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over a year ago
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"When someone says 'you are racist, because you only meet Caucasian people'."
Feel good about sticking to your preferences,and smug in the knowledge they are in the wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just don’t say it!
Exactly this. There are ways to decline someone politely if they don’t meet your ‘preferences’."
They messaged me and i merely said sorry, not my type.. they made the assumption..m |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist... "
See this is why I don't say that.
I just delete or say not meeting as it saves all the follow ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist... "
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations"
But he must have told them it was because they are not white.
So I can understand a bad reaction to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected. "
But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.
OP could you clear this up. |
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"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.
But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.
OP could you clear this up. "
He said not his type didn't he?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations
But he must have told them it was because they are not white.
So I can understand a bad reaction to that. "
If you read what he said,sorry not my type.
Yes he went on to explain in the forum he prefers white women,but he did say he put that in his reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.
But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.
OP could you clear this up.
He said not his type didn't he?
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But then he said it was because he only met Caucasian people. If he told them that then I understand him getting a bad reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations
But he must have told them it was because they are not white.
So I can understand a bad reaction to that.
If you read what he said,sorry not my type.
Yes he went on to explain in the forum he prefers white women,but he did say he put that in his reply"
That's why I asked him to clarify! |
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"Just ignore, block and move on. We never say anything about race/colour etc but some people on here play the racism card as soon as they are rejected.
But it very much sounds like that is the reason he gave.
OP could you clear this up.
He said not his type didn't he?
But then he said it was because he only met Caucasian people. If he told them that then I understand him getting a bad reaction. "
I agree, if that's what he said, but as someone said above, he only seems to have said that here in this thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations
But he must have told them it was because they are not white.
So I can understand a bad reaction to that. "
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I said they are not my type. No reference to race/size/hair colour/anything.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
Too many here with a sense of self entitlement and when things don't go their way they resort to name calling and inappropriate accusations
But he must have told them it was because they are not white.
So I can understand a bad reaction to that. .
I said they are not my type. No reference to race/size/hair colour/anything.. "
Then that should be enough. No further need to answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And my preference is Caucasian women/men couples.. doesn't make me racist...
See this is why I don't say that.
I just delete or say not meeting as it saves all the follow ups. "
Me too. |
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I’d suggest those who say that don’t really understand how racism works 
Though that would then lead to some sort of ire I imagine which I couldn’t be bothered with so would save the fuss of it all by not putting it in the game.
Don’t think you’re being racist, think everyone agrees it’s nornal to have preferences but a way to get them across is sometimes disregarded (I’m not saying you did/do).
If someone clearly says something in their profile which means I’m not an option for them then fine, I won’t call them out on it, but others may/do i presume.
Tact and diplomacy sometimes are underrated I think. |
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