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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile and pics are your advert I'd say they need some work 7 cock pics a bit much, your age may be a factor, put personality into messages and never lead with sex or cock pics, send polite messages based on target persons profile, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile and pics are your advert I'd say they need some work 7 cock pics a bit much, your age may be a factor, put personality into messages and never lead with sex or cock pics, send polite messages based on target persons profile, good luck "
Im aware of the too many cock pics but what else do i do? Also i am polite and try to make every message bespoke to the person im messaging but then most dont even get read. Im presuming its my age. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Your profile and pics are your advert I'd say they need some work 7 cock pics a bit much, your age may be a factor, put personality into messages and never lead with sex or cock pics, send polite messages based on target persons profile, good luck
Im aware of the too many cock pics but what else do i do? Also i am polite and try to make every message bespoke to the person im messaging but then most dont even get read. Im presuming its my age."
The normal presumption folk air or excuse they use is something they can't change.. if it is your age 'what ya gonna do?... come back in a few yeRs saying I'm too old... you are what you are.
There are countless threads all suggesting the same tips.. start with those and shdn you've finished reading the thousands you'll be as old as me.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
You keep saying you know you have too many cock pics, and were saying the same t days ago when you posted a similar thread, yet they're still there?
To be fair I've seen worse cock pics, but there are probably too many, if you know it's too many why not move them to Friends/Private?
As for the wider question at hand, there is no magic formula or catch all message type to send, it really is about finding the right thing to say on an individual basis and the right person to say it to - your age will go against you for a lot of people on here, so focus on those that say they are looking for people your age if you're not doing that already.
Having a decent profile and pics is key too - so take a look at yours and ask yourself if you'd meet you based on it, and if the answer is no then make changes.
Having the right attitude, approach and expectations is also key, so look at how you could change those to improve your experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You keep saying you know you have too many cock pics, and were saying the same t days ago when you posted a similar thread, yet they're still there?
To be fair I've seen worse cock pics, but there are probably too many, if you know it's too many why not move them to Friends/Private?
As for the wider question at hand, there is no magic formula or catch all message type to send, it really is about finding the right thing to say on an individual basis and the right person to say it to - your age will go against you for a lot of people on here, so focus on those that say they are looking for people your age if you're not doing that already.
Having a decent profile and pics is key too - so take a look at yours and ask yourself if you'd meet you based on it, and if the answer is no then make changes.
Having the right attitude, approach and expectations is also key, so look at how you could change those to improve your experience."
Okay thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile and pics are your advert I'd say they need some work 7 cock pics a bit much, your age may be a factor, put personality into messages and never lead with sex or cock pics, send polite messages based on target persons profile, good luck
Im aware of the too many cock pics but what else do i do? Also i am polite and try to make every message bespoke to the person im messaging but then most dont even get read. Im presuming its my age."
yes 19 is a bit young for most some have obviously got children older than you but their will be others who will love your youthful exuberance |
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Show a bit of personality in your text. There's no humour or friendliness. It's far too functional. People generally want to meet people they get on with and I doubt anybody would have any idea if they might enjoying your company or not based on what you have written.
There are thousands of men out there. You would just be passed over because don't tell anybody what you are like to yourself apart from the crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone got any tips on improving my chances of getting a meet, or even just getting a reply to messages? Thanks"
Going bi will give you 10 times more options |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone got any tips on improving my chances of getting a meet, or even just getting a reply to messages? Thanks
Going bi will give you 10 times more options"
Didnt realise "going bi" was a choice... |
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