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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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TBH, I did it for my hubby and found it hard, but I did enjoy the massages, the sexy touching and the love making.
I'm trying to do this again for him and by that i mean is that i would not have done it if he had not persuaded me.
Done a few phone chats and quite a few web chats and live cams, but we do not show our face, but i don't get truned on by it
i don't like having my pics taken but when i read the comments, it does turn me on a bit depending on how polite, sexy the comments are.
And thanks to hubby, we have ordered at 10 inch strapon for him as i had to admit i do miss the bigger cocks and do want them but the fear of being exposed by someone that comes to our home worries me.
Hubby is great and like all men I've know, he is sex driven and a nice, caring man and him not being able to keep it really hard for more than a few minutes bothers him but not me.
Btw, has you man ever used a strapon on you and what did you think of it.
For the sake of clarity, I am doing this for him, not forced, but driven to it by him but don't openly admit it to him but do enjoy and I feel he knows. The best thing is him fingering me and trying to fuck me after i've chatted on the phone and the dildo but he wants the strapon so hands free to kiss me all over and "bang" me "hard" as he puts it.
so easy to caht with like minded people you don't know |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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The strap-on certainly sounds like a welcomed addition if you are not too keen on meeting other men to satisfy his needs. Very important your needs are satisfied too and as a couple there is a compromise somewhere and you continue conversing and perhaps continue exploring but at an agreed pace wiyh clear boundaries.
What do you think Tej? xx |
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I’m going to be honest here and say there are big warning bells here for me, I’ve been on here in a couple where one half didn’t want to be here and I’m now single. If this isn’t for you, don’t do it. You don’t sound like this is something you are enjoying xx |
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Admire the honesty. Seems like you don’t enjoy it for you, but I could be wrong. So long as you both get something out of it and not just because the other person likes it. Presume you have discussed it openly, if not then see where it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't fuck strangers.
As others have said, it doesn't sound like you're doing it for the right reasons (ie actually wanting to). But it's your life, your relationship...
I wouldn't be swinging if i didn't want to do it, no matter how much my partner did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should be doing this for you and you only. Yes, of course couple play together and do stuff to turn partners on, but surely you only do what you want to do?
Your post sounds like a cry for help/validation what your doing is great etc. If you don't enjoy it then stop or you will feel worthless etc.
If your husband has problems with his cock, see the doctor or chemist. They can help Him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it comes to sex - you need to only do what YOU really want to do !
I think that if you do something because someone has persuaded you, you put yourself at huge emotional risk. |
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