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How Many??

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Guys and Gals...

If you were deemed to be playing with someone fairly regularly, how many times would you allow them to cancel a meet at the last minute before it got on your nerves and enough was enough?

I get that if it's someone new and they dont turn up or consistently cancel, then it's almost a block/delete straight away, that's a given.....

But what about those you've built the relationship/connection with over a longer period, do they get more benefit of the doubt??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Trust your gut instincts

I’d hope if it was someone I’d known a while they’d tell me if they were no longer interested

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I gave someone 2 chances. Been messed about loads for years so not taking it anymore x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Trust your gut instincts. Only you can decide as you know the person

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I was with someone like that for a while, gave him a few chances for a couple of months and gave up after that. It just kind of ground to a halt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My gut is currently full of lemon drizzle cake, so cant be trusted to make an executive decision, but thanks for the feedback Lol

Lots to ponder!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only two.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they were cancelling at the last minute, I could probably only forgive just the once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Av met someone regular for a while now an they’ve had to cancel...

It’s disappointing to say the least after looking forward to it, my attitude is horrible for abit but they must be pretty good at ignoring that bit haha

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

2 cancellations in a row if a first meet. 3 cancellations in a row if a regular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A second chance yes, but never a third. After that I would just stop contacting them and if they didn’t contact me I would know where I stood.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It would depend how well I knew them, if I knew the reasons were genuine or if they seemed like flimsy excuses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 bites of the cherry for me. If its someone regular I'd hope they'd have the decency to let me know if they had moved on.

Trust your gut though, only you know what this person is like and whether they are being genuine or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For the lady of orgasms it would be unlimited as shes earned the right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your already thinking it then you know the answer already x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust your gut instincts

I’d hope if it was someone I’d known a while they’d tell me if they were no longer interested "

This

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Trust your gut instincts

I’d hope if it was someone I’d known a while they’d tell me if they were no longer interested

This

This for me too, I have let people know if the past if I can’t or don’t want to meet them anymore

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