "
Very interesting thought !
I think the same about girls body types, but sometimes I may want a bbw sometimes I don't even want to hear about that, for instance 
It's however I feel at the time really... |
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Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money  |
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By *isterXMan
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money "
Fuck yeah, kudos to you dude I feel ya
It's no man's land really ! |
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"Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money
Fuck yeah, kudos to you dude I feel ya
It's no man's land really ! "
1 in 200 men who message me are my type... Sorry for being fussy  |
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I don't really have a physical type... I've both dated and 'met' guys of all shapes and sizes, hair colour, hair length (or lack of), and from various backgrounds. I'm attracted to a quick wit, a sense of mischief, and emotional intelligence.. Creative, imaginative people... But that covers a wide spectrum too
The only thing that does seem to be a serious barrier for me is age. I'm simply not sexually attracted to older men. Never have been. I honestly can't explain it, but it's set in stone, and I doubt somehow that it's going to change after 30 years of being sexually active. It actually used to drive me crazy when older men would say things like I don't know what I'm missing, or the older the fiddle the sweeter the tune, and try to persuade me that they should be the exception to my 'rule'. It's not a rule... It's simply my nature and I can't change it. |
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By *isterXMan
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money
Fuck yeah, kudos to you dude I feel ya
It's no man's land really !
1 in 200 men who message me are my type... Sorry for being fussy "
Sonetimes one that you fancy will fuck up and sometimes the one you reject could do you better than all but that's just life lol
The reason for the one that you don't fancy to do you better than all would be that you may be a trophy for him and doesn't want to dissapoint ?
Our bodies and minds are truly amazing |
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"Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money
Fuck yeah, kudos to you dude I feel ya
It's no man's land really !
1 in 200 men who message me are my type... Sorry for being fussy
Sonetimes one that you fancy will fuck up and sometimes the one you reject could do you better than all but that's just life lol
The reason for the one that you don't fancy to do you better than all would be that you may be a trophy for him and doesn't want to dissapoint ?
Our bodies and minds are truly amazing "
Yes i been through both scenarios. Maybe i think too much like a guy and need someone i find easy on the eye to get truly turned on. But 50% of sex for me is technique. So maybe u could close my eyes and get excited if the guy has got good sexual chemistry with me |
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By *isterXMan
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ermmm...judging by some profiles, fussy isn't the correct word, more like imaginary
I've read all sorts of profiles, some even were so specific that you had to have a certain colour eyes or, specific body parts measurements (for like 10 different body parts) or make X amount of money
Fuck yeah, kudos to you dude I feel ya
It's no man's land really !
1 in 200 men who message me are my type... Sorry for being fussy
Sonetimes one that you fancy will fuck up and sometimes the one you reject could do you better than all but that's just life lol
The reason for the one that you don't fancy to do you better than all would be that you may be a trophy for him and doesn't want to dissapoint ?
Our bodies and minds are truly amazing
Yes i been through both scenarios. Maybe i think too much like a guy and need someone i find easy on the eye to get truly turned on. But 50% of sex for me is technique. So maybe u could close my eyes and get excited if the guy has got good sexual chemistry with me"
I think that's normal and most people are like that including me,saome of us have a natural technique of fucking that would make any pussy k.o !
It's hard to find a good mix, you just have to try, my personal opinion for you would be to start accepting nore the ones that are nearly there but not quite !
50% looks 50% technique being normal let's say you accept 35% looks and leave the rest to experiment in the end it can be a one off and you gain info,socialise and who knows what else ! It's all fun in the end, din't be so serious hehe x |
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"I don't really have a physical type... I've both dated and 'met' guys of all shapes and sizes, hair colour, hair length (or lack of), and from various backgrounds. I'm attracted to a quick wit, a sense of mischief, and emotional intelligence.. Creative, imaginative people... But that covers a wide spectrum too
The only thing that does seem to be a serious barrier for me is age. I'm simply not sexually attracted to older men. Never have been. I honestly can't explain it, but it's set in stone, and I doubt somehow that it's going to change after 30 years of being sexually active. It actually used to drive me crazy when older men would say things like I don't know what I'm missing, or the older the fiddle the sweeter the tune, and try to persuade me that they should be the exception to my 'rule'. It's not a rule... It's simply my nature and I can't change it. "
I fully agree, I'm exactly the same. No attraction to guys my age or older whatsoever. My fwb is 29, and most meets have been the same. Its just the way I'm wired |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like many other things ... isn't this preference?
Nothing wrong with fussy, just knowing what you like"
This. 
Im extremely picky, physically wise one thing for sure is small boobs, killer ass & pretty face.
The important bit is the connection for me.
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
I have a wide range of types for who I would have sex with. That range comes down to who I would want to see as a fb and even tighter with marriage material.
And even tighter with what I call perfection lol. |
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